i have been with my partner for a year now. i am very very attracted to him, he is a very beautiful man but for the past three months i have not been able to get wet when i am with him. before, just kissing him and i was excited and ready but now we have to go through usually an hour of foreplay before i can be with him and i have found that when he kisses me or goes down on me i do not enjoy it at all. i almost feel disgusted. we are engaged and recently found out that i am 5 weeks pregnant so it is very important for me to find a "cure" for this problem. i am still attracted to him but i really do not enjoy our sex anymore. we used to have frequent sex but no longer do. one thing i have thought is that he is very big - over nine inches, and i have bled many times and also had many UTIs since we've been together so i wonder if it's just the physical trauma that has turned me off from the sex. i love him... is there anything i can do? it's really starting to affect his self-esteem too.
