Today I read an article from a magazine from 1955 that listed several things the "good housewife" should do- all geared toward pleasing the man of the house, which appropriately ended with something to the tune of- you don't have the right to argue anything he says or does. Now of course the independant part of me screamed in pain at this piece of crap writing, but then again the divorce rate was much lower back then than it is now. However, I'm pretty sure that people were not exactly happy then either- at least not the "good housewives". Makes you wonder what is better- does one person have to give up so much more in order to make it work?
Then or now

does one person have to give up so much more in order to make it work?
ya... a relationship is all work 😛
ya... a relationship is all work 😛
ha ha- yes i know 🙂 But mostly it is worth the work 🙂
I agree that it is a give and take- each person in the relationship has to compromise in some way- but I think if only one person compromises, there is a problem, or at least there should be a discussion or at least some kind of agreement- I do not ever want my guy to think that he has compromised more than I have or that it is not worth it. Relationships and life is a constant give and take- balancing on a seesaw 🙂

But mostly it is worth the work
i agree... hey Kavindra i love ur posts... wats your sign—

ooooo ok... ur a gemini..kool
i agree... hey Kavindra i love ur posts... wats your sign—
*Blushes*
Thanks!
*Blushes*
Thanks!
Oh absolutely- that's what I mean to say- it is a give and take and depending on the situation someone is either giving or taking at different times- I don't mean balance like keeping track of who is giving or taking more or less- a great relationship does not count those things- both have to do it though- constantly giving or constantly taking would destroy a relationship- I like the back scratch comment 🙂
What about being a team in a relationship? Both giving & taking? Why not
Absolutely! Even in a team there is a give and take- think about sports- for example, basketball- they all work together to get the ball to the basket, but only one person can make the winning dunk- but they all have their rolls.....being in a relationship is giving and taking both
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