silly insecurities

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by puhleeze on Tuesday, September 27, 2016 and has 2 replies.
when you start getting interested in someone and thinking about the person do you also start thinking about the people this person looks at or interacts with and wonder how he sees them, are they interesting to him blah blah. it is ridiculous feeling insecure when you are not even in a relationship and when otherwise you would not have given a single thought to these other girls now you are thinking about them that what if the guy you like is noticing them? this is not good lol. and worse is you were cool towards this guy, he somehow indirectly made you notice him, and now you are thinking about all the people he is surrounded with. dammit haha
Posted by puhleeze
when you start getting interested in someone and thinking about the person do you also start thinking about the people this person looks at or interacts with and wonder how he sees them, are they interesting to him blah blah. it is ridiculous feeling insecure when you are not even in a relationship and when otherwise you would not have given a single thought to these other girls now you are thinking about them that what if the guy you like is noticing them? this is not good lol. and worse is you were cool towards this guy, he somehow indirectly made you notice him, and now you are thinking about all the people he is surrounded with. dammit haha
Tryna protect your turf girl? lol! It is an interesting topic though. Establish yourself in the guys life first though maybe-otherwise you risk looking like a crazy bitch-although some guys it does seems like this. Judge the situation and act accordingly.