Showing men gratitude

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Jade_Alexander on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 and has 22 replies.
Outside of sex, best way to show a man gratitude and appreciation for their efforts?

IMO women want to feel loved but men want to feel respected. So mushy words just dont seem like enough... there needs to be something of substance besides feelings.

Maybe I’m being too logical?
Posted by PostHuman

Gently massage the balls during a blowjob and don’t nag for a day
First sentence dude...

Without sex, other ways...

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Posted by PostHuman

Gently massage the balls during a blowjob and don’t nag for a day
First sentence dude...

Without sex, other ways...

I read the first sentence. I still wrote what I wrote, dude. Second half of my sentence, brah.
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Im not someone who nags.... I take care of my own business.


Sometimes I wonder if you’re a virgin....
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Posted by PostHuman

Gently massage the balls during a blowjob and don’t nag for a day
First sentence dude...

Without sex, other ways...

I read the first sentence. I still wrote what I wrote, dude. Second half of my sentence, brah.
Im not someone who nags.... I take care of my own business.


Sometimes I wonder if you’re a virgin....
I wish, tbh. I wish.

Having a meal made is always nice, carving out some time for himself or his friends or whatever etc
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I try to bake....

It feels so old school and feminine

Also, he equates sugar rush and the chemical reaction in his brain to me
Posted by Ellygant

Men really aren’t that different than women in that aspect. They just want to be seen for who they are and receive accordingly.
This I focus on...

Hes task oriented so I make sure to pinpoint what he did, how it made me feel and the reason I feel grateful.


But then I’m like ..... its allll words.... doesnt it get annoying to be thanked constantly
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Posted by PostHuman

Gently massage the balls during a blowjob and don’t nag for a day
First sentence dude...

Without sex, other ways...

I read the first sentence. I still wrote what I wrote, dude. Second half of my sentence, brah.
Im not someone who nags.... I take care of my own business.


Sometimes I wonder if you’re a virgin....
I wish, tbh. I wish.

Having a meal made is always nice, carving out some time for himself or his friends or whatever etc
I try to bake....

It feels so old school and feminine

Also, he equates sugar rush and the chemical reaction in his brain to me
Ain’t jack shit feminine about making delicious foods. Wanna know what’s feminine? Having a period.

Is there anything he would like you to do with him and you’d rather not, even if it’s just accompanying him there? Do that.

Trying hard to acquire new virginity.
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I’d like to show him what amazing things my mouth can do but we’re not quite there yet.

Ehhh he doesnt do much, hes a homebody and independent.

Posted by PostHuman

Fuck, man. Someone give me their virginity.
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Just telling him thank you. At the same time as doing things that he needs or doing extra little things, like cooking his favorite meal or buying his favorite snack, or beer or whatever. Something that he knows that you don’t have to do but you do it anyway because you care
Make him lasagna with bechamel sauce.
Consider his opinion and respect it. Right communication goes a long way
Posted by MacDaddyInfinite

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Outside of sex, best way to show a man gratitude and appreciation for their efforts?

IMO women want to feel loved but men want to feel respected. So mushy words just dont seem like enough... there needs to be something of substance besides feelings.

Maybe I’m being too logical?

This is pretty much an oxymoron, because you are asking how you can value him for his actions. You can't value a person, by valuing the things they have or the things they do. To value /them/, you must value /them/.

Tell them you would love them even if they didn't do anything for you, tell them you love them no matter what. You say words don't matter, maybe the problem is the words you're saying. "I love you" is pretty cheap, what does that mean in the grand scheme to you?
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Translation: "careful guys, it's a TRAP!!"
Posted by tiziani

Easily food.
"Cum on bruh, we need to team up against this one right here."

My own translation: let me ENJOY THIS JIZ!! I'm here for you
Posted by tiziani

Easily food.
"Cum on bruh, we need to team up against this one right here."

My own translation: let me ENJOY THIS JIZ!! I'm here for you
Posted by Ellygant

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Ellygant

Men really aren’t that different than women in that aspect. They just want to be seen for who they are and receive accordingly.
This I focus on...

Hes task oriented so I make sure to pinpoint what he did, how it made me feel and the reason I feel grateful.


But then I’m like ..... its allll words.... doesnt it get annoying to be thanked constantly
People with cancer, leo or libra placements love to be thanked constantly. Words mean the world to them. It’s rarely annoying to them and tbh I’ve seen them stay with people less than good to them just because they get the verbal validation that others can’t or won’t give them.

Someone more task oriented tho, sounds like earth or fixed energy, I’d say respond to their method. If they work a lot, give a gift that supplements or enhance their work. If there is something that needs doing that they haven’t been able to get to, their house cleaned, the car organized etc, do it for them. Cook a meal. Buy a book about something they know little about but has always been a casual interest. Make their life more efficient in small ways and it’ll touch them dearly.
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Hes almost all air... so maybe the words are good? He doesnt need my help in any way... super independent and efficient. I got him a small gift and it seemed to really touch him. But it wasn’t practical.
Posted by tiziani

Easily food.


You can’t never go wrong with food 😄
Posted by MacDaddyInfinite

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Outside of sex, best way to show a man gratitude and appreciation for their efforts?

IMO women want to feel loved but men want to feel respected. So mushy words just dont seem like enough... there needs to be something of substance besides feelings.

Maybe I’m being too logical?

This is pretty much an oxymoron, because you are asking how you can value him for his actions. You can't value a person, by valuing the things they have or the things they do. To value /them/, you must value /them/.

Tell them you would love them even if they didn't do anything for you, tell them you love them no matter what. You say words don't matter, maybe the problem is the words you're saying. "I love you" is pretty cheap, what does that mean in the grand scheme to you?
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I value and respect him as a person. Deeply and I show that by how I treat him.

But he goes out of his way for me often, I want to show appriciation for the sacrifice of his time.

Words arent cheap between us, but I dont feel like I have much to offer beyond them. He takes care of himself really well and isnt someone who looka to be waited on. He likes doing for others.

I told him I loved him twice. I’m not ready to say it again, we’re not quite there.
Posted by PostHuman

Gently massage the balls during a blowjob and don’t nag for a day
Lol!
Posted by PostHuman

Fuck, man. Someone give me their virginity.
Looooll
Posted by Ellygant

Men really aren’t that different than women in that aspect. They just want to be seen for who they are and receive accordingly.
Here is the real satan, come on her right now!
Give him space when he needs it?

Don't nag about him not putting the dishes in the dishwasher, just do it yourself and never bring it up lol. Everyone has a blind spot

I dunno, seems like there's no practical way to show appreciation to someone who takes care of business
Posted by enfant_terrible

Give him space when he needs it?

Don't nag about him not putting the dishes in the dishwasher, just do it yourself and never bring it up lol. Everyone has a blind spot

I dunno, seems like there's no practical way to show appreciation to someone who takes care of business
You nailed it there... I cant really do acts of service when hes got it under control.

I really dont nag. Its not my nature and if you even tfy to control him he pushes back.
when it's our time - some quality time we can spend together; I scrub him all over in the bath with some really nice manly smelling soap, trim his nails, and massage him all over with some good oil - he loves to just sit and relax and let me pamper him - of course that leads into getting the good D so we both get to enjoy it all