Posted by justagirl
Texting can be the demise of a relationship- too much miscommunication can happen.
Don't get me wrong i can text all day.. been told this before. . drives others crazy at times. But never about serious stuff.
Posted by TinxyPosted by justagirl
Texting can be the demise of a relationship- too much miscommunication can happen.
Don't get me wrong i can text all day.. been told this before. . drives others crazy at times. But never about serious stuff.
Should I just be upfront and honest
"Hey Aqua I'm fucking sick of the endless texting back and fourth if you want Anna talk fucking phone me or fuck off ?!"
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Posted by Huldra
Texting, Instagram... is there something in existence, that doesn't make you rant on here?
Posted by Koniucha
I agree that it can be maddening. I have no idea about the rules. If I like you, I will respond right away.
Posted by TinxyPosted by Huldra
Texting, Instagram... is there something in existence, that doesn't make you rant on here?
Chocolate
I'd never rant about that
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Posted by RainDancer
My views on textng are....
... I pretend like I never read my texts. Dead serious. No iPhone, no one can see of I read them or not.
I ensure someone will call me. It's my MO.
I always come off wrong in text messaging.
Posted by TinxyPosted by justagirl
Texting can be the demise of a relationship- too much miscommunication can happen.
Don't get me wrong i can text all day.. been told this before. . drives others crazy at times. But never about serious stuff.
Should I just be upfront and honest
"Hey Aqua I'm fucking sick of the endless texting back and fourth if you want Anna talk fucking phone me or fuck off ?!"
Will that doclick to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by RainDancer
My views on textng are....
... I pretend like I never read my texts. Dead serious. No iPhone, no one can see of I read them or not.
I ensure someone will call me. It's my MO.
I always come off wrong in text messaging.
You can change your setting on an iPhone so the other person does not know if you read their message.click to expand
Posted by VelocityPosted by TinxyPosted by justagirl
Texting can be the demise of a relationship- too much miscommunication can happen.
Don't get me wrong i can text all day.. been told this before. . drives others crazy at times. But never about serious stuff.
Should I just be upfront and honest
"Hey Aqua I'm fucking sick of the endless texting back and fourth if you want Anna talk fucking phone me or fuck off ?!"
Will that do
That is literally me. I'm an Aqua who can't do texting at all anymore unlike how I was able to back in middle school (passing 10,000 messages per month lol). Except I also dread talking on the phone. If you want to speak to me, I prefer face to face or instant messengers like Skype or Facebook.click to expand
Posted by justagirlPosted by VelocityPosted by Tinxy
Should I just be upfront and honest
"Hey Aqua I'm fucking sick of the endless texting back and fourth if you want Anna talk fucking phone me or fuck off ?!"
Will that do
That is literally me. I'm an Aqua who can't do texting at all anymore unlike how I was able to back in middle school (passing 10,000 messages per month lol). Except I also dread talking on the phone. If you want to speak to me, I prefer face to face or instant messengers like Skype or Facebook.
I mostly use my phone to be on facebook or here! I text co workers usually about work stuff and one of them is a chatter box. lol she keeps goggn and going. i finally figured otu she has to have the last word so if i dont repsonde she stops lol
@Tiz, 2 and half months?? i coudln't do it.. i spend to much surfing shit during down time. Was it hard at first?click to expand
Posted by VelocityPosted by justagirlPosted by VelocityPosted by Tinxy
Should I just be upfront and honest
"Hey Aqua I'm fucking sick of the endless texting back and fourth if you want Anna talk fucking phone me or fuck off ?!"
Will that do
That is literally me. I'm an Aqua who can't do texting at all anymore unlike how I was able to back in middle school (passing 10,000 messages per month lol). Except I also dread talking on the phone. If you want to speak to me, I prefer face to face or instant messengers like Skype or Facebook.
I mostly use my phone to be on facebook or here! I text co workers usually about work stuff and one of them is a chatter box. lol she keeps goggn and going. i finally figured otu she has to have the last word so if i dont repsonde she stops lol
@Tiz, 2 and half months?? i coudln't do it.. i spend to much surfing shit during down time. Was it hard at first?
Aww people like that are cute but annoying haha, they're probably the awkward type that don't want to be rude and end a conversation first. I always have my phone with me so technically texting is the best way to reach me, I'll use it to discuss meet ups or just anything important, aside from that if it's to converse, it has to have some kind of purpose and you best be prepared for paragraphs because I don't do small talk. Besides there's also apps like Kik, WhatsApp, and GroupMe to deal with *flops* I'm too introvert for the digital age.
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Posted by tizianiPosted by justagirlPosted by VelocityPosted by TinxyPosted by justagirl
Texting can be the demise of a relationship- too much miscommunication can happen.
Don't get me wrong i can text all day.. been told this before. . drives others crazy at times. But never about serious stuff.
Should I just be upfront and honest
"Hey Aqua I'm fucking sick of the endless texting back and fourth if you want Anna talk fucking phone me or fuck off ?!"
Will that do
That is literally me. I'm an Aqua who can't do texting at all anymore unlike how I was able to back in middle school (passing 10,000 messages per month lol). Except I also dread talking on the phone. If you want to speak to me, I prefer face to face or instant messengers like Skype or Facebook.
I mostly use my phone to be on facebook or here! I text co workers usually about work stuff and one of them is a chatter box. lol she keeps goggn and going. i finally figured otu she has to have the last word so if i dont repsonde she stops lol
@Tiz, 2 and half months?? i coudln't do it.. i spend to much surfing shit during down time. Was it hard at first?
Not so much because at first I was avoiding calls so I had an incentive. And then it just becomes habit.
I'm sure I'll need it again at some point but I've been more productive without a mobile so far (I realise this doesn't apply to everyone in every line of work though).click to expand
Posted by justagirlPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by RainDancer
My views on textng are....
... I pretend like I never read my texts. Dead serious. No iPhone, no one can see of I read them or not.
I ensure someone will call me. It's my MO.
I always come off wrong in text messaging.
You can change your setting on an iPhone so the other person does not know if you read their message.
HOW? LOLclick to expand
Posted by Koniucha
For me, the whole thing is just so complicated.
Like, if he is texting me non stop, is that good or bad? No idea.
What if its slows down, is he over me?
Ay dios mio!
Posted by Scenic
I just text whenever I feel like it. I mean, within the first day you would find out the other's texting style - whether they respond quickly or take their time. If I want to text a person, I do. If they don't respond for a day or two and I'm interested in talking to them - still gunna send a text. At that point I might just flat out ask why they're taking a while to respond - if that's just their style, if they're busy, if they're not interested, or if they're playing by some silly dating rule. Then in the future, I would have a better idea of what to expect and the possible reasonings behind it.
I've found that saying whatever is on my mind is really helpful on any platform. I don't 'wonder', I find out.
Posted by LibWmanPosted by Scenic
I just text whenever I feel like it. I mean, within the first day you would find out the other's texting style - whether they respond quickly or take their time. If I want to text a person, I do. If they don't respond for a day or two and I'm interested in talking to them - still gunna send a text. At that point I might just flat out ask why they're taking a while to respond - if that's just their style, if they're busy, if they're not interested, or if they're playing by some silly dating rule. Then in the future, I would have a better idea of what to expect and the possible reasonings behind it.
I've found that saying whatever is on my mind is really helpful on any platform. I don't 'wonder', I find out.
That's interesting you would say that. Im getting mixed signals from a fish via texting at the moment and really don't know what to make of it!click to expand
Posted by ScenicPosted by LibWmanPosted by Scenic
I just text whenever I feel like it. I mean, within the first day you would find out the other's texting style - whether they respond quickly or take their time. If I want to text a person, I do. If they don't respond for a day or two and I'm interested in talking to them - still gunna send a text. At that point I might just flat out ask why they're taking a while to respond - if that's just their style, if they're busy, if they're not interested, or if they're playing by some silly dating rule. Then in the future, I would have a better idea of what to expect and the possible reasonings behind it.
I've found that saying whatever is on my mind is really helpful on any platform. I don't 'wonder', I find out.
That's interesting you would say that. Im getting mixed signals from a fish via texting at the moment and really don't know what to make of it!
Yeah, I've seen quite a few posts from those being confused about Pisces texts. I would just ask. I can personally be really lazy with texts and get easily distracted. Not sure if that's a Pisces trait or not, though.click to expand