Taking a man over his limits

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Gemitati on Tuesday, January 23, 2018 and has 29 replies.
You men.,,meeting a woman who makes you go over your limits...

You didn’t know you can and all of a sudden you went!

What would you be thinking about her?

What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Posted by Gemitati
You men.,,meeting a woman who makes you go over your limits...

You didn’t know you can and all of a sudden you went!

What would you be thinking about her?

She is that for me in all sense. I just love her more and more committed
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
You men.,,meeting a woman who makes you go over your limits...

You didn’t know you can and all of a sudden you went!

What would you be thinking about her?

She is that for me in all sense. I just love her more and more committed
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That’s sweet...you are the man! 👍

It always happens

Lol
....it's very distracting for them
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
You men.,,meeting a woman who makes you go over your limits...

You didn’t know you can and all of a sudden you went!

What would you be thinking about her?

She is that for me in all sense. I just love her more and more committed
That’s sweet...you are the man! 👍

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I think all man want that to be motivated by their other half and make them a better man. Its unspoken thing but always can be felt. It's shows in the man intention and improvement in certain areas in their life. Sometimes it drags some fights into the relationship but eventually takes maturity to see the bigger picture, not taking it criticism or being not enough. Those happens when the woman goals the same and the man can see the rational and practical mindset behind the woman expression. It make both grow as a couple also they do grow individually as well. I think that's how a relationship should be, if that's missing its just have less interest to move together to next level. The woman as well learn a lot from it, especially in terms to how to get things done or those targets been executed by their man.

About sexuality as well, and as well important. There is difference between woman and woman. It doesn't mean one less valuable or better than the other. But when someone comes in your life and motivate and improve or make you express and experience yourself more sexually as well that's a much stronger and deeper bond or connection and you feel it instantly also carries on. Good topic, I think is very important question to address (thumb up)
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
Posted by MyStarsShine
....it's very distracting for them
Distracting in a which way?
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
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Get obsessed and such just to mention one. Take away focus from other areas in life.

Good woman can detect that and control the sexual life to put in balance
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
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Makes us more open, less inhibited, less serious...well that's my experience anyway. And l've seen it happen a few times.
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
Get obsessed and such just to mention one. Take away focus from other areas in life.

Good woman can detect that and control the sexual life to put in balance
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I think it depends on man strength as a man. Those who are strong enough can manage life AND love without destroying any. Am I right?
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
Get obsessed and such just to mention one. Take away focus from other areas in life.

Good woman can detect that and control the sexual life to put in balance
I think it depends on man strength as a man. Those who are strong enough can manage life AND love without destroying any. Am I right?
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I think it's a natural process and progress of the relationship. Consider that you have suddenly the best sex ever and partner you were dreaming of, obviously you get under certain influence until you can manage. That happened to me. Total craziness. I am OK now and can seperate things as it should be but took some time for sure. I dobt think I could avoid that anyhow.

One more thing

The female who can make such influence are always alphas, so that woman with you for a reason so you better make sure to keep it that way, dobt fuck up with being immature. They rather stay alone. Weak no need to apply. You will regret to lose them

Those are the ones they cook you a dinner from thin air you think you re in a restaurant and suck your brain out on the blowy after that, they don't ask you to buy them stuffs, down to earth and they feel it when you just step in the door if you ok or not. Low maintenance, can take care themselves and not interested in lemonade sex, but give you a sex you don't forget for 20 years.

What would you do for that woman?

Fuckin everything of course.
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
Get obsessed and such just to mention one. Take away focus from other areas in life.

Good woman can detect that and control the sexual life to put in balance
I think it depends on man strength as a man. Those who are strong enough can manage life AND love without destroying any. Am I right?
I think it's a natural process and progress of the relationship. Consider that you have suddenly the best sex ever and partner you were dreaming of, obviously you get under certain influence until you can manage. That happened to me. Total craziness. I am OK now and can seperate things as it should be but took some time for sure. I dobt think I could avoid that anyhow.

One more thing

The female who can make such influence are always alphas, so that woman with you for a reason so you better make sure to keep it that way, dobt fuck up with being immature. They rather stay alone. Weak no need to apply. You will regret to lose them

Those are the ones they cook you a dinner from thin air you think you re in a restaurant and suck your brain out on the blowy after that, they don't ask you to buy them stuffs, down to earth and they feel it when you just step in the door if you ok or not. Low maintenance, can take care themselves and not interested in lemonade sex, but give you a sex you don't forget for 20 years.

What would you do for that woman?

Fuckin everything of course.
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OMG! That was deep!!! Wow!

👍
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
....it's very distracting for them
Distracting in a which way?
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In a Scorpio Sun and Venus way...

.....consuming
Posted by Gemitati
You men.,,meeting a woman who makes you go over your limits...

You didn’t know you can and all of a sudden you went!

What would you be thinking about her?

Pillow talk is not real life.

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
Get obsessed and such just to mention one. Take away focus from other areas in life.

Good woman can detect that and control the sexual life to put in balance
I think it depends on man strength as a man. Those who are strong enough can manage life AND love without destroying any. Am I right?
I think it's a natural process and progress of the relationship. Consider that you have suddenly the best sex ever and partner you were dreaming of, obviously you get under certain influence until you can manage. That happened to me. Total craziness. I am OK now and can seperate things as it should be but took some time for sure. I dobt think I could avoid that anyhow.

One more thing

The female who can make such influence are always alphas, so that woman with you for a reason so you better make sure to keep it that way, dobt fuck up with being immature. They rather stay alone. Weak no need to apply. You will regret to lose them

Those are the ones they cook you a dinner from thin air you think you re in a restaurant and suck your brain out on the blowy after that, they don't ask you to buy them stuffs, down to earth and they feel it when you just step in the door if you ok or not. Low maintenance, can take care themselves and not interested in lemonade sex, but give you a sex you don't forget for 20 years.

What would you do for that woman?

Fuckin everything of course.
OMG! That was deep!!! Wow!

👍
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They are the ones seen enough crap in their life to know what they don't want, treated shit by their exes because they were weak to handle them, those with high standards but for themselves too, the ones takes no shit from anyone, but from you take it like a boss until you see your own wrongdoing and they cry only when you eventually tell how jerk you been and actually how much she means to you. They stick, they burry a body in the back garden with you without asking what happened, take care of you like you own mother didn't, but hate to hear you moaning about how shit is life so if you re that type just better find a puppy or something for yourself. They want to feel woman, and that you protect them and you there if they need you, they dobt expect anything but if they ask they really need you. They won't have sex if they don't want just to please you, thry want quality good sex or rather better just sleep longer. They are determined and discipline and expect you to be too, yes they want them to loose them up a bit sometimes and thry go fun in no time. Thry want their private time and respect yours will not bother or cling, but they want to feel you miss them and let you know if they do so. They want you to be gentleman but strong to put them in their places in a good manner, being a guide and thry learn how to be better too. They are the mirror of you, how you treat them what you get.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
You men.,,meeting a woman who makes you go over your limits...

You didn’t know you can and all of a sudden you went!

What would you be thinking about her?

Pillow talk is not real life.

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You ARE bundle of joy!!! Lmao

Darn! How bitter you are...it’s nauseating!
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
Get obsessed and such just to mention one. Take away focus from other areas in life.

Good woman can detect that and control the sexual life to put in balance
I think it depends on man strength as a man. Those who are strong enough can manage life AND love without destroying any. Am I right?
I think it's a natural process and progress of the relationship. Consider that you have suddenly the best sex ever and partner you were dreaming of, obviously you get under certain influence until you can manage. That happened to me. Total craziness. I am OK now and can seperate things as it should be but took some time for sure. I dobt think I could avoid that anyhow.

One more thing

The female who can make such influence are always alphas, so that woman with you for a reason so you better make sure to keep it that way, dobt fuck up with being immature. They rather stay alone. Weak no need to apply. You will regret to lose them

Those are the ones they cook you a dinner from thin air you think you re in a restaurant and suck your brain out on the blowy after that, they don't ask you to buy them stuffs, down to earth and they feel it when you just step in the door if you ok or not. Low maintenance, can take care themselves and not interested in lemonade sex, but give you a sex you don't forget for 20 years.

What would you do for that woman?

Fuckin everything of course.
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Have you kept her? 🙏🏻
@Sheever

Darn man!!! WHO ARE YOU???

❤️
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
You men.,,meeting a woman who makes you go over your limits...

You didn’t know you can and all of a sudden you went!

What would you be thinking about her?

Pillow talk is not real life.

You ARE bundle of joy!!! Lmao

Darn! How bitter you are...it’s nauseating!
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Pointing out the obvious does not = bitter.
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
Get obsessed and such just to mention one. Take away focus from other areas in life.

Good woman can detect that and control the sexual life to put in balance
I think it depends on man strength as a man. Those who are strong enough can manage life AND love without destroying any. Am I right?
I think it's a natural process and progress of the relationship. Consider that you have suddenly the best sex ever and partner you were dreaming of, obviously you get under certain influence until you can manage. That happened to me. Total craziness. I am OK now and can seperate things as it should be but took some time for sure. I dobt think I could avoid that anyhow.

One more thing

The female who can make such influence are always alphas, so that woman with you for a reason so you better make sure to keep it that way, dobt fuck up with being immature. They rather stay alone. Weak no need to apply. You will regret to lose them

Those are the ones they cook you a dinner from thin air you think you re in a restaurant and suck your brain out on the blowy after that, they don't ask you to buy them stuffs, down to earth and they feel it when you just step in the door if you ok or not. Low maintenance, can take care themselves and not interested in lemonade sex, but give you a sex you don't forget for 20 years.

What would you do for that woman?

Fuckin everything of course.
Have you kept her? 🙏🏻
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Of course. I dont want anyone else in my life but her. She is amazing. I am damn lucky, just as much she says she is. The only thing I regret is I didn't met her earlier. However none of us would be the same who we are today if not going through as we did. She is like my soulmate, went through so much together in a year time is not even funny. Fought a lot for each other, sacrifice and you name it,court trials, exes bullshit, moving distance and stuff. Been there for her since day one, I gave her hard time too so we both handful but love each other to pieces. Couldn't imagine my life without her nor I want to imagine
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
You men.,,meeting a woman who makes you go over your limits...

You didn’t know you can and all of a sudden you went!

What would you be thinking about her?

Pillow talk is not real life.

You ARE bundle of joy!!! Lmao

Darn! How bitter you are...it’s nauseating!
Pointing out the obvious does not = bitter.
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It does. When you keep pointing the same shit for years knowing that nobody really give a damn.

Just don’t tell me that I give a damn because I’ve replied...

You’ve done that before.

Just read what @sheever written and try to become THAT woman!

Caugh...who am I kidding?
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
Get obsessed and such just to mention one. Take away focus from other areas in life.

Good woman can detect that and control the sexual life to put in balance
I think it depends on man strength as a man. Those who are strong enough can manage life AND love without destroying any. Am I right?
I think it's a natural process and progress of the relationship. Consider that you have suddenly the best sex ever and partner you were dreaming of, obviously you get under certain influence until you can manage. That happened to me. Total craziness. I am OK now and can seperate things as it should be but took some time for sure. I dobt think I could avoid that anyhow.

One more thing

The female who can make such influence are always alphas, so that woman with you for a reason so you better make sure to keep it that way, dobt fuck up with being immature. They rather stay alone. Weak no need to apply. You will regret to lose them

Those are the ones they cook you a dinner from thin air you think you re in a restaurant and suck your brain out on the blowy after that, they don't ask you to buy them stuffs, down to earth and they feel it when you just step in the door if you ok or not. Low maintenance, can take care themselves and not interested in lemonade sex, but give you a sex you don't forget for 20 years.

What would you do for that woman?

Fuckin everything of course.
Have you kept her? 🙏🏻
Of course. I dont want anyone else in my life but her. She is amazing. I am damn lucky, just as much she says she is. The only thing I regret is I didn't met her earlier. However none of us would be the same who we are today if not going through as we did. She is like my soulmate, went through so much together in a year time is not even funny. Fought a lot for each other, sacrifice and you name it,court trials, exes bullshit, moving distance and stuff. Been there for her since day one, I gave her hard time too so we both handful but love each other to pieces. Couldn't imagine my life without her nor I want to imagine
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I want to die!!! So happy for you two!❤️❤️

How old were you when you’ve met?

Posted by Caramel_Princess
They’ll run. They’ll get scared if they can’t handle you. They want security and a set plan and you throwing a curveball their way will make their skin itch.
Not if they are strong.

He said

Not much rattles me. I own my business and it tests me more than a lady can lol

But it was before we actually got close.

So far I get my good morning love texts instead of an alarm...

😍
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
Get obsessed and such just to mention one. Take away focus from other areas in life.

Good woman can detect that and control the sexual life to put in balance
I think it depends on man strength as a man. Those who are strong enough can manage life AND love without destroying any. Am I right?
I think it's a natural process and progress of the relationship. Consider that you have suddenly the best sex ever and partner you were dreaming of, obviously you get under certain influence until you can manage. That happened to me. Total craziness. I am OK now and can seperate things as it should be but took some time for sure. I dobt think I could avoid that anyhow.

One more thing

The female who can make such influence are always alphas, so that woman with you for a reason so you better make sure to keep it that way, dobt fuck up with being immature. They rather stay alone. Weak no need to apply. You will regret to lose them

Those are the ones they cook you a dinner from thin air you think you re in a restaurant and suck your brain out on the blowy after that, they don't ask you to buy them stuffs, down to earth and they feel it when you just step in the door if you ok or not. Low maintenance, can take care themselves and not interested in lemonade sex, but give you a sex you don't forget for 20 years.

What would you do for that woman?

Fuckin everything of course.
Have you kept her? 🙏🏻
Of course. I dont want anyone else in my life but her. She is amazing. I am damn lucky, just as much she says she is. The only thing I regret is I didn't met her earlier. However none of us would be the same who we are today if not going through as we did. She is like my soulmate, went through so much together in a year time is not even funny. Fought a lot for each other, sacrifice and you name it,court trials, exes bullshit, moving distance and stuff. Been there for her since day one, I gave her hard time too so we both handful but love each other to pieces. Couldn't imagine my life without her nor I want to imagine
I want to die!!! So happy for you two!❤️❤️

How old were you when you’ve met?

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Met Over a year ago. I ve been in a relationship for 12years before her. We lived 200 miles away from each other. Didn't met physically only after two months but we had already strong connection. When first time I ve seen her I was speechless lol.

Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Sheever
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by bricklemark
What do you mean? Sexually ? I think that happens to every man. Women in love are open in a way we never dreamed. What do we think...it's awesome. But it can infringe on the career and social life.
Yes.

And how it can infringe?
Get obsessed and such just to mention one. Take away focus from other areas in life.

Good woman can detect that and control the sexual life to put in balance
I think it depends on man strength as a man. Those who are strong enough can manage life AND love without destroying any. Am I right?
I think it's a natural process and progress of the relationship. Consider that you have suddenly the best sex ever and partner you were dreaming of, obviously you get under certain influence until you can manage. That happened to me. Total craziness. I am OK now and can seperate things as it should be but took some time for sure. I dobt think I could avoid that anyhow.

One more thing

The female who can make such influence are always alphas, so that woman with you for a reason so you better make sure to keep it that way, dobt fuck up with being immature. They rather stay alone. Weak no need to apply. You will regret to lose them

Those are the ones they cook you a dinner from thin air you think you re in a restaurant and suck your brain out on the blowy after that, they don't ask you to buy them stuffs, down to earth and they feel it when you just step in the door if you ok or not. Low maintenance, can take care themselves and not interested in lemonade sex, but give you a sex you don't forget for 20 years.

What would you do for that woman?

Fuckin everything of course.
Have you kept her? 🙏🏻
Of course. I dont want anyone else in my life but her. She is amazing. I am damn lucky, just as much she says she is. The only thing I regret is I didn't met her earlier. However none of us would be the same who we are today if not going through as we did. She is like my soulmate, went through so much together in a year time is not even funny. Fought a lot for each other, sacrifice and you name it,court trials, exes bullshit, moving distance and stuff. Been there for her since day one, I gave her hard time too so we both handful but love each other to pieces. Couldn't imagine my life without her nor I want to imagine
I want to die!!! So happy for you two!❤️❤️

How old were you when you’ve met?





Met Over a year ago. I ve been in a relationship for 12years before her. We lived 200 miles away from each other. Didn't met physically only after two months but we had already strong connection. When first time I ve seen her I was speechless lol.

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And I see why...😍
Posted by Caramel_Princess
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Caramel_Princess
They’ll run. They’ll get scared if they can’t handle you. They want security and a set plan and you throwing a curveball their way will make their skin itch.
Not if they are strong.

He said

Not much rattles me. I own my business and it tests me more than a lady can lol

But it was before we actually got close.

So far I get my good morning love texts instead of an alarm...

😍
Is that the Cancer? Cancer men can’t be all that strong.

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Oh yeah! And he is exception I guess...

For the first time I see a man who has no problem of doing anything. Like everything is possible! And he is traveling like crazy BUT it doesn’t matter.

Maybe it’s his Gemini Venus...lmao
Posted by Gemitati
You men.,,meeting a woman who makes you go over your limits...

You didn’t know you can and all of a sudden you went!

What would you be thinking about her?

I don't know what he is thinking of me - but he goes up and beyond to provide for us and takes these career steps one after another and still isn't satisfied because in his mind there is still more for him to achieve in his words to provide everything I deserve. His paycheck is very good and still he wants more for us - I try even harder to be the best loving, understanding, motivating and supporting wife that I can be for him.

He makes me proud and my respect and devotion for him in return feels endless. I'm very thankful to call him my husband and father of our baby. He is that kind of man I want my son to look up to.