Seriously why do men lie just to get into a girl’s pants? Do these men have a heart at all?

Posted by saggurl88

Because women believe them and give in. Make them work harder for it. They like the challenge

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Posted by saggurl88

Because women believe them and give in. Make them work harder for it. They like the challenge

Dry humping isn't as fun as it sounds 🤨

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Because their brain lives in their pants

😄😂

my another brain is there as well

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Posted by The_Spirit_of_Alex_Trebek

Maybe women should stop wearing pants... seems like an easy solution 🤔

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Woman use men for sex too.

no, this is not true lol.

tho i don't like the word "use". i loved everyone of them and showed them love, and never ghosted.

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Posted by Antiphates

Last night I heard your voice

You were crying, crying, you were so alone

You said your love had never died

You were waiting for me at home

Put on my jacket, I ran through the woods

I ran till I thought my chest would explode

There in the clearing, beyond the highway

In the moonlight, our wedding house shone

I rushed through the yard

I burst through the front door, my head pounding hard

Up the stairs I climbed

The room was dark, our bed was empty

Then I heard that long whistle whine

And I dropped to my knees, hung my head and cried

Now I swing a sledge hammer on a railroad gang

Knocking down them cross ties, working in the rain

Now, don't it feel like you're a rider on a downbound train

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Posted by GenerousLeeb

Because we let them, and we learn that the hard way.

Better than learning the limp way.

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Posted by Antiphates

Last night I heard your voice

You were crying, crying, you were so alone

You said your love had never died

You were waiting for me at home

Put on my jacket, I ran through the woods

I ran till I thought my chest would explode

There in the clearing, beyond the highway

In the moonlight, our wedding house shone

I rushed through the yard

I burst through the front door, my head pounding hard

Up the stairs I climbed

The room was dark, our bed was empty

Then I heard that long whistle whine

And I dropped to my knees, hung my head and cried

Now I swing a sledge hammer on a railroad gang

Knocking down them cross ties, working in the rain

Now, don't it feel like you're a rider on a downbound train

You can be so romantic!

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Posted by GenerousLeeb

Because we let them, and we learn that the hard way.

Better than learning the limp way.

Is it just me or does this sound like a creepy dead girl joke?

I don't do necro jokes. Only dick jokes.

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Posted by GenerousLeeb

Because we let them, and we learn that the hard way.

Better than learning the limp way.

Is it just me or does this sound like a creepy dead girl joke?

I don't do necro jokes. Only dick jokes.

Got it!

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Posted by saggurl88

@Antiphates

I can always count on you!

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Posted by IMNOTEVENREAL

I’ve seen so many girls rejecting actually good guy and chasing fuccboi and then surprised to be just fucked and not called back . Not interesting anymore

Posted by virghost

it honestly depends you can sleep with a man the first time you meet them if the connection is spot on he'll still respect and date you

are there old school dudes playing games and acting a fool when she's straight forward? yes

not all men but most men will sleep and move on, all you can do is give up on love until it happens or wear a charity belt while having a year long conversation with him until he falls in love

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Posted by virghost

it honestly depends you can sleep with a man the first time you meet them if the connection is spot on he'll still respect and date you

are there old school dudes playing games and acting a fool when she's straight forward? yes

not all men but most men will sleep and move on, all you can do is give up on love until it happens or wear a charity belt while having a year long conversation with him until he falls in love

It's chastidy

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by virghost

it honestly depends you can sleep with a man the first time you meet them if the connection is spot on he'll still respect and date you

are there old school dudes playing games and acting a fool when she's straight forward? yes

not all men but most men will sleep and move on, all you can do is give up on love until it happens or wear a charity belt while having a year long conversation with him until he falls in love

It's chastidy

whoooooooops, I reread it too lol and still said "sounds about right"

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Posted by Gobbie

Wow, no-one has mentioned the elephant in the room...

It's pretty simple really. Whether women want to admit it or not, it all comes down to human nature.

When a human really wants something and, for no real good reason and regardless of morality, someone makes access to what that human desires much more difficult, what do you think that human will do? Find LOOPHOLES.

Most women thought they were being 'clever' by making men jump through hoops, while constantly referring to their extensive (and unrealistic) checklists (as opposed to relying on intuition and common sense). But, all the while, some men saw it all for what it is: a GAME that can be won by CHEATING. After all, why should women enforce so many constraints and demands for the most illogical of reasons?

So, there you go. All women who have been guilty of such game-playing can now give themselves a pat on the back... for making dating far more complicated and difficult than it really needs to be.

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Gobbie

Wow, no-one has mentioned the elephant in the room...

It's pretty simple really. Whether women want to admit it or not, it all comes down to human nature.

When a human really wants something and, for no real good reason and regardless of morality, someone makes access to what that human desires much more difficult, what do you think that human will do? Find LOOPHOLES.

Most women thought they were being 'clever' by making men jump through hoops, while constantly referring to their extensive (and unrealistic) checklists (as opposed to relying on intuition and common sense). But, all the while, some men saw it all for what it is: a GAME that can be won by CHEATING. After all, why should women enforce so many constraints and demands for the most illogical of reasons?

So, there you go. All women who have been guilty of such game-playing can now give themselves a pat on the back... for making dating far more complicated and difficult than it really needs to be.

Sometimes it just comes down to a women not having other qualities that a man is looking for and so they take the sex and bounce.

I agree that game playing can make a man put in work just to get sex, because at that point she doesn’t have anything else to offer anyway and he “might as well” before he leaves.



Sex will not keep a man, so women need to stop offering it up as a quick fix to getting to know him.

It's become so ingrained in modern society that, even if every woman stopped playing games and kept things on the level (be it for just sex or something more substantial), it would take at least two generations for men to realise that the dating dynamics have changed for the better (thus dropping their guards).

Of course, you're still going to get the odd douchebag, but I'm pretty sure the number of men employing deceptive workarounds (how ironic - men fighting fire with... fire) would decrease by at least 75% .

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Posted by Gobbie

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Posted by Gobbie

Wow, no-one has mentioned the elephant in the room...

It's pretty simple really. Whether women want to admit it or not, it all comes down to human nature.

When a human really wants something and, for no real good reason and regardless of morality, someone makes access to what that human desires much more difficult, what do you think that human will do? Find LOOPHOLES.

Most women thought they were being 'clever' by making men jump through hoops, while constantly referring to their extensive (and unrealistic) checklists (as opposed to relying on intuition and common sense). But, all the while, some men saw it all for what it is: a GAME that can be won by CHEATING. After all, why should women enforce so many constraints and demands for the most illogical of reasons?

So, there you go. All women who have been guilty of such game-playing can now give themselves a pat on the back... for making dating far more complicated and difficult than it really needs to be.

Sometimes it just comes down to a women not having other qualities that a man is looking for and so they take the sex and bounce.

I agree that game playing can make a man put in work just to get sex, because at that point she doesn’t have anything else to offer anyway and he “might as well” before he leaves.



Sex will not keep a man, so women need to stop offering it up as a quick fix to getting to know him.

It's become so ingrained in modern society that, even if every woman stopped playing games and kept things on the level (be it for just sex or something more substantial), it would take at least two generations for men to realise that the dating dynamics have changed for the better (thus dropping their guards).

Of course, you're still going to get the odd douchebag, but I'm pretty sure the number of men employing deceptive workarounds (how ironic - men fighting fire with... fire) would decrease by at least 75% .

I agree completely!

Yeah no, that wouldn't happen at all. The "odd douchebag" is over 50% of males. And what if the woman really wants to have sex with the man though? You all talk like women dont get horny.

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Posted by Gobbie

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Posted by Gobbie

Wow, no-one has mentioned the elephant in the room...

It's pretty simple really. Whether women want to admit it or not, it all comes down to human nature.

When a human really wants something and, for no real good reason and regardless of morality, someone makes access to what that human desires much more difficult, what do you think that human will do? Find LOOPHOLES.

Most women thought they were being 'clever' by making men jump through hoops, while constantly referring to their extensive (and unrealistic) checklists (as opposed to relying on intuition and common sense). But, all the while, some men saw it all for what it is: a GAME that can be won by CHEATING. After all, why should women enforce so many constraints and demands for the most illogical of reasons?

So, there you go. All women who have been guilty of such game-playing can now give themselves a pat on the back... for making dating far more complicated and difficult than it really needs to be.

Sometimes it just comes down to a women not having other qualities that a man is looking for and so they take the sex and bounce.

I agree that game playing can make a man put in work just to get sex, because at that point she doesn’t have anything else to offer anyway and he “might as well” before he leaves.



Sex will not keep a man, so women need to stop offering it up as a quick fix to getting to know him.

It's become so ingrained in modern society that, even if every woman stopped playing games and kept things on the level (be it for just sex or something more substantial), it would take at least two generations for men to realise that the dating dynamics have changed for the better (thus dropping their guards).

Of course, you're still going to get the odd douchebag, but I'm pretty sure the number of men employing deceptive workarounds (how ironic - men fighting fire with... fire) would decrease by at least 75% .

I agree completely!

Yeah no, that wouldn't happen at all. The "odd douchebag" is over 50% of males. And what if the woman really wants to have sex with the man though? You all talk like women dont get horny.

yeah no?

If it was what the OP wanted, she wouldn't be upset at just sex. I stayed on topic

"Odd douchebags being 50% of men" have to do with the guys a woman falls for as well.

If you keep falling for the same fucc boy types, the universe will deliver.

You are what you attract.

Staying on topic? whaaat we dont do that here. Fair enough. I may have felt attacced. Although now I feel like youre calling me a fucc boi!!

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Posted by _ang_an

I'm definitely propagating the stereotype that virgos like handsome fucc bois with big dicks.

Posted by hellosaggy

Women have an image of what they want in a man. The men that exude 70% + of women's ideals, realize they have plenty of options, especially if he's attractive. Most guys that complain about not bagging a woman are either beta personalities, or beta looking. Is what it is. You can't really say its men because 58% of society is single and when 97% of people identify as straight... its pretty much 50/50. soooooo. people either need to modify their dream guy/girl or have standards and search. I used to look down on my below performing bro friends because they'd lie to get in a woman's pants, all you had to do was have him run out his "representative" stage and see he's a pos lol. I don't lie, I just focus on avoiding getting trapped. I have permanent grass is greener syndrome.

I'm late-30s don't look it skin wise or physical wise, a well paying job, and an awesome fun personality. Now don't get me wrong it feels awkward messing with women that are 23 (that's probably my limit, and with the immaturity I might have to take it up a little more).... but I don't have children, and won't seriously date a women with children. If I do settle down it would have to be a first for us both. So I either have to date a professional woman, who focused on her career, or a younger woman.

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Posted by Rainbow87

I’m obviously not speaking for all men, I just want to know…. why??? What in the world goes through their mind???

Do these men not care to use people for their needs??? Sometimes I’ve been too innocent to believe that people like this can even exist. They’re just pure evil with no compassion or care for others.

The funny thing is that later in life some of these men end up having daughters and they don’t want anyone touching their little princess.

They cannot expect a fabulous man for their daughters if they don’t know how to respect women themselves. Will they get their Karma one day?

How an adult treats a child and how they can act around adults are two different things. I believe a prostitute can be a good mother, a male stripper can be a good father.

I think someone being psychologically damaged can be a part of parenting, but there are too many factors. Which why psychology pays well at top level it's complex.

Women use men all the time. Teasing them with a low cut top to change a tyre, flirting to cut the grass, pretending to want to fuck them to make it an ex boyfriend jealous. It's immature. Honesty gets honesty back.

Tbh if a man says I love you on a first date, buys her flowers, says she is the most beautiful woman in the world and she is wasted in her job. Guess who he is going on home with? Madam Palm and her five daughters.

I don't tell lies to get into a woman's body stocking. Unless you count disguising how horny I am. Why would I? I work for Space X, drive a 21 plate Tesla and I'm Channing Tatum's body double.

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Posted by stardustmop

For some men sex is all they have to offer. That is how their emotional needs are met and they believe it is enough to meet yours as well, especially if you haven’t required them to come to you with anything else. They don’t know any emotional intimacy beyond penetration. That is why you should make sure your emotional, intellectual and spiritual needs are met long before you get to the bedroom. No one can use you for sex without your permission.

In an ideal world. A lot of women would also pay a lot of money for a one night stand with Chris Hemsworth, Dwayne Johnson, Johnny Depp take your pick. I'm sure that would meet their emotional needs.

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Posted by stardustmop

For some men sex is all they have to offer. That is how their emotional needs are met and they believe it is enough to meet yours as well, especially if you haven’t required them to come to you with anything else. They don’t know any emotional intimacy beyond penetration. That is why you should make sure your emotional, intellectual and spiritual needs are met long before you get to the bedroom. No one can use you for sex without your permission.

In an ideal world. A lot of women would also pay a lot of money for a one night stand with Chris Hemsworth, Dwayne Johnson, Johnny Depp take your pick. I'm sure that would meet their emotional needs.

I wonder statistically how many women pay male escorts for sex?

Very few I expect. I did see a documentary about 10 years ago were a Christian lady did. I think as a concept women paying for sex doesn't appeal because it doesn't appear fun. Seeing a stripper on a hen night appears fun.

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Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

Women lie to themselves so that men can get into their pants too. Like when they convince themselves they "love" a guy just cuz they want to fuck him

Not saying it isn't true, but how common is that?

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Posted by Mtnboy

They let their little head tell the big head what to do. Or, as the old saying goes, a hard dick has no conscience.

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Woman use men for sex too.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Woman use men for sex too.

But women dont lie for it...

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Posted by Lavaliquid2

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Woman use men for sex too.

But women dont lie for it...

You're right sometimes they stand up.

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Posted by Lavaliquid2

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Woman use men for sex too.

But women dont lie for it...

You're right sometimes they stand up.

Or bend...

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Woman use men for sex too.

But women dont lie for it...

You're right sometimes they stand up.

Or bend...

....backwards and forwards

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