This is a little strange

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by starlord on Tuesday, November 26, 2019 and has 28 replies.
I was in a bad space and got attracted to some bad people basically. Some romsntically some on a friend level.


I woke up slowly and have cut all of them out of my life. One ended with a very clear conflict, and me now multiple times saying no to wanting to meet up. This person unfortuanately followed me to my new job and insists it seems to approach me every day, even though we are not in the same team and I don't want to talk to her.

Several girls we both used to work with, said to me a couole of days ago, how manipulative she is. I realized that too, but these people also told me themselves, one even said that this girl came very close to being a sociopath, which is pretty much what I have been thinking.


Latest I hear, that this girl is telling other people, that nothing is wrong between me and her, that we just need a little time apart and then we will talk again, that we are in some ways still friends. I was like wtf!!! That is the weirdest shit I have heard in a long time. She is more off the hinges than I thought.
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Noone answered, but that's okay. I'll just vent.


So why the fuck is this girl not removed from my life?

Over and over and over thye keep telling me, that it is jer last day as a fill in at MY job, and then boom next day, there she is with jer ugly ass head back at my space.

And now she has opted for a full time position there. And my boss, deff dumb and blind, has not collected jer data, not realizing that she basically got fired from herlast job as the fucking low life person she is. Was told my boss has been tricked ny guys in her life for many years now, giving them money, when they claim they had no job, while working on the side plus dating other women on the side. She doesn't stand a chance against this mamipulative bitch. And she will realize it too late. That she got played behind her years.

I don't understand Wtf I am supposed to learn from some entity cobstantly keeping people I don't want to know anything about me in my life always now. This bitch just needs tl go get a fucking life of her own. She is beyond reach. Only thing good about it is that people at this place are too mature and uninterested om her dumb life for her to play. Nobody gives a shit who she fucks or who she hangs out with. Noone is going to get jelaous. Noone is gonna care about anything she does and probably that's gonna bore her to death. She is one of the worst people I have ever met in my entire life. And I am happy I acted dumb towards her, so she could ahow her true colors.
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wait you're mad at some girl just coz she tells people you guys are friends when you don't even like her?


wow so evil of her to tell people you're on friendly terms


what's the big deal?
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Posted by Arielle83

This girl has no idea what you and your two faced hen party are saying about her, but she’s the sociopath?


Gimme a fuvking break.
Star lord is bored and needed some topic to post.

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Posted by virgoOPPP

wait you're mad at some girl just coz she tells people you guys are friends when you don't even like her?


wow so evil of her to tell people you're on friendly terms


what's the big deal?
Don’t forget she’s also evil AND has an ugly face 😂😂
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I’m confused why you need to vent to dxp when you have coworkers to vent to and talk mad shit on this girl.

Either way she is winning cause you are spending your energy hating.


Also confused why her wanting more hours at your mutual job = her not having a life.
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Posted by starlord

And now she has opted for a full time position there. And my boss, deff dumb and blind, has not collected jer data, not realizing that she basically got fired from herlast job as the fucking low life person she is. Was told my boss has been tricked ny guys in her life for many years now, giving them money, when they cæaim they had no job, while working on the side plus dating other women on the side.


Wow so you also like to gossip and talk shit about your employer. This isn’t going to end the way you’d like...
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Arielle83

This girl has no idea what you and your two faced hen party are saying about her, but she’s the sociopath?


Gimme a fuvking break.


Star lord is bored and needed some topic to post.


Either hating on some guy that doesn’t want her creepy ass, or hating on the chick that’s friends with that guy, and calling her fake.
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Whatever available for bitching goes! 😜
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Arielle83

This girl has no idea what you and your two faced hen party are saying about her, but she’s the sociopath?


Gimme a fuvking break.


Star lord is bored and needed some topic to post.


Either hating on some guy that doesn’t want her creepy ass, or hating on the chick that’s friends with that guy, and calling her fake.


Whatever available for bitching goes! 😜


I just read her whole vent as her projecting. That’s why it’s always funny
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I will. As soon as I’ll pull CC out of my ass...she seemed stuck in there...I don’t want her to get too cozy. It’s invasion of my privacy. 😂🤣
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Posted by virgoOPPP

wait you're mad at some girl just coz she tells people you guys are friends when you don't even like her?


wow so evil of her to tell people you're on friendly terms


what's the big deal?
😂😂😂😂😂

Reason she tells people we are still friends, is because she is afraid to tell anyone, why we are not friends anymore, because that reveal how she is.

She is to date the genuinly most manipulation person I have ever met, making fake accounts on Facebook, talking behind other peoples back, putting the blame on somebody else, putting people against each other, she is a real highschooler. I am irritated and frudtrated, that she has not officially started at my job. But alas, there is an older Lady getting back from her sick leave soon, and she will not make life easy for this girl, so perhaps she will stop.


I am irritated yes, and if you find it stupid that I am, well who cares.
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Posted by starlord
Posted by virgoOPPP

wait you're mad at some girl just coz she tells people you guys are friends when you don't even like her?


wow so evil of her to tell people you're on friendly terms


what's the big deal?


😂😂😂😂😂

Reason she tells people we are still friends, is because she is afraid to tell anyone, why we are not friends anymore, because that reveal how she is.

She is to date the genuinly most manipulation person I have ever met, making fake accounts on Facebook, talking behind other peoples back, putting the blame on somebody else, putting people against each other, she is a real highschooler. I am irritated and frudtrated, that she has not officially started at my job. But alas, there is an older Lady getting back from her sick leave soon, and she will not make life easy for this girl, so perhaps she will stop.


I am irritated yes, and if you find it stupid that I am, well who cares.
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just be distant


act like you don't know her at all
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Talk to her and let her know how you feel and then just let her out of your life


Job done...
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Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by starlord
Posted by virgoOPPP

wait you're mad at some girl just coz she tells people you guys are friends when you don't even like her?


wow so evil of her to tell people you're on friendly terms


what's the big deal?


😂😂😂😂😂

Reason she tells people we are still friends, is because she is afraid to tell anyone, why we are not friends anymore, because that reveal how she is.

She is to date the genuinly most manipulation person I have ever met, making fake accounts on Facebook, talking behind other peoples back, putting the blame on somebody else, putting people against each other, she is a real highschooler. I am irritated and frudtrated, that she has not officially started at my job. But alas, there is an older Lady getting back from her sick leave soon, and she will not make life easy for this girl, so perhaps she will stop.


I am irritated yes, and if you find it stupid that I am, well who cares.


just be distant


act like you don't know her at all
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Bitch keep talking to me every day. I only respond if I have to. She also talks over me and does many things to try and interact with me.

She has no morals, so it's not out of spire or hurt feelings or anything. She just find it fun and need to always be the one to be heard and on top.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Talk to her and let her know how you feel and then just let her out of your life


Job done...
I am not gonna talk to her anymore than I have.

And I have made it clear already twice, that I don't want to talk to her. She doesn't care. She finds this stuff fun and keep talking to me and try to interact. She irks the hell out of me.
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Posted by Phangus
Posted by starlord

Noone answered, but that's okay. I'll just vent.


So why the fuck is this girl not removed from my life?

Over and over and over thye keep telling me, that it is jer last day as a fill in at MY job, and then boom next day, there she is with jer ugly ass head back at my space.

And now she has opted for a full time position there. And my boss, deff dumb and blind, has not collected jer data, not realizing that she basically got fired from herlast job as the fucking low life person she is. Was told my boss has been tricked ny guys in her life for many years now, giving them money, when they cæaim they had no job, while working on the side plus dating other women on the side. She doesn't stand a chance against this mamipulative bitch. And she will realize it too late. That she got played behind her years.

I don't understand Wtf I am supposed to learn from some entity cobstantly keeping people I don't want to know anything about me in my life always now. This bitch just needs tl go get a fucking life of her own. She is beyond reach. Only thing good about it is that people at this place are too mature and uninterested om her dumb life for her to play. Nobody gives a shit who she fucks or who she hangs out with. Noone is going to get jelaous. Noone is gonna care about anything she does and probably that's gonna bore her to death. She is one of the worst people I have ever met in my entire life. And I am happy I acted dumb towards her, so she could ahow her true colors.


You are trying your level best to get her fired, aren't you?
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I am trying my best to not have her hired. I am very honest about that, but if you need to feel like Sherlock Homes then by all means.
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Putrid petulance
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Putrid petulance
Sure.
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Posted by Phangus

I don’t know why you can’t just admit that you got jealous and hurt because the Cap chose her over you. cry it out. As long as you pretend there’s something more complicated going on you’re going to be banging your head against a wall trying to get other people to agree with your bullshit.
Do you honestly believe, I would not admit that? If that was what was bothering me. I mean are you fucking kidding me?

As long as you are stuck in wanting me to be who ever it is you need me to be to deal with your own shit, nothing I say will be "good enough" for you, and honey it is none of my business to make it. You believe whateeeeeever it is you want. It doesn't brother me one bit, although it is showing a lack of familiarity with how I am as a person, but that's okay.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Talk to her and let her know how you feel and then just let her out of your life


Job done...


I am not gonna talk to her anymore than I have.

And I have made it clear already twice, that I don't want to talk to her. She doesn't care. She finds this stuff fun and keep talking to me and try to interact. She irks the hell out of me.
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Just blank her then
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Posted by Phangus

I don’t know why you can’t just admit that you got jealous and hurt because the Cap chose her over you. cry it out. As long as you pretend there’s something more complicated going on you’re going to be banging your head against a wall trying to get other people to agree with your bullshit.
Oh! That’s what’s up in here...old as an Earth itself...🤦‍♀️
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by starlord
Posted by MyStarsShine

Talk to her and let her know how you feel and then just let her out of your life


Job done...


I am not gonna talk to her anymore than I have.

And I have made it clear already twice, that I don't want to talk to her. She doesn't care. She finds this stuff fun and keep talking to me and try to interact. She irks the hell out of me.


Just blank her then
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Believe me I am doing what I can.

But it's like she inserts herself in situations to interact.

Today a coworker and I are standing together, and the coworker looks at me and ask me something, and as I am answering this question, asked directly to me, this bee comes almost running from the back to answer the question, interrupting me. Pointless. But just to have some attention and to position herself as the person with all the answers. She is an alpha female. She wants control. And she will do whatever she can to get it. I think you could make a movie about her honestly 😂 She is one for the books. I am just pissed off that I can't get rid of her.

She will never change or anything, her brain is wired the way it is. I just have to figure out what I'm gonna do. How to accept that she is now gonna be there in my life every fucking day. It's a joke.
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Posted by Phangus

I don’t know why you can’t just admit that you got jealous and hurt because the Cap chose her over you. cry it out. As long as you pretend there’s something more complicated going on you’re going to be banging your head against a wall trying to get other people to agree with your bullshit.


Oh! That’s what’s up in here...old as an Earth itself...🤦‍♀️
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Sure b.
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Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus

I don’t know why you can’t just admit that you got jealous and hurt because the Cap chose her over you. cry it out. As long as you pretend there’s something more complicated going on you’re going to be banging your head against a wall trying to get other people to agree with your bullshit.


Oh! That’s what’s up in here...old as an Earth itself...🤦‍♀️


I really believe that's the heart of the matter, and her ego is not accepting it, which is preventing her from healing.
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You are too far behind. I already cried my tears over being rejected by that guy, then saw him for what he is and now am thankful to have him out of my life and am at a point where I laugh at ever having feelings for him,while also wondering if there is something seriously wrong with me, since he is just a little kid. So I freaked myself out and will have to deal with that. But tears? Nah. That story is over. Now I am at a phase where I am looking with the eyes of reality of who the fuck the people I met last year actually are and what that said about where I was. And trying to remove myself from it.

You are too late with this simply. I'm sorry to ruin your wet dream of being the smartest person in the room. So many of you have that. Did nobody never tell you, that you were good in school or something?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus

I don’t know why you can’t just admit that you got jealous and hurt because the Cap chose her over you. cry it out. As long as you pretend there’s something more complicated going on you’re going to be banging your head against a wall trying to get other people to agree with your bullshit.


Oh! That’s what’s up in here...old as an Earth itself...🤦‍♀️


I really believe that's the heart of the matter, and her ego is not accepting it, which is preventing her from healing.
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I believe it can be the true.

I am also has seen people who are deliberately annoying others without an apparent reason like she is describing.

Could be this or that or both!

I guess WE will never know for sure unless SHE will tell by accident or on purpose what’s really is going on.
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Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus

I don’t know why you can’t just admit that you got jealous and hurt because the Cap chose her over you. cry it out. As long as you pretend there’s something more complicated going on you’re going to be banging your head against a wall trying to get other people to agree with your bullshit.


Oh! That’s what’s up in here...old as an Earth itself...🤦‍♀️


I really believe that's the heart of the matter, and her ego is not accepting it, which is preventing her from healing.


I believe it can be the true.

I am also has seen people who are deliberately annoying others without an apparent reason like she is describing.

Could be this or that or both!

I guess WE will never know for sure unless SHE will tell by accident or on purpose what’s really is going on.


You could go back to the beginning a year and a half...maybe two years ago and read all the posts and see why everyone who responds to her sounds frustrated, but it would be a very long, circular read.
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Gemini knows my story.

My feelings are not the same anymore though.

Weird you can't accept that, when that is what everybody wanted😂😂😂 your posts are like a boring joke.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus

I don’t know why you can’t just admit that you got jealous and hurt because the Cap chose her over you. cry it out. As long as you pretend there’s something more complicated going on you’re going to be banging your head against a wall trying to get other people to agree with your bullshit.


Oh! That’s what’s up in here...old as an Earth itself...🤦‍♀️


I really believe that's the heart of the matter, and her ego is not accepting it, which is preventing her from healing.


I believe it can be the true.

I am also has seen people who are deliberately annoying others without an apparent reason like she is describing.

Could be this or that or both!

I guess WE will never know for sure unless SHE will tell by accident or on purpose what’s really is going on.


You could go back to the beginning a year and a half...maybe two years ago and read all the posts and see why everyone who responds to her sounds frustrated, but it would be a very long, circular read.
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No thanks. I’ll read this one. I was sold on her ‘stopped crying’ comment and this is how I usually fall! Believe it or not I have a very soft spot for people who are crying for love...

I’ve almost cried myself listening for the first time to the old song ‘I am laying next to him and thinking of you’...shit like that makes me hysterical...🤦‍♀️😂😂😂
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Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Phangus

I don’t know why you can’t just admit that you got jealous and hurt because the Cap chose her over you. cry it out. As long as you pretend there’s something more complicated going on you’re going to be banging your head against a wall trying to get other people to agree with your bullshit.


Oh! That’s what’s up in here...old as an Earth itself...🤦‍♀️


I really believe that's the heart of the matter, and her ego is not accepting it, which is preventing her from healing.


I believe it can be the true.

I am also has seen people who are deliberately annoying others without an apparent reason like she is describing.

Could be this or that or both!

I guess WE will never know for sure unless SHE will tell by accident or on purpose what’s really is going on.


You could go back to the beginning a year and a half...maybe two years ago and read all the posts and see why everyone who responds to her sounds frustrated, but it would be a very long, circular read.


No thanks. I’ll read this one. I was sold on her ‘stopped crying’ comment and this is how I usually fall! Believe it or not I have a very soft spot for people who are crying for love...

I’ve almost cried myself listening for the first time to the old song ‘I am laying next to him and thinking of you’...shit like that makes me hysterical...🤦‍♀️😂😂😂
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Obviously I have horrible taste in guys, as all the guys I have really liked have been narcissists. Crying over them now looks ridicouless and probably us crying people are in reality mostly crying about ourselves and why we have these horrible patterns that keep destroying our joy without being able to move past it. But crying and going through the cycle each time takes me a step closer. We can't all of us be in happy relationships. There would be no dxp.
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Posted by starlord
Posted by MyStarsShine

Talk to her and let her know how you feel and then just let her out of your life


Job done...


I am not gonna talk to her anymore than I have.

And I have made it clear already twice, that I don't want to talk to her. She doesn't care. She finds this stuff fun and keep talking to me and try to interact. She irks the hell out of me.


Just blank her then


Believe me I am doing what I can.

But it's like she inserts herself in situations to interact.

Today a coworker and I are standing together, and the coworker looks at me and ask me something, and as I am answering this question, asked directly to me, this bee comes almost running from the back to answer the question, interrupting me. Pointless. But just to have some attention and to position herself as the person with all the answers. She is an alpha female. She wants control. And she will do whatever she can to get it. I think you could make a movie about her honestly 😂 She is one for the books. I am just pissed off that I can't get rid of her.

She will never change or anything, her brain is wired the way it is. I just have to figure out what I'm gonna do. How to accept that she is now gonna be there in my life every fucking day. It's a joke.
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If you really want to get rid of her the next time she approaches you say "Stop right there. I don't like you, don't want to talk to you and don't want you talking to me. Please don't approach me again." Then turn on your heel and walk away. I guarantee she will leave you alone if you say that.
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