Stalked

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Wineaux15 on Thursday, July 20, 2017 and has 23 replies.
Have any of you ever been stalked or secretly watched? I'm talking about ... putting a virus on your technology to read your private messages, following you, normal stalker ish. What did you do to make it stop? Is there a certain placement that makes one a stalker?
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Posted by Koniuchaa
I have a neighbor that was. He kept coming on to my property uninvited. I eventually called the police and have a trespassing order against him. I do not mess around with that sort of stuff.

I got his birthdate from the order and he is Aqua sun, Taurus moon. I don't remember the rest.


Oh dear I'm sorry to hear that. An Aqua stalker? Weirdo!
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Posted by queenaries_
Posted by Wineaux15
Have any of you ever been stalked or secretly watched? I'm talking about ... putting a virus on your technology to read your private messages, following you, normal stalker ish. What did you do to make it stop? Is there a certain placement that makes one a stalker?
How would you know if they tapped your phone
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Well I had a friend who found out her ex tapped her phone because he'd always know where she's at. She went to his house to get the last of her things and his dumb butt had it up on his computer (the website where it told her location).

But otherwise I'm not sure how you'd know. My friend did say her phone would shut off a lot by itself and had a lot of glitches.

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One was a Gemini, one a Taurus n other a Virgo.

I dunno their other placements. Gemini was the worst of all. Caused me hella trouble.Virgo was spying my whatsapp(Idk how he achieved that). Creepy af! N Taurus kept an eye on my existence. The most annoying of all?
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I was stalked by someone who had a crush on me. I was 15, and he was 28 (so gross). He would follow me around, stalk my MySpace, call me constantly and leave messages, ask my friend where I was. One time he showed up outside my house at 6am when I was about to walk to school. It freaked me out so bad. He eventually stopped
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Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by Koniuchaa
I have a neighbor that was. He kept coming on to my property uninvited. I eventually called the police and have a trespassing order against him. I do not mess around with that sort of stuff.

I got his birthdate from the order and he is Aqua sun, Taurus moon. I don't remember the rest.


Oh dear I'm sorry to hear that. An Aqua stalker? Weirdo!
Aquarius can be weird... especially the males give me a peeping tom vibe... it's either one extreme or the other. Weirdo or semi-normal
I was told by my other neighbor that he was caught peeping into the window of another woman that lived alone.

He also has a criminal record for burglary, assault, and public indecency
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This is so scary!

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Posted by Koniuchaa
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by Koniuchaa
I have a neighbor that was. He kept coming on to my property uninvited. I eventually called the police and have a trespassing order against him. I do not mess around with that sort of stuff.

I got his birthdate from the order and he is Aqua sun, Taurus moon. I don't remember the rest.


Oh dear I'm sorry to hear that. An Aqua stalker? Weirdo!
Aquarius can be weird... especially the males give me a peeping tom vibe... it's either one extreme or the other. Weirdo or semi-normal
I was told by my other neighbor that he was caught peeping into the window of another woman that lived alone.

He also has a criminal record for burglary, assault, and public indecency
Euwww gross... I suppose they like that stimulation thingy going up in their minds
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lol

he's a known criminal. those types are gross. and need rehabilitation.

not all aqua sun males care about that stuff and mind their own business.
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Posted by Wineaux15
Have any of you ever been stalked or secretly watched? I'm talking about ... putting a virus on your technology to read your private messages, following you, normal stalker ish. What did you do to make it stop? Is there a certain placement that makes one a stalker?
just get someone to take care of your virus an it's gone.

all viruses can be deleted if you know someone or hire someone to take care of it.

i saw on the newspaper that you can hire a computer programmer for around 100 euros or 150 euros to take care of your virus depending how bad.
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Posted by blackphase
Posted by Wineaux15
Have any of you ever been stalked or secretly watched? I'm talking about ... putting a virus on your technology to read your private messages, following you, normal stalker ish. What did you do to make it stop? Is there a certain placement that makes one a stalker?
Is this someone you know? How were they able to put a virus on your technology? :/

All you can really do is go to the authorities about this if you fear for your safety..
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My husband and I are going through some issues... are separated and I think he's stalking my phone. Not that I'm doing anything wrong, but the thought of it scares me. I'm also scared that once we move in separate places he will stalk me. He has these tendencies.

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Posted by MiZLeo
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by blackphase
Posted by Wineaux15
Have any of you ever been stalked or secretly watched? I'm talking about ... putting a virus on your technology to read your private messages, following you, normal stalker ish. What did you do to make it stop? Is there a certain placement that makes one a stalker?
Is this someone you know? How were they able to put a virus on your technology? :/

All you can really do is go to the authorities about this if you fear for your safety..


My husband and I are going through some issues... are separated and I think he's stalking my phone. Not that I'm doing anything wrong, but the thought of it scares me. I'm also scared that once we move in separate places he will stalk me. He has these tendencies.

I changed my locks as soon as I separated from my husband. He had a tendency to just show up unannounced. And I know he would drive by to see if i was home.

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ewww

ex's have a tendancy to do that. especially if the break up is fresh. and fresh is like two years even...

they need a long time to get over it and not do the stalking.


also, OP,

where are you?in europe or U.S.?


here's a good site that answers questions on viruses.

this one is about some old lay in the UK who got a virus, and she cant afford 44 pounds to take care of it,

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My computer has been infected by the Searchnu virus and I've been chatting with a guy from (some) security about it. I'm a senior citizen and only learning to operate a computer. He wants to charge me 44 pounds to remove a virus, which I cannot afford. Can I do this myself or is it too complicated? Also, is this a recognized company? And would it be worth me trying to pay the 44 pounds? I operate 64 bit Windows 7 using Google Chrome. Can you please advise?"

by Leo A. Notenboom, © 2013

http://ask-leo.com/can_i_remove_malware_myself_or_do_i_need_to_pay_someone.html

that was several years ago so i bet the cost is higher.

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I have an email stalker. Been stalking me since 2013.

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Posted by blackphase
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by blackphase
Posted by Wineaux15
Have any of you ever been stalked or secretly watched? I'm talking about ... putting a virus on your technology to read your private messages, following you, normal stalker ish. What did you do to make it stop? Is there a certain placement that makes one a stalker?
Is this someone you know? How were they able to put a virus on your technology? :/

All you can really do is go to the authorities about this if you fear for your safety..


My husband and I are going through some issues... are separated and I think he's stalking my phone. Not that I'm doing anything wrong, but the thought of it scares me. I'm also scared that once we move in separate places he will stalk me. He has these tendencies.

Ok.. now I understand..

So at this point it's just a suspicion? Do you fear that he would do anything to hurt you or are you more just worried about him being invasive of your privacy?
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I don't feel safe. It's a suspicion, but I'm almost sure because twice he's shown up somewhere I'm at with friends. He's also mentioned things in arguments that I've only said to people through text. Also, I've caught him acting like he's not home and hiding in the hallway to listen to my conversations. I don't know what he's going through great lengths to try to find because I'd happily hand over the phone or answer any questions he has. Since we have been split up I have been more secretive about my plans to move and things only because I'm the past if I told him he'd try to do things to manipulate me and stop me, but I can't take it anymore.

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Posted by MiZLeo
Ive had a few. Men and women. The women were both Scorpios(I don't know other placements) the men...one in high school I don't know who it was but they sent me a letter to my house saying they were in my English class..... I am suspicious tho that it was one of the Scorpio women pretending to be a guy. But I have no proof.

2nd Scorpio was in college. She would call me and complain that another friend(who I had known most of my life) was taking up to much of "her" time. Then she came over one morning and started knocking on my door and my boyfriend at the time answered the door and she went away. I didn't hear from her again after that.

Fast forward a couple years... I'm not sure his placements but thinking about it I think he was a Pisces ? either that or a cancer, but I think Pisces. He actually moved away and then he would call me and I told him I had a boyfriend...one time my boyfriend got on the phone with him..... Didn't stop him. Last I heard he mailed me with a creepy email stating my name and address.... I sent him a nasty email back stating he better not go to that address cause that's my sister's house and she has a new baby and I don't live there anymore. I don't have that email anymore so I don't know if he sent anything after that but that was over a few years that it went on.

Recently another Pisces ? started stalking me. Kept emailing me. Would text me on KIK, whatsapp, facebook, call me. He called me at work once i didn't know who it was and have to answer the phone so he got me but when I realized who it was i was like Wtf I'm at work. He said he wouldn't call again so I thought I was rid of him but he has emailed me since. This has been going on for over a year now. He claims to have moved out of state but he could pop up any day. When we first met he tracked where I worked just but using my phone number(he's a tech guy).

I think I'm missing someone but can't remember at the moment.
This so coincidental because my husband is s Pisces and he's very much a tech guy.


It's weird, but I had one male and one female stalker. The male is a Scorp with Gem Moon & the female is Gem with Scorp Moon. My female friend would be weird and stalk me when I didn't hang out with her enough or give her enough attention. The Scorpio guy knew I was married and he is too and we were/ are coworker & friends. I just had to establish boundaries with him and he understood which was good because I really enjoy him as a friend. But when he was stalking it was bad... but sneaky.

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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by MiZLeo
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by blackphase
Posted by Wineaux15
Have any of you ever been stalked or secretly watched? I'm talking about ... putting a virus on your technology to read your private messages, following you, normal stalker ish. What did you do to make it stop? Is there a certain placement that makes one a stalker?
Is this someone you know? How were they able to put a virus on your technology? :/

All you can really do is go to the authorities about this if you fear for your safety..


My husband and I are going through some issues... are separated and I think he's stalking my phone. Not that I'm doing anything wrong, but the thought of it scares me. I'm also scared that once we move in separate places he will stalk me. He has these tendencies.

I changed my locks as soon as I separated from my husband. He had a tendency to just show up unannounced. And I know he would drive by to see if i was home.



ewww

ex's have a tendancy to do that. especially if the break up is fresh. and fresh is like two years even...

they need a long time to get over it and not do the stalking.


also, OP,

where are you?in europe or U.S.?


here's a good site that answers questions on viruses.

this one is about some old lay in the UK who got a virus, and she cant afford 44 pounds to take care of it,

"

My computer has been infected by the Searchnu virus and I've been chatting with a guy from (some) security about it. I'm a senior citizen and only learning to operate a computer. He wants to charge me 44 pounds to remove a virus, which I cannot afford. Can I do this myself or is it too complicated? Also, is this a recognized company? And would it be worth me trying to pay the 44 pounds? I operate 64 bit Windows 7 using Google Chrome. Can you please advise?"

by Leo A. Notenboom, © 2013

http://ask-leo.com/can_i_remove_malware_myself_or_do_i_need_to_pay_someone.html

that was several years ago so i bet the cost is higher.

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I'm in the US

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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Wineaux15
Have any of you ever been stalked or secretly watched? I'm talking about ... putting a virus on your technology to read your private messages, following you, normal stalker ish. What did you do to make it stop? Is there a certain placement that makes one a stalker?
just get someone to take care of your virus an it's gone.

all viruses can be deleted if you know someone or hire someone to take care of it.

i saw on the newspaper that you can hire a computer programmer for around 100 euros or 150 euros to take care of your virus depending how bad.
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No need for 100 euros.

Save all your essential stuff on an external hard drive, then reformat your entire pc/laptop and start from scratch.

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No. Never been stalked.
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all this creeps me out

2 guys I've dated in the past came off in the beginning like "I can watch you - you know - I know people" blah blah - creeped me out but then when I got to know the first one I realized that that was all upfront machismo bluff - he didn't know me and I live way out in the country by myself and I think that throws some men because it's rare - but when the second one said it, I was thinking wtf - he made it sound like he had military connections and that they had programs he could access to watch me - to make sure I was ok blah blah - right o

be careful
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Posted by Koniuchaa
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by Koniuchaa
I have a neighbor that was. He kept coming on to my property uninvited. I eventually called the police and have a trespassing order against him. I do not mess around with that sort of stuff.

I got his birthdate from the order and he is Aqua sun, Taurus moon. I don't remember the rest.


Oh dear I'm sorry to hear that. An Aqua stalker? Weirdo!
Aquarius can be weird... especially the males give me a peeping tom vibe... it's either one extreme or the other. Weirdo or semi-normal
I was told by my other neighbor that he was caught peeping into the window of another woman that lived alone.

He also has a criminal record for burglary, assault, and public indecency
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wow, I'm not sure how you can even relax in your own home - that creeps me out - I hate weird neighbors - they should be someone that is there if you ever need them and vice versa

do you have a gun and know how to use it ?

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Posted by Koniuchaa
I have a neighbor that was. He kept coming on to my property uninvited. I eventually called the police and have a trespassing order against him. I do not mess around with that sort of stuff.

I got his birthdate from the order and he is Aqua sun, Taurus moon. I don't remember the rest.
The Taurus Moon kinda makes sense if it was romance related stalking lol
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Posted by blackphase
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by blackphase
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by blackphase
Posted by Wineaux15
Have any of you ever been stalked or secretly watched? I'm talking about ... putting a virus on your technology to read your private messages, following you, normal stalker ish. What did you do to make it stop? Is there a certain placement that makes one a stalker?
Is this someone you know? How were they able to put a virus on your technology? :/

All you can really do is go to the authorities about this if you fear for your safety..


My husband and I are going through some issues... are separated and I think he's stalking my phone. Not that I'm doing anything wrong, but the thought of it scares me. I'm also scared that once we move in separate places he will stalk me. He has these tendencies.

Ok.. now I understand..

So at this point it's just a suspicion? Do you fear that he would do anything to hurt you or are you more just worried about him being invasive of your privacy?


I don't feel safe. It's a suspicion, but I'm almost sure because twice he's shown up somewhere I'm at with friends. He's also mentioned things in arguments that I've only said to people through text. Also, I've caught him acting like he's not home and hiding in the hallway to listen to my conversations. I don't know what he's going through great lengths to try to find because I'd happily hand over the phone or answer any questions he has. Since we have been split up I have been more secretive about my plans to move and things only because I'm the past if I told him he'd try to do things to manipulate me and stop me, but I can't take it anymore.

So you still live with the guy?

I was going to say get a restraining order.. but I guess your first step would be to move out if that's the case..
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No he just moved out about 2 weeks ago and we decided to split maybe a month ago... he didn't move out right away.

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Posted by Wineaux15
Have any of you ever been stalked...?


No.

Posted by Wineaux15
...secretly watched?
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I would have no idea if the person is doing it "secretly".
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Posted by blackphase
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by blackphase
Posted by Wineaux15
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Posted by Wineaux15
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Posted by Wineaux15
Have any of you ever been stalked or secretly watched? I'm talking about ... putting a virus on your technology to read your private messages, following you, normal stalker ish. What did you do to make it stop? Is there a certain placement that makes one a stalker?
Is this someone you know? How were they able to put a virus on your technology? :/

All you can really do is go to the authorities about this if you fear for your safety..


My husband and I are going through some issues... are separated and I think he's stalking my phone. Not that I'm doing anything wrong, but the thought of it scares me. I'm also scared that once we move in separate places he will stalk me. He has these tendencies.

Ok.. now I understand..

So at this point it's just a suspicion? Do you fear that he would do anything to hurt you or are you more just worried about him being invasive of your privacy?


I don't feel safe. It's a suspicion, but I'm almost sure because twice he's shown up somewhere I'm at with friends. He's also mentioned things in arguments that I've only said to people through text. Also, I've caught him acting like he's not home and hiding in the hallway to listen to my conversations. I don't know what he's going through great lengths to try to find because I'd happily hand over the phone or answer any questions he has. Since we have been split up I have been more secretive about my plans to move and things only because I'm the past if I told him he'd try to do things to manipulate me and stop me, but I can't take it anymore.

So you still live with the guy?

I was going to say get a restraining order.. but I guess your first step would be to move out if that's the case..


No he just moved out about 2 weeks ago and we decided to split maybe a month ago... he didn't move out right away.

Okay, then I would start with a restraining order.. That way at least you have it documented that there have been issues. And also block him from contacting you in any way.. Facebook, cell phone, email.. and whatever else people use nowadays..
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Yes it's really sad I have to take it there! I really loved him too?.

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Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by Koniuchaa
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Wineaux15
Posted by Koniuchaa
I have a neighbor that was. He kept coming on to my property uninvited. I eventually called the police and have a trespassing order against him. I do not mess around with that sort of stuff.

I got his birthdate from the order and he is Aqua sun, Taurus moon. I don't remember the rest.


Oh dear I'm sorry to hear that. An Aqua stalker? Weirdo!
Aquarius can be weird... especially the males give me a peeping tom vibe... it's either one extreme or the other. Weirdo or semi-normal
I was told by my other neighbor that he was caught peeping into the window of another woman that lived alone.

He also has a criminal record for burglary, assault, and public indecency
This is so scary!

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