She's just not that INTO you
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Sagittarius89 on Thursday, February 19, 2009 and has 5 replies.
1. You don't think about him much when you're apart. When there are real sparks with a guy, he's on your mind constantly ? you see his face in crowds, you reread his texts, you plan out your next date in your mind over and over. When you're not truly attracted to him, he pops into your brain infrequently, and when he does, there's no heart-thumping anticipation.
2. You don't especially want him to meet your friends and family. Even if he's a good, solid guy, you may worry that he won't impress the people closest to you because he doesn't really impress you either. Another reason you may be keeping him under wraps: You're afraid that friends and family members will sense a lack of excitement on your part and ask you why you're with a man you're not head-over-heels for.
3. It doesn't bother you when he goes out without you. He says he's hanging with some co-workers Friday night. No big deal. Saturday night he'll be reuniting with frat buddies from college. You tell him to have a good time and you'll talk later. If you don't feel a twinge of discomfort (or worse, you feel actual relief) when he makes lots of solo plans, it's a red flag.
4. You're not excited to hook up with him. Everyone feels too tired or too stressed for sex every once in a while, but if you rarely look forward to getting naked with him, you need to reevaluate the relationship. Listen to your body: If you don't feel physical chemistry, the emotional kind probably isn't there either.
5. You wonder if other guys you meet are available. You may not think there's anything wrong with secretly sizing up another guy's date-ability potential; hey, you're not giving him your phone number or anything. But it's a tip-off that you're kind of looking and assessing your options.
2. You don't especially want him to meet your friends and family. Even if he's a good, solid guy, you may worry that he won't impress the people closest to you because he doesn't really impress you either. Another reason you may be keeping him under wraps: You're afraid that friends and family members will sense a lack of excitement on your part and ask you why you're with a man you're not head-over-heels for.
3. It doesn't bother you when he goes out without you. He says he's hanging with some co-workers Friday night. No big deal. Saturday night he'll be reuniting with frat buddies from college. You tell him to have a good time and you'll talk later. If you don't feel a twinge of discomfort (or worse, you feel actual relief) when he makes lots of solo plans, it's a red flag.
4. You're not excited to hook up with him. Everyone feels too tired or too stressed for sex every once in a while, but if you rarely look forward to getting naked with him, you need to reevaluate the relationship. Listen to your body: If you don't feel physical chemistry, the emotional kind probably isn't there either.
5. You wonder if other guys you meet are available. You may not think there's anything wrong with secretly sizing up another guy's date-ability potential; hey, you're not giving him your phone number or anything. But it's a tip-off that you're kind of looking and assessing your options.
hahahah Good one... I was in one of this when I was 17 lol
Dude story of my life. I lose interest so quickly. I'm starting to think I'm stuck up.
haha Hey Briana that happened to me a while back.. I started losing interest in them once I was dating them. That initial spark seems to die, all that swearing of undying love and emotions turns out to be some kinda infatuation, that dosn't last longer. lol. I don't knwo what it means..
^I guess he's just not the right one.
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