Posted by KoniThanks you, I am a very open person regardless and like to deal with things directly regardless. This is the one area where I am quite confident in as I know how to communicate concerns in a kind and gentle but effective way.
I’d say communicate often, especially about anything that is bothering you. And be understanding
Posted by OwnardToo easy:
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
Posted by EvatheDiva52Thank you very much for being frank and upfront with me. I'm asking here because I am quite confused and she's not much help since it's her first serious relationship aswell.Posted by OwnardToo easy:
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
1. Open doors for her
2. When at the movie theater feed her popcorn
3. Wear COLOGNE
4. Brush your teeth/gum/breath mints, etc.
5. Hold her hand when walking
6. Watch your "cussing" around her
7. DON'T talk about introducing her to your family (too early right now; EVEN for Thanksgiving; wait until YOU are invited)
8. DON'T talk about the future (you don't have a crystal ball)
9. DON'T get upset in front of her (if you talk about problems at work/home/family, etc) she need to see the "nice part of you"
10. DON'T fight with her in public (go indoors {home} for that)
11. If she tells you she's going out w/her BFF (EVEN if you HATE her) tell her to have a good time
12. IF she asks you for money; don't offer it to her; help her find other solutions
13. Watch her (and your) drinking; does she (you) get plastered and act out of character?
14. Take her OUT once a week or biweekly (other days you can say we can "chill" at home)
15. Make sure there is give and take (if she pays for pizza for dinner you will do the same next payday, etc)
*16. Be OBSERVANT (meaning, use all your five senses) stay alert to what she says (non verbal communication, too)
17. WEAR condoms and make sure SHE is also on the pill/IUD, etc.
* I know you're YOUNG and instead of reading this take time to contemplate you will IMMEDIATELY write back to me. What I mean by this is: for example, you go to a park and she sees a baby and she likes what she sees tells its mother, "He's cute!" you'll know she's KIND (no, not that you're ready to be a father and then you'll write to us again here at DXP). Another example, if you go window shopping and she points to an item and says, "Look! I like that!" DON"T assume she wants you to buy it for her (you're just observing her taste in jewelry, etc).
Too tired now, gotta go back to work. Good luck.
cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Posted by OwnardYW (I knew you could take care of the rest).Posted by EvatheDiva52Thank you very much for being frank and upfront with me. I'm asking here because I am quite confused and she's not much help since it's her first serious relationship aswell.Posted by OwnardToo easy:
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
1. Open doors for her
2. When at the movie theater feed her popcorn
3. Wear COLOGNE
4. Brush your teeth/gum/breath mints, etc.
5. Hold her hand when walking
6. Watch your "cussing" around her
7. DON'T talk about introducing her to your family (too early right now; EVEN for Thanksgiving; wait until YOU are invited)
8. DON'T talk about the future (you don't have a crystal ball)
9. DON'T get upset in front of her (if you talk about problems at work/home/family, etc) she need to see the "nice part of you"
10. DON'T fight with her in public (go indoors {home} for that)
11. If she tells you she's going out w/her BFF (EVEN if you HATE her) tell her to have a good time
12. IF she asks you for money; don't offer it to her; help her find other solutions
13. Watch her (and your) drinking; does she (you) get plastered and act out of character?
14. Take her OUT once a week or biweekly (other days you can say we can "chill" at home)
15. Make sure there is give and take (if she pays for pizza for dinner you will do the same next payday, etc)
*16. Be OBSERVANT (meaning, use all your five senses) stay alert to what she says (non verbal communication, too)
17. WEAR condoms and make sure SHE is also on the pill/IUD, etc.
* I know you're YOUNG and instead of reading this take time to contemplate you will IMMEDIATELY write back to me. What I mean by this is: for example, you go to a park and she sees a baby and she likes what she sees tells its mother, "He's cute!" you'll know she's KIND (no, not that you're ready to be a father and then you'll write to us again here at DXP). Another example, if you go window shopping and she points to an item and says, "Look! I like that!" DON"T assume she wants you to buy it for her (you're just observing her taste in jewelry, etc).
Too tired now, gotta go back to work. Good luck.
cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I'm already following the basic ones such like hygeine, holding her hand and being a gentleman around her.
When it comes to talking about the future, she usually intiates those conversations and then asks my opinion. Usually I just give my honest opinion at that point but it's usually more vague than a definite.
Other than that, thanks for your frank comment as this is the kind of thing I'm looking forclick to expand
Posted by EvatheDiva52I did have a sneaking suspicion 😂Posted by OwnardYW (I knew you could take care of the rest).Posted by EvatheDiva52Thank you very much for being frank and upfront with me. I'm asking here because I am quite confused and she's not much help since it's her first serious relationship aswell.Posted by OwnardToo easy:
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
1. Open doors for her
2. When at the movie theater feed her popcorn
3. Wear COLOGNE
4. Brush your teeth/gum/breath mints, etc.
5. Hold her hand when walking
6. Watch your "cussing" around her
7. DON'T talk about introducing her to your family (too early right now; EVEN for Thanksgiving; wait until YOU are invited)
8. DON'T talk about the future (you don't have a crystal ball)
9. DON'T get upset in front of her (if you talk about problems at work/home/family, etc) she need to see the "nice part of you"
10. DON'T fight with her in public (go indoors {home} for that)
11. If she tells you she's going out w/her BFF (EVEN if you HATE her) tell her to have a good time
12. IF she asks you for money; don't offer it to her; help her find other solutions
13. Watch her (and your) drinking; does she (you) get plastered and act out of character?
14. Take her OUT once a week or biweekly (other days you can say we can "chill" at home)
15. Make sure there is give and take (if she pays for pizza for dinner you will do the same next payday, etc)
*16. Be OBSERVANT (meaning, use all your five senses) stay alert to what she says (non verbal communication, too)
17. WEAR condoms and make sure SHE is also on the pill/IUD, etc.
* I know you're YOUNG and instead of reading this take time to contemplate you will IMMEDIATELY write back to me. What I mean by this is: for example, you go to a park and she sees a baby and she likes what she sees tells its mother, "He's cute!" you'll know she's KIND (no, not that you're ready to be a father and then you'll write to us again here at DXP). Another example, if you go window shopping and she points to an item and says, "Look! I like that!" DON"T assume she wants you to buy it for her (you're just observing her taste in jewelry, etc).
Too tired now, gotta go back to work. Good luck.
cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I'm already following the basic ones such like hygeine, holding her hand and being a gentleman around her.
When it comes to talking about the future, she usually intiates those conversations and then asks my opinion. Usually I just give my honest opinion at that point but it's usually more vague than a definite.
Other than that, thanks for your frank comment as this is the kind of thing I'm looking for
cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: You can TELL this is what I am looking for, too (in a man).click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Honestly, I hate the thought of playing games with each other. If that happened then I would deal with it immediately.
Don’t be suspicious or play games to keep your pride.
Let people be who they are.
Don’t put them on a pedestal.
Keep your hobbies and friends and personal time.
Don’t let someone dictate your decisions.
If it’s too much bs and drama, things rarely evolve
Posted by OwnardPosted by EvatheDiva52I did have a sneaking suspicion 😂Posted by OwnardYW (I knew you could take care of the rest).Posted by EvatheDiva52Thank you very much for being frank and upfront with me. I'm asking here because I am quite confused and she's not much help since it's her first serious relationship aswell.Posted by OwnardToo easy:
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
1. Open doors for her
2. When at the movie theater feed her popcorn
3. Wear COLOGNE
4. Brush your teeth/gum/breath mints, etc.
5. Hold her hand when walking
6. Watch your "cussing" around her
7. DON'T talk about introducing her to your family (too early right now; EVEN for Thanksgiving; wait until YOU are invited)
8. DON'T talk about the future (you don't have a crystal ball)
9. DON'T get upset in front of her (if you talk about problems at work/home/family, etc) she need to see the "nice part of you"
10. DON'T fight with her in public (go indoors {home} for that)
11. If she tells you she's going out w/her BFF (EVEN if you HATE her) tell her to have a good time
12. IF she asks you for money; don't offer it to her; help her find other solutions
13. Watch her (and your) drinking; does she (you) get plastered and act out of character?
14. Take her OUT once a week or biweekly (other days you can say we can "chill" at home)
15. Make sure there is give and take (if she pays for pizza for dinner you will do the same next payday, etc)
*16. Be OBSERVANT (meaning, use all your five senses) stay alert to what she says (non verbal communication, too)
17. WEAR condoms and make sure SHE is also on the pill/IUD, etc.
* I know you're YOUNG and instead of reading this take time to contemplate you will IMMEDIATELY write back to me. What I mean by this is: for example, you go to a park and she sees a baby and she likes what she sees tells its mother, "He's cute!" you'll know she's KIND (no, not that you're ready to be a father and then you'll write to us again here at DXP). Another example, if you go window shopping and she points to an item and says, "Look! I like that!" DON"T assume she wants you to buy it for her (you're just observing her taste in jewelry, etc).
Too tired now, gotta go back to work. Good luck.
cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I'm already following the basic ones such like hygeine, holding her hand and being a gentleman around her.
When it comes to talking about the future, she usually intiates those conversations and then asks my opinion. Usually I just give my honest opinion at that point but it's usually more vague than a definite.
Other than that, thanks for your frank comment as this is the kind of thing I'm looking for
cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: You can TELL this is what I am looking for, too (in a man).click to expand
Posted by LostinmyMind11I try as hard as possible to be authentic to myself in every interaction I have. As for treating her the way I want to be treated, I am treating her with the intimacy I would want which I think she may be having some difficulty adjusting to.
Just be you. Don't pretend to be something you're not. Following some types of "rules". Treat her how you want to be treated and be a decent human being.
Posted by OwnardWhat's her sign or chart?Posted by LostinmyMind11I try as hard as possible to be authentic to myself in every interaction I have. As for treating her the way I want to be treated, I am treating her with the intimacy I would want which I think she may be having some difficulty adjusting to.
Just be you. Don't pretend to be something you're not. Following some types of "rules". Treat her how you want to be treated and be a decent human being.click to expand
Posted by justagirlBeing completely honest, I knew the risks of asking this question here. I knew I would get a greater pool of answers here so I can looking for a lot that I can choose from rather than just a couple opinions
In all honesty- take advise from here very selectively. If you spent much time here or read threads you will see many are broken and really don't know how to have healthy relationships.
Not trying to be jaded just saying dxp isn't the best place to get relationship advise.
Posted by nikkistarYeah, I am taking this advice with a lot of salt because I know there are people like that on this website.
Don't take advice from DXP cat ladies. One is already trying to here.
Like jag said, most people on here suck at relationships and can't sustain anything long term. So advice from them should more than likely be ignored. If they can't maintain something, how the fuck can the advise on something they perpetually fail at?
Don't worry so much about what you should or shouldn't do. And relax and enjoy yourself.
Posted by LostinmyMind11She's a Capricorn, don't know the rest of her chartPosted by OwnardWhat's her sign or chart?Posted by LostinmyMind11I try as hard as possible to be authentic to myself in every interaction I have. As for treating her the way I want to be treated, I am treating her with the intimacy I would want which I think she may be having some difficulty adjusting to.
Just be you. Don't pretend to be something you're not. Following some types of "rules". Treat her how you want to be treated and be a decent human being.click to expand
Posted by RooSagicornThanks, I've just been really confused because our relationship came about in a bitmof a whirlwind so I may just need some time to process what's happened. As it stands, even if I don't need this advice it is helpful to hear that I may be on the right track
Be you. Listen to her & show you care. Enjoy yourselves. It’s your first relationship, don’t worry so much about the do’s And don’ts. It either feels right or it doesn’t. You seem pretty conscientious. Just go with your gut.
You know also vague is okay when you’re just figuring things out. You don’t have to know all the answers. You figure them out together!
Posted by GobbyThanks, I appreciate your upfront and direct comment.
Fuck all the biased 'advice', in this thread, and just be yourself. Either you're compatible or incompatible.
If you need people to point out things that your parents should have instilled in you, such as basic manners and consideration, you're already a lost cause.
Lastly, always remember that being the 'perfect boyfriend' doesn't guarantee anything. People are just as unpredictable as life itself.
Good luck!
Posted by DreamyboyHaha, quality advice right here 😂
1. Don’t be afraid of redwings
2. Buy her a butt plug (the fuzzy ones are cute)
3. When she sends you to the store to buy something, don’t call her and say “what does it look like”
4. Chivalry isn’t dead
5. If she eats your food, eat something back
You’re golden after this
Posted by OwnardI don't know much about caps but they are a cautious bunch...so it maybe a little awkward for her but she'll get use to it. Just keep doing what your doing 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11She's a Capricorn, don't know the rest of her chartPosted by OwnardWhat's her sign or chart?Posted by LostinmyMind11I try as hard as possible to be authentic to myself in every interaction I have. As for treating her the way I want to be treated, I am treating her with the intimacy I would want which I think she may be having some difficulty adjusting to.
Just be you. Don't pretend to be something you're not. Following some types of "rules". Treat her how you want to be treated and be a decent human being.click to expand
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by OwnardI don't know much about caps but they are a cautious bunch...so it maybe a little awkward for her but she'll get use to it. Just keep doing what your doing 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11She's a Capricorn, don't know the rest of her chartPosted by OwnardWhat's her sign or chart?Posted by LostinmyMind11I try as hard as possible to be authentic to myself in every interaction I have. As for treating her the way I want to be treated, I am treating her with the intimacy I would want which I think she may be having some difficulty adjusting to.
Just be you. Don't pretend to be something you're not. Following some types of "rules". Treat her how you want to be treated and be a decent human being.click to expand
Posted by RooSagicornThis is my first relationship so I'm really not used to this whole concept. That's why I'm confused.Posted by OwnardWhy are you confused?Posted by RooSagicornThanks, I've just been really confused because our relationship came about in a bitmof a whirlwind so I may just need some time to process what's happened. As it stands, even if I don't need this advice it is helpful to hear that I may be on the right track
Be you. Listen to her & show you care. Enjoy yourselves. It’s your first relationship, don’t worry so much about the do’s And don’ts. It either feels right or it doesn’t. You seem pretty conscientious. Just go with your gut.
You know also vague is okay when you’re just figuring things out. You don’t have to know all the answers. You figure them out together!
Also do make time for your own hobbies and friends. Otherwise, life gets a bit chaotic and can end up in burnout. Sometimes a whirlwind is amazing but you just can’t sustain your regular life in that. So you need to figure out the balance. My best & most serious relationships started that way though!click to expand
Posted by EvatheDiva52Eva!Posted by OwnardToo easy:
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
1. Open doors for her
2. When at the movie theater feed her popcorn
3. Wear COLOGNE
4. Brush your teeth/gum/breath mints, etc.
5. Hold her hand when walking
6. Watch your "cussing" around her
7. DON'T talk about introducing her to your family (too early right now; EVEN for Thanksgiving; wait until YOU are invited)
8. DON'T talk about the future (you don't have a crystal ball)
9. DON'T get upset in front of her (if you talk about problems at work/home/family, etc) she needs to see the "nice part of you" (this includes being KIND to waiters/waitresses, etc)
10. DON'T fight with her in public (go indoors {home} for that)
11. If she tells you she's going out w/her BFF (EVEN if you HATE her) tell her to have a good time
12. IF she asks you for money; don't offer it to her; help her find other solutions
13. Watch her (and your) drinking; does she (you) get plastered and act out of character?
14. Take her OUT once a week or biweekly (other days you can say we can "chill" at home)
15. Make sure there is give and take (if she pays for pizza for dinner you will do the same next payday, etc)
*16. Be OBSERVANT (meaning, use all your five senses) stay alert to what she says (non verbal communication, too)
17. WEAR condoms and make sure SHE is also on the pill/IUD, etc.
* I know you're YOUNG and instead of reading this take time to contemplate you will IMMEDIATELY write back to me. What I mean by this is: for example, you go to a park and she sees a baby and she likes what she sees tells its mother, "He's cute!" you'll know she's KIND (no, not that you're ready to be a father and then you'll write to us again here at DXP). Another example, if you go window shopping and she points to an item and says, "Look! I like that!" DON"T assume she wants you to buy it for her (you're just observing her taste in jewelry, etc).
Too tired now, gotta go back to work. Good luck.
cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Posted by OwnardHon! Make her laugh and be sexy!
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
Posted by RooSagicornThankyou, I will keep this in mind for the futurePosted by OwnardGood luck a relationship should add value to your life not take away. I think that is an important thing to remember. Anyway I wish you all the best.Posted by RooSagicornThis is my first relationship so I'm really not used to this whole concept. That's why I'm confused.Posted by OwnardWhy are you confused?Posted by RooSagicornThanks, I've just been really confused because our relationship came about in a bitmof a whirlwind so I may just need some time to process what's happened. As it stands, even if I don't need this advice it is helpful to hear that I may be on the right track
Be you. Listen to her & show you care. Enjoy yourselves. It’s your first relationship, don’t worry so much about the do’s And don’ts. It either feels right or it doesn’t. You seem pretty conscientious. Just go with your gut.
You know also vague is okay when you’re just figuring things out. You don’t have to know all the answers. You figure them out together!
Also do make time for your own hobbies and friends. Otherwise, life gets a bit chaotic and can end up in burnout. Sometimes a whirlwind is amazing but you just can’t sustain your regular life in that. So you need to figure out the balance. My best & most serious relationships started that way though!
The balance miss something I care about so I'm taking a weekend away to sort my thoughts out and figure out the balance I want to achieve.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiI've been doing a lot of that and we've only been going out for a couple of weeksPosted by OwnardHon! Make her laugh and be sexy!
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
That’s it! Everything will be forgiven.click to expand
Posted by Ownard👌Posted by GemitatiI've been doing a lot of that and we've only been going out for a couple of weeksPosted by OwnardHon! Make her laugh and be sexy!
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
That’s it! Everything will be forgiven.click to expand
Posted by justagirlI was just thinking...who is advising?
In all honesty- take advise from here very selectively. If you spent much time here or read threads you will see many are broken and really don't know how to have healthy relationships.
Not trying to be jaded just saying dxp isn't the best place to get relationship advise.
Posted by GemitatiFuck off cunt.Posted by EvatheDiva52Eva!Posted by OwnardToo easy:
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
1. Open doors for her
2. When at the movie theater feed her popcorn
3. Wear COLOGNE
4. Brush your teeth/gum/breath mints, etc.
5. Hold her hand when walking
6. Watch your "cussing" around her
7. DON'T talk about introducing her to your family (too early right now; EVEN for Thanksgiving; wait until YOU are invited)
8. DON'T talk about the future (you don't have a crystal ball)
9. DON'T get upset in front of her (if you talk about problems at work/home/family, etc) she needs to see the "nice part of you" (this includes being KIND to waiters/waitresses, etc)
10. DON'T fight with her in public (go indoors {home} for that)
11. If she tells you she's going out w/her BFF (EVEN if you HATE her) tell her to have a good time
12. IF she asks you for money; don't offer it to her; help her find other solutions
13. Watch her (and your) drinking; does she (you) get plastered and act out of character?
14. Take her OUT once a week or biweekly (other days you can say we can "chill" at home)
15. Make sure there is give and take (if she pays for pizza for dinner you will do the same next payday, etc)
*16. Be OBSERVANT (meaning, use all your five senses) stay alert to what she says (non verbal communication, too)
17. WEAR condoms and make sure SHE is also on the pill/IUD, etc.
* I know you're YOUNG and instead of reading this take time to contemplate you will IMMEDIATELY write back to me. What I mean by this is: for example, you go to a park and she sees a baby and she likes what she sees tells its mother, "He's cute!" you'll know she's KIND (no, not that you're ready to be a father and then you'll write to us again here at DXP). Another example, if you go window shopping and she points to an item and says, "Look! I like that!" DON"T assume she wants you to buy it for her (you're just observing her taste in jewelry, etc).
Too tired now, gotta go back to work. Good luck.
cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Which tree you fell off?
He wants to be a boyfriend.
You just made him an impotent!!!
Lmao...gee...woman! Talk about cruelty against man...click to expand
Posted by KoniNo
I’d say communicate often, especially about anything that is bothering you. And be understanding
Posted by DreamyboyWe're 18 & 17. We're young and I want to have my first relationship be a great one. I am making a lot of life changes right now to make my life better.
How old are you two btw? I think I might’ve given you some dangerous advice lol I just started actually reading your thread. What’s your sign btw
A solid one to really push compatibility is you being yourself. Don’t lie about who you are because if you pretend to do a lot of things, you’ll really start slipping up. Unless you’re aiming to change for the better then have at it. If you both have to pretend and do things because “it’s the way”, eventually true colors will show and you’ll both resent eachother.
Posted by EvatheDiva52Wait a minute...Posted by GemitatiFuck off cunt.Posted by EvatheDiva52Eva!Posted by OwnardToo easy:
Hey guys,
I have just entered my first relationship and I am loving it so far. However, I still feel like I am struggling to fit into the role of being a boyfriend. Do you guys and girls have any tips for me that could prove helpful?
-Ownard
1. Open doors for her
2. When at the movie theater feed her popcorn
3. Wear COLOGNE
4. Brush your teeth/gum/breath mints, etc.
5. Hold her hand when walking
6. Watch your "cussing" around her
7. DON'T talk about introducing her to your family (too early right now; EVEN for Thanksgiving; wait until YOU are invited)
8. DON'T talk about the future (you don't have a crystal ball)
9. DON'T get upset in front of her (if you talk about problems at work/home/family, etc) she needs to see the "nice part of you" (this includes being KIND to waiters/waitresses, etc)
10. DON'T fight with her in public (go indoors {home} for that)
11. If she tells you she's going out w/her BFF (EVEN if you HATE her) tell her to have a good time
12. IF she asks you for money; don't offer it to her; help her find other solutions
13. Watch her (and your) drinking; does she (you) get plastered and act out of character?
14. Take her OUT once a week or biweekly (other days you can say we can "chill" at home)
15. Make sure there is give and take (if she pays for pizza for dinner you will do the same next payday, etc)
*16. Be OBSERVANT (meaning, use all your five senses) stay alert to what she says (non verbal communication, too)
17. WEAR condoms and make sure SHE is also on the pill/IUD, etc.
* I know you're YOUNG and instead of reading this take time to contemplate you will IMMEDIATELY write back to me. What I mean by this is: for example, you go to a park and she sees a baby and she likes what she sees tells its mother, "He's cute!" you'll know she's KIND (no, not that you're ready to be a father and then you'll write to us again here at DXP). Another example, if you go window shopping and she points to an item and says, "Look! I like that!" DON"T assume she wants you to buy it for her (you're just observing her taste in jewelry, etc).
Too tired now, gotta go back to work. Good luck.
cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Which tree you fell off?
He wants to be a boyfriend.
You just made him an impotent!!!
Lmao...gee...woman! Talk about cruelty against man...
cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Posted by DreamyboyThank you very much! I really appreciate your support. I'm hoping that this will be a really loving relationship as intimacy and affection in general are very important to me.Posted by OwnardAhhhhh that is so exciting. I was about the same age as you when I got into a very big relationship the really changed me dramatically. It’s going to be tough because you’re both new, but it might be a blessing because you are both new! No one has been tainted and jaded or walled up. I hope you two succeed!Posted by DreamyboyWe're 18 & 17. We're young and I want to have my first relationship be a great one. I am making a lot of life changes right now to make my life better.
How old are you two btw? I think I might’ve given you some dangerous advice lol I just started actually reading your thread. What’s your sign btw
A solid one to really push compatibility is you being yourself. Don’t lie about who you are because if you pretend to do a lot of things, you’ll really start slipping up. Unless you’re aiming to change for the better then have at it. If you both have to pretend and do things because “it’s the way”, eventually true colors will show and you’ll both resent eachother.click to expand
Posted by ValleysofNeptuneYeah, this is something I have been concerned about. I know that I can sometime get hung up on small things but I have been making an effort in all my personal interactions to be mindful of this.
I don’t claim to be a good one lol, but I would say to pick your battles. There will inevitably be differences and disagreements between you guys, and you might need to put your foot down for yourself or even her over something, but other times you just need to suck it up and let something slide or do things you don’t want to. Just gotta figure what’s important enough
This is probably common sense and is true for all relationships with all people, but you said a relationship is new ground for you so I figured I’d throw that out there lol
Posted by Gobby
Fuck all the biased 'advice', in this thread, and just be yourself. Either you're compatible or incompatible.
If you need people to point out things that your parents should have instilled in you, such as basic manners and consideration, you're already a lost cause.
Lastly, always remember that being the 'perfect boyfriend' doesn't guarantee anything. People are just as unpredictable as life itself.
Good luck!
Posted by nanobotThanks for morning laugh! I needed it! LMAO
Plz don't ask for advice here
Or else you will be in the capricorn forum before long
"Cap woman left me"
Posted by Arielle83Lol not youPosted by nikkistarI ain’t no catlady. That pussy came to me!
Don't take advice from DXP cat ladies. One is already trying to here.
Like jag said, most people on here suck at relationships and can't sustain anything long term. So advice from them should more than likely be ignored. If they can't maintain something, how the fuck can the advise on something they perpetually fail at?
Don't worry so much about what you should or shouldn't do. And relax and enjoy yourself.click to expand