krysrenee7
@krysrenee7
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The perfect companion
The perfect boyfriend/husband:
Physically: Tall. Muscular. Athletic. Smooth & clear skin. Clean cut. Good hygiene. Smells amazing!
All clean white teeth. No chest hair. Soft lips. No wrinkles. No pimples/blemishes. Can dress his ass off. Nice hairline (not receding lol!). Has a cute little accent! Eye candy =P
Emotionally: Emotionally available. Secure/stable. Is over all ex's & women from the past. Confident. Honest. Is his own best friend. Book & street smart. Affectionate. Romantic. Loves him some me! Dedicated to making me happy just like himself. Faithful. Hilarious. Family-oriented. Wants kids. Has mature & good-natured friends. Is talented in many different areas (can sing, play a musical instrument & can dance). Sends me flowers/gifts "just because." Gets along with my friends/family. Knows how to have a good time w/o partying being involved. Can cook his ass off! Tells me everything & considers me his best friend. Is protective over me. Wants to go to the ultimate commitment level with me. Believes in God & actually lives a Christian life. The guy who actually doesn't mind cuddling. Is attentive to my needs. Listens to me. Respectually communicates with me. Understands me.
Sexually: is WELL endowed! *wink* Likes giving oral sex as much as he likes receiving it. Randomly calls/texts me during all times of the day & gets me all excited about the sex we'll have later! Is into all the kinky stuff I'm into (there's nothing worse than someone thinking you're crazy when you tell them your fantasies!). Hasn't had alot of sexual partners. Good & clean hygiene. Someone who can pick me up, turn me around, spin me to the side, the whole 9 haha! Someone spontaneous & experimental
Financial: I wouldn't mind a millionaire! BUT if not possible, someone who is financially stable enough & doesn't live paycheck to paycheck. Has a good/stable job they can retire from. Has enough money to pay the bills, save money & spoil me at the same time. Likes nice things. Isn't cheap. Has 401K!!! Has good benefits (health insurance, life insurance, etc.) Has good taste (decorating home). Likes to travel to different cities/countries.
Physically: Tall. Muscular. Athletic. Smooth & clear skin. Clean cut. Good hygiene. Smells amazing!
All clean white teeth. No chest hair. Soft lips. No wrinkles. No pimples/blemishes. Can dress his ass off. Nice hairline (not receding lol!). Has a cute little accent! Eye candy =P
Emotionally: Emotionally available. Secure/stable. Is over all ex's & women from the past. Confident. Honest. Is his own best friend. Book & street smart. Affectionate. Romantic. Loves him some me! Dedicated to making me happy just like himself. Faithful. Hilarious. Family-oriented. Wants kids. Has mature & good-natured friends. Is talented in many different areas (can sing, play a musical instrument & can dance). Sends me flowers/gifts "just because." Gets along with my friends/family. Knows how to have a good time w/o partying being involved. Can cook his ass off! Tells me everything & considers me his best friend. Is protective over me. Wants to go to the ultimate commitment level with me. Believes in God & actually lives a Christian life. The guy who actually doesn't mind cuddling. Is attentive to my needs. Listens to me. Respectually communicates with me. Understands me.
Sexually: is WELL endowed! *wink* Likes giving oral sex as much as he likes receiving it. Randomly calls/texts me during all times of the day & gets me all excited about the sex we'll have later! Is into all the kinky stuff I'm into (there's nothing worse than someone thinking you're crazy when you tell them your fantasies!). Hasn't had alot of sexual partners. Good & clean hygiene. Someone who can pick me up, turn me around, spin me to the side, the whole 9 haha! Someone spontaneous & experimental
Financial: I wouldn't mind a millionaire! BUT if not possible, someone who is financially stable enough & doesn't live paycheck to paycheck. Has a good/stable job they can retire from. Has enough money to pay the bills, save money & spoil me at the same time. Likes nice things. Isn't cheap. Has 401K!!! Has good benefits (health insurance, life insurance, etc.) Has good taste (decorating home). Likes to travel to different cities/countries.
Wanting a man who is financially stable & who actually shares his finances with his "family" is considered gold-digging? Wow!
Why do people consider it so taboo & think it's "gold digging" all b/c a woman expects her man to be just as financially stable as she is? If it's fair that I expect him to be my "equal" in other areas, how am I wrong for wanting him to be my equal in the financial category?
I get that some chicks don't have a penny or pot to piss in & yet expect for the man to do everything, BUT I'm not 1 of those women. I expect my man to be/have all the things I have so that we can share them "together." That's kind of the purpose of having a "companion"
Why do people consider it so taboo & think it's "gold digging" all b/c a woman expects her man to be just as financially stable as she is? If it's fair that I expect him to be my "equal" in other areas, how am I wrong for wanting him to be my equal in the financial category?
I get that some chicks don't have a penny or pot to piss in & yet expect for the man to do everything, BUT I'm not 1 of those women. I expect my man to be/have all the things I have so that we can share them "together." That's kind of the purpose of having a "companion"
"My list
Can cook, clean, be independent etc y'know ...normal
Isn't a crack whore etc
Is smart (book or street is kinda irrelevant) ie: Doesn't act like Cartman after dining on Vagisil
Isn't Jabba the Hut level obese
No cottage cheese or designer stubble on the legs
Isn't mardy"
lol
Can cook, clean, be independent etc y'know ...normal
Isn't a crack whore etc
Is smart (book or street is kinda irrelevant) ie: Doesn't act like Cartman after dining on Vagisil
Isn't Jabba the Hut level obese
No cottage cheese or designer stubble on the legs
Isn't mardy"
lol
Posted by starlover
but sometimes the talk of big cocks and money makes me sick. What about kindness, humour, being loving etc?
Then perhaps you should do something about your selective sight! You only saw what you wanted to see.
The financial area was just 1 area. Did you not read the rest of what I wrote? About wanting someone who is "hilarious" "honest" & good natured?
Yes, I'm married. And HAPPILY!
So what, it's impossible to be curious about/discuss a wide variety of topics & be happily married at the same time? I may be married, but I'm still human!
"how would you feel if you read on here that a man wants a woman with a tight vagina...big breasts and to be financially solvent (but not quite a millionaire)"....
...It wouldn't bother me at all. Plenty of men prefer tight vaginas, like women with big breasts & women who are financially independent! There's nothing shallow or wrong about that
Of course it may seem wrong to the person who doesn't fit those standards, but to everyone else, people have the right to want what they want, even if that particular thing isn't very important to others.
With every single "preference" that one can imagine, there will always be 1,000 people who think it's completely shallow & wrong, while another 2,000 think it's quite rational & acceptable.
So what, it's impossible to be curious about/discuss a wide variety of topics & be happily married at the same time? I may be married, but I'm still human!
"how would you feel if you read on here that a man wants a woman with a tight vagina...big breasts and to be financially solvent (but not quite a millionaire)"....
...It wouldn't bother me at all. Plenty of men prefer tight vaginas, like women with big breasts & women who are financially independent! There's nothing shallow or wrong about that
Of course it may seem wrong to the person who doesn't fit those standards, but to everyone else, people have the right to want what they want, even if that particular thing isn't very important to others.
With every single "preference" that one can imagine, there will always be 1,000 people who think it's completely shallow & wrong, while another 2,000 think it's quite rational & acceptable.
A man who is proud of me, and loves me from the top of my hair to the soles of my feet for myself.
Depends upon whom you are speaking to.
Posted by jgonzo
Why waste time/energy discussing the "perfect mate," it' not going to happen. Life is too short to chase the impossible dream; it is about finding what works.
Fantasy may not be reality but it's still entertaining.
I didn't say discuss this topic as if doing so would magically create the perfect companion.
Sometimes it's good for a person to imagine what they'd consider perfect & then compare it to what they already have/had.
Plus, someone like me whose dream list isn't all that unrealistic, I actually found the man of my dreams. He actually exceeded my expectations. Proof that it's possible to find the perfect imperfect person
The Perfect Companion: Someone who realizes that I am ALWAYS right!! 🙂
I KNOW IT WOULD NEVER BE ME.
Faithful, fine, romantic, a good communicator, who thinks I'm the best thing since sliced bread. 🙂
How so?
What about your husband Kry? You havn't said what kid of man he is yet.
I think it's really unusual and a little odd that a happily married women would speak of such things simply because most users here and in real life of course are one track minded when it comes to being in relationships and obsessing over a particular man. Kryserenee seems to stay objective which is strangely unique.
An example of what i'm talking about would be on here where usually when a women is in a relationship with a man (or has an interest) she only visits that particular persons sign board, and talks only about him. Like for example Caligula when she went from dating an aries to a pisces. And understandably avoids any talk about "perfect partners" or reframes from posting pics of hot men. Which is completey understandable and normal.
In real life it's more of a case of someone blabbing non-stop about their partners an never stops thinking about them consuming their very life.
But Kry on the other hand seems to have the complete opposite attitude which is refreshing and smart, so ultimately i think i speak on the behalf of some of the posters here when i say our perceptions of your relationship status/situation comes across as odd at the very least, or that your in a failing marriage in the very extreme.
An example of what i'm talking about would be on here where usually when a women is in a relationship with a man (or has an interest) she only visits that particular persons sign board, and talks only about him. Like for example Caligula when she went from dating an aries to a pisces. And understandably avoids any talk about "perfect partners" or reframes from posting pics of hot men. Which is completey understandable and normal.
In real life it's more of a case of someone blabbing non-stop about their partners an never stops thinking about them consuming their very life.
But Kry on the other hand seems to have the complete opposite attitude which is refreshing and smart, so ultimately i think i speak on the behalf of some of the posters here when i say our perceptions of your relationship status/situation comes across as odd at the very least, or that your in a failing marriage in the very extreme.
LOL!
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Minus the drug issues. lol
Minus the drug issues. lol
Posted by PbPosted by MadameAthena
http://media.photobucket.com/image/gary dourdan/poekie101/gary-dourdan.jpg?o=0" target="_blank">
Minus the drug issues. lol
Damn duhdamndamn, damn.. lol
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Word! DAYYYYYYUUUMMMMMMMM!!!! That is one fine brother. All I need is ONE night. Just one.
Posted by Pb
The confidence and fight of a fire sign.
The stability and loyalty of earth.
The sensitivity and sensuality of water.
The intellect and joy of air.
Yes. Dammit. I want that too. 🙂
Posted by MadameAthenaPosted by Pb
The confidence and fight of a fire sign.
The stability and loyalty of earth.
The sensitivity and sensuality of water.
The intellect and joy of air.
Yes. Dammit. I want that too. 🙂click to expand
Eloquently put. Me too, me too!
is it me but does black Brad Pitt come to mind?
He was definitely giving Brad a run for his money back in the day when he was at the height of his deliciousness (around the time he did Janet Jacksons AGAIN video):
But he fell, waaay the fuck off:
And dont you just want to take him home and make love to him all nite, here:
A damn shame.
But he fell, waaay the fuck off:
And dont you just want to take him home and make love to him all nite, here:
A damn shame.
Holy Shit, at the second pic!! That is not him. That is Demtiris Hirsch, a non-celeb who was used for hype.
http://stuffboston.com/sandbox/archive/2007/11.aspx<BR>
^^^^^ Proof.
http://stuffboston.com/sandbox/archive/2007/11.aspx<BR>
^^^^^ Proof.
http://stuffboston.com/sandbox/archive/2007/11/30/csi-star-mug-shot-hooray-for-heroin.aspx<BR>
^^^^ Sorry, here is the link.
^^^^ Sorry, here is the link.
Posted by Dreamer02Posted by MadameAthenaPosted by Pb
The confidence and fight of a fire sign.
The stability and loyalty of earth.
The sensitivity and sensuality of water.
The intellect and joy of air.
Yes. Dammit. I want that too. 🙂
Eloquently put. Me too, me too!click to expand
Love it! lol
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