Side chicks

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by _Dazed

I've been the side dick.

How did/do you feel about that? Proud? Ashamed? No particular emotion attached? Were you ever worried about an angry husband showing up at your house?

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by _Dazed

I've been the side dick.

How did/do you feel about that? Proud? Ashamed? No particular emotion attached? Were you ever worried about an angry husband showing up at your house?

Let me preface this by saying.. I do not sleep with married men or women, unless the opposing spouse is aware and consenting. I do not hold the same standard for those that aren't married.

Am I proud? No.

Am I ashamed? No.

I am aware of the roll I am playing, be it physical.. or emotional connection, that is missing from the partnership. I am content with playing that roll without the expectation of anything more coming from it.

Then you're not a side chick/dick IMO. We need a different word for that. If the spouse is aware and consenting there should be no shame. I think you actually can take a little pride in being chosen for something like that. It's kind of an honor.

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

I was one once, but I knew my role and had no desire or hope to steal him away from her. I knew what a jerk he was, after all.

Posted by LadyNeptune

LOL @ that story. She's worried he would replace her with another side chick?

Someone should tell her she assumes alot to think she's the ONLY side chick

Posted by Prince_Pisces

I find it to be kind of an ego boost LOL! You're giving him (or her) something they clearly aren't getting at home/their partner is lacking.

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by brianafay

I guess I’m curious to hear the other side to this because when I think of my husband having side chick I mostly feel bad for her

She’s over here eagerly sucking his dick while he tells her he loves me and will never leave me...takes care of me and our family...pays for my house, my Lexus, etc...

What’s she gaining? She feels sexually desired by him?

Cause I can jump on Tinder and feel sexually desired by random taken men all day - jus sayin

Is this something that is actually happening to you? Aaggghh! I thought this was hypothetical.

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Posted by brianafay

I guess I’m curious to hear the other side to this because when I think of my husband having side chick I mostly feel bad for her

She’s over here eagerly sucking his dick while he tells her he loves me and will never leave me...takes care of me and our family...pays for my house, my Lexus, etc...

What’s she gaining? She feels sexually desired by him?

Cause I can jump on Tinder and feel sexually desired by random taken men all day - jus sayin

Posted by brianafay

I guess I’m curious to hear the other side to this because when I think of my husband having side chick I mostly feel bad for her

She’s over here eagerly sucking his dick while he tells her he loves me and will never leave me...takes care of me and our family...pays for my house, my Lexus, etc...

What’s she gaining? She feels sexually desired by him?

Cause I can jump on Tinder and feel sexually desired by random taken me

n all day - jus sayin

Posted by brianafay

I guess I’m curious to hear the other side to this because when I think of my husband having side chick I mostly feel bad for her

She’s over here eagerly sucking his dick while he tells her he loves me and will never leave me...takes care of me and our family...pays for my house, my Lexus, etc...

What’s she gaining? She feels sexually desired by him?

Cause I can jump on Tinder and feel sexually desired by random taken men all day - jus sayin

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

I guess I’m curious to hear the other side to this because when I think of my husband having side chick I mostly feel bad for her

She’s over here eagerly sucking his dick while he tells her he loves me and will never leave me...takes care of me and our family...pays for my house, my Lexus, etc...

What’s she gaining? She feels sexually desired by him?

Cause I can jump on Tinder and feel sexually desired by random taken men all day - jus sayin

I mean.. Vin got that big D so, she'd at least be getting that?

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by brianafay

I guess I’m curious to hear the other side to this because when I think of my husband having side chick I mostly feel bad for her

She’s over here eagerly sucking his dick while he tells her he loves me and will never leave me...takes care of me and our family...pays for my house, my Lexus, etc...

What’s she gaining? She feels sexually desired by him?

Cause I can jump on Tinder and feel sexually desired by random taken me

n all day - jus sayin

You smarter than that!

Men don’t tell side chicks that they love wives.

They tell an opposite.

And they support side chicks.

And they do shitload of things with them while their wives slaving tasing kids and working butts off. And sometimes wives don’t know they footing his bills to afford side chicks...

Not in my past but that’s how smart side chicks have it. Dumbs are different story...still men tell them they love them!

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by brianafay

I guess I’m curious to hear the other side to this because when I think of my husband having side chick I mostly feel bad for her

She’s over here eagerly sucking his dick while he tells her he loves me and will never leave me...takes care of me and our family...pays for my house, my Lexus, etc...

What’s she gaining? She feels sexually desired by him?

Cause I can jump on Tinder and feel sexually desired by random taken me

n all day - jus sayin

You smarter than that!

Men don’t tell side chicks that they love wives.

They tell an opposite.

And they support side chicks.

And they do shitload of things with them while their wives slaving tasing kids and working butts off. And sometimes wives don’t know they footing his bills to afford side chicks...

Not in my past but that’s how smart side chicks have it. Dumbs are different story...still men tell them they love them!

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by _Dazed

I've been the side dick.

How did/do you feel about that? Proud? Ashamed? No particular emotion attached? Were you ever worried about an angry husband showing up at your house?

Let me preface this by saying.. I do not sleep with married men or women, unless the opposing spouse is aware and consenting. I do not hold the same standard for those that aren't married.

Am I proud? No.

Am I ashamed? No.

I am aware of the roll I am playing, be it physical.. or emotional connection, that is missing from the partnership. I am content with playing that roll without the expectation of anything more coming from it.

Then you're not a side chick/dick IMO. We need a different word for that. If the spouse is aware and consenting there should be no shame. I think you actually can take a little pride in being chosen for something like that. It's kind of an honor.

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Posted by Sailor_Mars

Posted by _Dazed

I've been the side dick.

for a Pisces Woman cheating on her Capricorn Man?

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Posted by hydorah

it's only a problem if there is a "center chick"

Posted by brianafay

This chick on the radio literally says “he says she is the love of his life and has no plans to leave her...but she can’t meet his physical needs living in another state” she engages in a sexual relationship with him anyway and then gets bent when she sees him out with his girl when she comes to visit

Why not just find someone who can meet all your needs and let him find a new side piece?

I don’t get what she’s gaining

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

LOL @ that story. She's worried he would replace her with another side chick?

Someone should tell her she assumes alot to think she's the ONLY side chick

WHO fucking hurt you? Let it go...🤦‍♀️

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Posted by Basorexia

Potential willing Side chicks aren't the problem, it's your man.

Never understood women who rage at the other woman.

Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Posted by Basorexia

Potential willing Side chicks aren't the problem, it's your man.

Never understood women who rage at the other woman.

It is both of their faults! If you are the side chick and are aware of the other woman.. you are at much of fault as the man. We women need to do better at protecting other women.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Fuck it...I'll tell my story.

After my ex died.. I wasn't in the right state of mind but I engaged with a guy from his work. He used to flirt with me all the time. Anyway.. I don't even remember how things went the way they did...but he told me he was in a open marriage. His wife had a boyfriend and he was allowed to find a girlfriend...and he wanted me. I said fuck it ok. She knew about me met me and the whole nine. I knew my place and knew he'd never leave her and I didn't want him to but he talked about it because he was falling hard for me. It became too much drama when the wife started to get mad that he wanted to spend more time with me and the fact I was younger...bothered her a lot. I eventually ended it. We didn't talk but he got accused of still fucking with me all the time (he told me later on). They ended up getting divorced years later because of the constant fighting about me and other reasons.

Sometimes we get into situations with people for all kinds of reasons, sometimes you can't help who you connect with or fall for . Yes, everyone has will power but how do we not know thats how the universe wanted shit to play out...we are all here to learn lesson..no? And unless you have been in that situation...you can say all you want youd never do this or that. I also said I'd never be with a cheater till I was in that situation. Shit happens...is it right, probably not but maybe it is...whose to really say. Yeah my situation was a little different with her knowing about me but doesn't make me any less a side chick.

11 years later...the guy is still crazy about me. Yep...it's the Aries and oddly enough...he's possessive as shit of me back then and now 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm ready for my dxp judgement beating now....

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by Basorexia

Potential willing Side chicks aren't the problem, it's your man.

Never understood women who rage at the other woman.

Because women expect more from other women.

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Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Posted by Basorexia

Potential willing Side chicks aren't the problem, it's your man.

Never understood women who rage at the other woman.

It is both of their faults! If you are the side chick and are aware of the other woman.. you are at much of fault as the man. We women need to do better at protecting other women.

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Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Posted by Romz-

No ones going to have an honest discussion about this besides maybe Boots.

Everyone else is going to virtue signal...

The reality is everyone would side hoe for the right person and connection. We’re not a monogamous mammal but it’s inherently taught we should be predominantly by mass religion but how that religion is losing its hold you’re seeing a huge influx of people living as they please with no repercussions.

This side hoe and main hoe culture is a good example of how we’re returning to primal desires and eagerly looking for the validation that the idea of love and marriage once gave us .... we’re all capable of this as this is our current natural culture.

Thank you for coming to my TedTalks.

What is so wrong with religious values? What is so wrong with values in general? If all of us followed our primal desires, we would have many more unjustified killings. Laws and regulations need to be set in place to keep people from following their urges. If we all followed our desires, we would have mass chaos on our hands as a society. Sure, be the side hoe; however, remember, there are natural consequences. You may be splitting up homes where the children are deeply involved. You may have a jealous killing wife on your hands. You may be the one who kills due to your internal jealousy. I am not being holier than thou! I've made MANY mistakes in my life. Religion actually teaches one to forgive and love those you may not want to. However, I will say this, religion or not, values are essential for our growth as a human species. Our frontal cortex are there for a reason

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Fuck it...I'll tell my story.

After my ex died.. I wasn't in the right state of mind but I engaged with a guy from his work. He used to flirt with me all the time. Anyway.. I don't even remember how things went the way they did...but he told me he was in a open marriage. His wife had a boyfriend and he was allowed to find a girlfriend...and he wanted me. I said fuck it ok. She knew about me met me and the whole nine. I knew my place and knew he'd never leave her and I didn't want him to but he talked about it because he was falling hard for me. It became too much drama when the wife started to get mad that he wanted to spend more time with me and the fact I was younger...bothered her a lot. I eventually ended it. We didn't talk but he got accused of still fucking with me all the time (he told me later on). They ended up getting divorced years later because of the constant fighting about me and other reasons.

Sometimes we get into situations with people for all kinds of reasons, sometimes you can't help who you connect with or fall for . Yes, everyone has will power but how do we not know thats how the universe wanted shit to play out...we are all here to learn lesson..no? And unless you have been in that situation...you can say all you want youd never do this or that. I also said I'd never be with a cheater till I was in that situation. Shit happens...is it right, probably not but maybe it is...whose to really say. Yeah my situation was a little different with her knowing about me but doesn't make me any less a side chick.

11 years later...the guy is still crazy about me. Yep...it's the Aries and oddly enough...he's possessive as shit of me back then and now 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm ready for my dxp judgement beating now....

No one is judging you! Thank you for your story! Yes, we all learn lessons! I cheated on four men all at the same time when I was 18! However, I saw the impact of my choices. I hurt so many people and I told myself I would never again hurt another soul in that way shape or form. We're all here for a lesson; however, natural consequences will always follow us. It's how we turn into better and more loving, forgiving, and selfless individuals. I'm sorry your ex passed by the way *hugs*

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Fuck it...I'll tell my story.

After my ex died.. I wasn't in the right state of mind but I engaged with a guy from his work. He used to flirt with me all the time. Anyway.. I don't even remember how things went the way they did...but he told me he was in a open marriage. His wife had a boyfriend and he was allowed to find a girlfriend...and he wanted me. I said fuck it ok. She knew about me met me and the whole nine. I knew my place and knew he'd never leave her and I didn't want him to but he talked about it because he was falling hard for me. It became too much drama when the wife started to get mad that he wanted to spend more time with me and the fact I was younger...bothered her a lot. I eventually ended it. We didn't talk but he got accused of still fucking with me all the time (he told me later on). They ended up getting divorced years later because of the constant fighting about me and other reasons.

Sometimes we get into situations with people for all kinds of reasons, sometimes you can't help who you connect with or fall for . Yes, everyone has will power but how do we not know thats how the universe wanted shit to play out...we are all here to learn lesson..no? And unless you have been in that situation...you can say all you want youd never do this or that. I also said I'd never be with a cheater till I was in that situation. Shit happens...is it right, probably not but maybe it is...whose to really say. Yeah my situation was a little different with her knowing about me but doesn't make me any less a side chick.

11 years later...the guy is still crazy about me. Yep...it's the Aries and oddly enough...he's possessive as shit of me back then and now 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm ready for my dxp judgement beating now....

No one is judging you! Thank you for your story! Yes, we all learn lessons! I cheated on four men all at the same time when I was 18! However, I saw the impact of my choices. I hurt so many people and I told myself I would never again hurt another soul in that way shape or form. We're all here for a lesson; however, natural consequences will always follow us. It's how we turn into better and more loving, forgiving, and selfless individuals. I'm sorry your ex passed by the way *hugs*

Lol...I was just joking about the judgment thing because tbh...I don't care what other people think about me. Oh yeah...every thing we do has consequences and we all live and learn... hopefully. My thing is unless you actually been in the situation...you honestly have no idea what you'd do.

Thank you ❤️🤗

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Fuck it...I'll tell my story.

After my ex died.. I wasn't in the right state of mind but I engaged with a guy from his work. He used to flirt with me all the time. Anyway.. I don't even remember how things went the way they did...but he told me he was in a open marriage. His wife had a boyfriend and he was allowed to find a girlfriend...and he wanted me. I said fuck it ok. She knew about me met me and the whole nine. I knew my place and knew he'd never leave her and I didn't want him to but he talked about it because he was falling hard for me. It became too much drama when the wife started to get mad that he wanted to spend more time with me and the fact I was younger...bothered her a lot. I eventually ended it. We didn't talk but he got accused of still fucking with me all the time (he told me later on). They ended up getting divorced years later because of the constant fighting about me and other reasons.

Sometimes we get into situations with people for all kinds of reasons, sometimes you can't help who you connect with or fall for . Yes, everyone has will power but how do we not know thats how the universe wanted shit to play out...we are all here to learn lesson..no? And unless you have been in that situation...you can say all you want youd never do this or that. I also said I'd never be with a cheater till I was in that situation. Shit happens...is it right, probably not but maybe it is...whose to really say. Yeah my situation was a little different with her knowing about me but doesn't make me any less a side chick.

11 years later...the guy is still crazy about me. Yep...it's the Aries and oddly enough...he's possessive as shit of me back then and now 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm ready for my dxp judgement beating now....

Imma be honest with you... that was hot.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Fuck it...I'll tell my story.

After my ex died.. I wasn't in the right state of mind but I engaged with a guy from his work. He used to flirt with me all the time. Anyway.. I don't even remember how things went the way they did...but he told me he was in a open marriage. His wife had a boyfriend and he was allowed to find a girlfriend...and he wanted me. I said fuck it ok. She knew about me met me and the whole nine. I knew my place and knew he'd never leave her and I didn't want him to but he talked about it because he was falling hard for me. It became too much drama when the wife started to get mad that he wanted to spend more time with me and the fact I was younger...bothered her a lot. I eventually ended it. We didn't talk but he got accused of still fucking with me all the time (he told me later on). They ended up getting divorced years later because of the constant fighting about me and other reasons.

Sometimes we get into situations with people for all kinds of reasons, sometimes you can't help who you connect with or fall for . Yes, everyone has will power but how do we not know thats how the universe wanted shit to play out...we are all here to learn lesson..no? And unless you have been in that situation...you can say all you want youd never do this or that. I also said I'd never be with a cheater till I was in that situation. Shit happens...is it right, probably not but maybe it is...whose to really say. Yeah my situation was a little different with her knowing about me but doesn't make me any less a side chick.

11 years later...the guy is still crazy about me. Yep...it's the Aries and oddly enough...he's possessive as shit of me back then and now 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm ready for my dxp judgement beating now....

Imma be honest with you... that was hot.

Lol...then I better not tell you about the time I was invited to dinner by the wife, the boyfriend and the husband 😬🤐

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Posted by brianafay

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by brianafay

I guess I’m curious to hear the other side to this because when I think of my husband having side chick I mostly feel bad for her

She’s over here eagerly sucking his dick while he tells her he loves me and will never leave me...takes care of me and our family...pays for my house, my Lexus, etc...

What’s she gaining? She feels sexually desired by him?

Cause I can jump on Tinder and feel sexually desired by random taken me

n all day - jus sayin

You smarter than that!

Men don’t tell side chicks that they love wives.

They tell an opposite.

And they support side chicks.

And they do shitload of things with them while their wives slaving tasing kids and working butts off. And sometimes wives don’t know they footing his bills to afford side chicks...

Not in my past but that’s how smart side chicks have it. Dumbs are different story...still men tell them they love them!

That’s not how this particular chick calling into the radio made it sound

But I guess if he’s taking care of you while she takes care of him I can see why you’d think it’s worth it

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

LOL @ that story. She's worried he would replace her with another side chick?

Someone should tell her she assumes alot to think she's the ONLY side chick

WHO fucking hurt you? Let it go...🤦‍♀️

No one. Just stating the obvious. If he will cheat on his main girl he’s not gonna stay loyal to the side chick. That’s a no duh logic

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Posted by brianafay

Posted by Prince_Pisces

I find it to be kind of an ego boost LOL! You're giving him (or her) something they clearly aren't getting at home/their partner is lacking.

So it’s competitive ?? Like you’re one-upping their partner?

Cause I really don’t see it that way.

That’s who he goes home to and takes care of

You’re just essentially a cum dumpster. I don’t see how that’s satisfying.

You deserve more than that gurl

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Posted by Basorexia

Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Posted by Basorexia

Potential willing Side chicks aren't the problem, it's your man.

Never understood women who rage at the other woman.

It is both of their faults! If you are the side chick and are aware of the other woman.. you are at much of fault as the man. We women need to do better at protecting other women.

Nope when you're the other woman, you're just disgusting. You're not cheating on anyone. when you're the side chick..... Well perhaps little regards for "yourself " (the side chick) but that's digging a little too deep for this thread /dxpnet.

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