The BEST and WORST relationship you've been in
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by AquaSun on Sunday, February 8, 2009 and has 30 replies.
And what sign were they? How was it bad/unhealthy? How was it great?
I have yet to experience the best but my worst was the Cap I ended it with last week. What a prick. I was blind and naive. And he was my first!! Ughh!!! How unfortunate.
I hope my best is with a fire sign!
I have yet to experience the best but my worst was the Cap I ended it with last week. What a prick. I was blind and naive. And he was my first!! Ughh!!! How unfortunate.
I hope my best is with a fire sign!
I know there are going to be generalizations but let's just keep this fun, k folks?
DETAILS!!!
^^ Yeah.
I second BTB with the libra thing. That's why he was bad. The virgo was good because he was like I said normal didn't have a past holding him back from anything just a put together man. The aqua was good because he was a friend and just open and honest about everything. But he had a really bad drug problem and keep being in n outta jail so ya. But he never tried to hide things or be afraid of who he was. I respect that.
That's funny about Libras checking phones. A Libra girl said she was a master phone hacker. Could break into any phone, find out any password (is that even possible?). I wonder if she used that in her relationships...?
Well, anyway I kind of miss Cap (the friendship, NOT the intimacy. I only have one other friend besides him) and I'm a tad bit heartbroken that I had to end it. Mostly happy but damn, so much time wasted and little to no progress. That's the only part I'm heartbroken about, giving so much time and for it to mean nothing. Not so much him (hell, I wasn't even in love with him). Make sense?
I know I talk a lot about him but he's the ONLY guy I've ever been so very close to, so what I say is based on the experience I had with him.
And I'm in NYC, plenty of more fish in the seeeaaa!!!
Well, anyway I kind of miss Cap (the friendship, NOT the intimacy. I only have one other friend besides him) and I'm a tad bit heartbroken that I had to end it. Mostly happy but damn, so much time wasted and little to no progress. That's the only part I'm heartbroken about, giving so much time and for it to mean nothing. Not so much him (hell, I wasn't even in love with him). Make sense?
I know I talk a lot about him but he's the ONLY guy I've ever been so very close to, so what I say is based on the experience I had with him.
And I'm in NYC, plenty of more fish in the seeeaaa!!!
Cap. He used me to get what he wanted then discarded me.
" I wonder if she used that in her relationships...?" Probably. They are psycho. Lol.
"That's the only part I'm heartbroken about, giving so much time and for it to mean nothing. Not so much him (hell, I wasn't even in love with him). Make sense?" YES. There is nothing more I cry over than wasted time.
"That's the only part I'm heartbroken about, giving so much time and for it to mean nothing. Not so much him (hell, I wasn't even in love with him). Make sense?" YES. There is nothing more I cry over than wasted time.
"That's the only part I'm heartbroken about, giving so much time and for it to mean nothing. Not so much him (hell, I wasn't even in love with him). Make sense?" YES. There is nothing more I cry over than wasted time."
Exactly. I don't miss him at all. I'm pissed that I lost touch with myself. I could have spent that time working out, enjoying my life but I cared so much. Fuuuuuuu**.
Lesson learned.
Exactly. I don't miss him at all. I'm pissed that I lost touch with myself. I could have spent that time working out, enjoying my life but I cared so much. Fuuuuuuu**.
Lesson learned.
First off I'm going to say that most of my relationships are rocky due to my behavior. I'm no saint, I'm alot to deal with. I own up to that completely.
My worst was Libra. He LIED ALL THE TIME. Instead of dealing with issues he'd plaster a smile on his face and agree with me until he thought everything was ok. It annoyed the crap outta me. I knew there were issues but he'd run from me if I tried to rub is supid nose in it to SEE what was up. It just wasn't a good match. He ignored anything unpleasent. I'm about 50% unpleasent mood wise. I won't even mention that he was cheating with multiple women. I knew but I was waiting to confront him to nail his ass to the wall. In the end... blah!!! He wiggled away from having to face any responsibility in his actions.
Cap was bad in the end. The more distant he became the more emotional I became and it pushed him away further. I was only 16. Other then that it was really really perfect.
Aries has been the best for me. He doesn't let me get away with my bratty ass behavior. He calls my bluffs, he challanges me and he's honest. I couldn't ask for more.
My worst was Libra. He LIED ALL THE TIME. Instead of dealing with issues he'd plaster a smile on his face and agree with me until he thought everything was ok. It annoyed the crap outta me. I knew there were issues but he'd run from me if I tried to rub is supid nose in it to SEE what was up. It just wasn't a good match. He ignored anything unpleasent. I'm about 50% unpleasent mood wise. I won't even mention that he was cheating with multiple women. I knew but I was waiting to confront him to nail his ass to the wall. In the end... blah!!! He wiggled away from having to face any responsibility in his actions.
Cap was bad in the end. The more distant he became the more emotional I became and it pushed him away further. I was only 16. Other then that it was really really perfect.
Aries has been the best for me. He doesn't let me get away with my bratty ass behavior. He calls my bluffs, he challanges me and he's honest. I couldn't ask for more.
The Good-Pisces
The Bad- Virgo
The Ugly- Scorpio
The Bad- Virgo
The Ugly- Scorpio
The Best - Scorpio
The Worst - Aries
The Worst - Aries
I've only been in relationships with Virgos. lol Seriously.
None of them were bad. We just went separate ways. But it looks like this one may be for keeps. At least, I hope so...
None of them were bad. We just went separate ways. But it looks like this one may be for keeps. At least, I hope so...
I'm a Virgo.
The Best: My current Scorpio Wife. Finally! A Woman who understand Virgo Man!!
The Worst: None. We each bring our best to a serious relationship, so how can there ever be A Worst??
Best: Libra
Pure crap: scorpio
Pure crap: scorpio
best and worst ---> myself so aries...
gotta stop touching myself so much!
gotta stop touching myself so much!
The worst? Hmmm, when it came to compatibility & truly understanding eachother, I'd have to say Cancer. He was way too clingy, way too unpredictable in his emotions & seemed to be more in love with the concept of love than the actual person he was in love with. Sure, we had a lot of things in common but how we "tick" were completely opposite. Sometimes, I'd want to have those deep conversations just because. But it seemed as though the only time he wanted to get "deep" or intellectual was when he was complaining about something or showing his true colors through those random mood swings. There always seemed to be a pessimistic thing about him going on.
The best? I'd have to say Libra, when it comes to the most compatibility & intellectual satisfaction. I've always felt I could be my complete self around my Libra & for some reason none of that "distant" stuff happend at any time during the relationship, b/c he was able to show me up front that he could handle me & he was able to prove me wrong with all the skepticism I would've normally had towards someone I'm not yet in love with. He showed me that he was a Tiger when it came down to going after what he wanted (me) but at the same time, not forgetting or trying to escape his sensitive side in order for me to feel that "softness." It's very important for me to be with someone who's not afraid to show emotion or be true to their emotions & Libras never hold back, but they also only let it out when the time calls for it. In my mind, there is nothing worse than a person whose emotions are all over the place regardless of how sunny or shady it is outside. Libras brought that balance. I knew I had a fighter, but at the same time someone who would tone it down out in order for us both to feel that soft, sensual connection, w/o the both of us always having to take life too seriously all the time.
The best? I'd have to say Libra, when it comes to the most compatibility & intellectual satisfaction. I've always felt I could be my complete self around my Libra & for some reason none of that "distant" stuff happend at any time during the relationship, b/c he was able to show me up front that he could handle me & he was able to prove me wrong with all the skepticism I would've normally had towards someone I'm not yet in love with. He showed me that he was a Tiger when it came down to going after what he wanted (me) but at the same time, not forgetting or trying to escape his sensitive side in order for me to feel that "softness." It's very important for me to be with someone who's not afraid to show emotion or be true to their emotions & Libras never hold back, but they also only let it out when the time calls for it. In my mind, there is nothing worse than a person whose emotions are all over the place regardless of how sunny or shady it is outside. Libras brought that balance. I knew I had a fighter, but at the same time someone who would tone it down out in order for us both to feel that soft, sensual connection, w/o the both of us always having to take life too seriously all the time.
dyar you are so right!
KRYS!!!! I can't believe you're an Aqua women like me!!!
I mean hey, I love Libras so much because emotionally, they are very "down" for & prioritize the idea of relationship security & stability. And the reason I love this about them (that "not giving up" spirit) is b/c that is what I, as an Aqua fear. I fear not having stability & security in a relationship. I fear the "make up just to break up" fad that alot of people find cute & sex now-a-days. Now HOW they maintain the security (too emotionally attached, too clingy, etc.) is something I cannot control. But I do atleast admire the fact that they even have it in them to always want to stick things through when they have the potential to.
When I am seeking someone who will have that "ride for each other forever" mindset, Libras are the best choice, b/c they feel that intellectual & emotional connection is the most important (long term). But I can't lie, it only gets annoying when I want out of the relationship & have made that content decision to leave. Of course, then all of the things that I once admired about them turns into resentment & things that I now irritate me about them. But hey, when the times are good, Libras are the perfect match for me b/c what we both secretely seek in others is the same. But when things are rocky or simply over, it's almost as if that person becomes a pest & loses all respect, even though I once admired how persistent & consistent they were. Weird.
I mean hey, I love Libras so much because emotionally, they are very "down" for & prioritize the idea of relationship security & stability. And the reason I love this about them (that "not giving up" spirit) is b/c that is what I, as an Aqua fear. I fear not having stability & security in a relationship. I fear the "make up just to break up" fad that alot of people find cute & sex now-a-days. Now HOW they maintain the security (too emotionally attached, too clingy, etc.) is something I cannot control. But I do atleast admire the fact that they even have it in them to always want to stick things through when they have the potential to. When I am seeking someone who will have that "ride for each other forever" mindset, Libras are the best choice, b/c they feel that intellectual & emotional connection is the most important (long term). But I can't lie, it only gets annoying when I want out of the relationship & have made that content decision to leave. Of course, then all of the things that I once admired about them turns into resentment & things that I now irritate me about them. But hey, when the times are good, Libras are the perfect match for me b/c what we both secretely seek in others is the same. But when things are rocky or simply over, it's almost as if that person becomes a pest & loses all respect, even though I once admired how persistent & consistent they were. Weird.
I cant say I know of signs.. but I have been with older single mothers looking for a meal ticket, I have been with jealous control freaks and I have been with downright stupid girls that could not mentally stimulate me if they tryed. Im a firm believer in that you cannot truly know pleasure w/o first knowing pain and vice versa. For whats its worth, my current girl is a Taurus and shes truly something else, time will tell the rest of the story.
Scorpio and Scorpio. How's that for irony?
Best: Libra
Worst: Libra
Worst: Libra
My worst was with a Pisces. Cheated on me twice over and got both women pregnant in the process. One had a miscarriage and the other well she went with the other guy who had more money to be the father. The year I tried to forgive and forget and let life destroyer back in mines. He kicks me out twice over in both our place one I was paying ALL the bills at. Had his baby got kicked out of schools program, got back in school program find out I lost scholarship and grant and owe school a big chunk of loot b4 I can go back to finish my last year. Bcuz of timing of having baby lost an opportunity to work for the State Attorney's office.
Now, I don't even look at Pisces anymore (especially him). Ugghhh!!!
Now, I don't even look at Pisces anymore (especially him). Ugghhh!!!
I'm still looking for the best.
My best is the one I'm in right now with a Sagi. --It's pretty amazing how fun, intellectual and supportive we are of each other after only a month and half. He climbed right to the top and is setting the bar really high for any future (I HOPE NOT) men.
My worst was either the Scorpio who was so clingy and insecure it made me want to RUN or the Pisces who was my first love but had nothing but sorrow to contribute to our relationship.
My worst was either the Scorpio who was so clingy and insecure it made me want to RUN or the Pisces who was my first love but had nothing but sorrow to contribute to our relationship.
Signed Up: Jan 30, 2009
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The best: Cancer
The worst: Cancer
The worst: Cancer
I am a Libra.
Best Relationships: Taurus
So-So Relationships: Gemini, Cancer
Worst Relationships: Virgo, Scorpio, Aries
Best Relationships: Taurus
So-So Relationships: Gemini, Cancer
Worst Relationships: Virgo, Scorpio, Aries
the best was aries, the worst was cancer
Best: Sag... I would have married him too if it were for our LDR.
Worst:... I mean they haven't been bad per say. I guess with the Leo if you count wasting 5 years as worst :p.
He was definitely worst in bed.
Worst:... I mean they haven't been bad per say. I guess with the Leo if you count wasting 5 years as worst :p.
He was definitely worst in bed.
only had 2 relationships ever (almost 27 too!) so i would say that my best was with a libra and my worst with a cancer (i'm a leo/virgo cusp).
the cancer was just all around bad and unhealthy for me. part of it i had to attribute to us being so young (we started when i was 16 and he was 18; we were on and off for 3 years). he was a great lesson though! he was the definition of exactly what i didn't want in a significant other.
the libra was the exact opposite but it ended up being toxic in the end. we had great times but we became different ppl (we were together for 6 years). see in the first half of the relationship i had a lot of left-over emotional baggage to sort through and he was there during this process. i think this left him resentful and bitter, which i don't blme him for. unfortunately, his mind was made up and he refused to see my improvement and who i had become. he started blaming me for every negative aspect of his life, and i only encouraged his success. it was weird. i became a very loving, warm, affectionate person and that's when he started disliking me the most. another issue is that he never truly unpacked his baggage. he holds grudges big time. he's almost 29 now and he's still incredibly bitter about a best friend he had as a teenager.
it's ok though. i'm the one who broke it off in both relationships. i think we all deserve to be with someone who wants us too.
the best relationship i can have is with a cap. he just needs to make up his mind is all and we can build universes together. regardless, i move forward!
the cancer was just all around bad and unhealthy for me. part of it i had to attribute to us being so young (we started when i was 16 and he was 18; we were on and off for 3 years). he was a great lesson though! he was the definition of exactly what i didn't want in a significant other.
the libra was the exact opposite but it ended up being toxic in the end. we had great times but we became different ppl (we were together for 6 years). see in the first half of the relationship i had a lot of left-over emotional baggage to sort through and he was there during this process. i think this left him resentful and bitter, which i don't blme him for. unfortunately, his mind was made up and he refused to see my improvement and who i had become. he started blaming me for every negative aspect of his life, and i only encouraged his success. it was weird. i became a very loving, warm, affectionate person and that's when he started disliking me the most. another issue is that he never truly unpacked his baggage. he holds grudges big time. he's almost 29 now and he's still incredibly bitter about a best friend he had as a teenager.
it's ok though. i'm the one who broke it off in both relationships. i think we all deserve to be with someone who wants us too.
the best relationship i can have is with a cap. he just needs to make up his mind is all and we can build universes together. regardless, i move forward!
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