Told my Best Friend I Love You.

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Aries18 on Wednesday, May 9, 2018 and has 11 replies.
Hello!

Last Saturday, i decide i wanted to drink a little of rum and coke because i was having a tough week and i don't drink at all.

I was hang out with some friends online playing games and talking. My best friend was messing with me saying "oh, this account got hack." This was AFTER i messaged him "Can i tell you something?" he replied "sure" and i said "You're awesome and aMEIzing!" (Overwatch reference) i than said "i had a little too much to drink oops, don't mine me ;P" i was being cute and funny. He than replied "haha I love drunk (online name) Tongue"

I said I Love You!.

He than was messing with me like i mention before. So he was joking around and i knew it was him just messing with me and our other friends. One of my other friends told me he felt bad for ignoring me when he was messing around.

A few hours passed and we started to talk a but more. I asked him about when i told him I love you to him, that it those are some strong words and he just thought it was because i was a little drunk...oof

so, i than asked "do you have anything, you would like to add or say about anything of this?"

btw this is all on Teamspeak (voice chat) and Steam message.

He was typing and than stopped typing a few times. He than finally said "well ive been seeing someone else. im really sorry (my name). i didnt know you still had feelings for me.

me - Okay.

him - im sorry, i really dont want to hurt you Sad your amazing person and you deserve better to be honest

me - i'm not sure what to say.

him - im not sure either

me - You're still my best friend and i want you to be happy whoever you're with.

if you're happy, i'm happy too. That what matters to me.

him - Thanks i really appreciate that smile. you're my best friend too.

we both said good night to each other.That was that.


Okay now you know what happen, I just want to say i am accepting the fact he has someone else now and it is going to be difficult for me sometimes. Not because i can't be around him in person and hang out like "normal" friend would.

I just would like to know how to deal with my emotional and dealing with feeling like i might lose him.

If you have ever dealt with being in love with your best friend, how did it end up? are you still BFs? or moved on?

I would really like to know smile

thanks.

I am an Aries and he is a Capricorn.


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Yes on both sides at different times lol, no longer speak to each other, I would like to be but no and I moved on...I don't believe he has.


Let me clarify...I've moved on more than I think he has. We are both dumb and stubborn.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes on both sides at different times lol, no longer speak to each other, I would like to be but no and I moved on...I don't believe he has.


Let me clarify...I've moved on more than I think he has. We are both dumb and stubborn.
Do you have any advice for me and my situation? What do you think about what i post?
Posted by tiziani
If it's not worth saying sober then it's not worth stressing out over.
Wise words.
Posted by Aries18
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes on both sides at different times lol, no longer speak to each other, I would like to be but no and I moved on...I don't believe he has.





Let me clarify...I've moved on more than I think he has. We are both dumb and stubborn.



Do you have any advice for me and my situation? What do you think about what i post? click to expand
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Unfortunately...you just have to let it play out and see what happens. Things could go either way...

I'm sorry...wish I could be of more help on this.
Posted by tiziani
If it's not worth saying sober then it's not worth stressing out over.
I beg to differ.

Sober I'll pay 11.99

Drunk I'll pay 19.99
Posted by Aries18
Hello!
Last Saturday, i decide i wanted to drink a little of rum and coke because i was having a tough week and i don't drink at all.

I was hang out with some friends online playing games and talking. My best friend was messing with me saying "oh, this account got hack." This was AFTER i messaged him "Can i tell you something?" he replied "sure" and i said "You're awesome and aMEIzing!" (Overwatch reference) i than said "i had a little too much to drink oops, don't mine me ;P" i was being cute and funny. He than replied "haha I love drunk (online name) "

I said I Love You!.

He than was messing with me like i mention before. So he was joking around and i knew it was him just messing with me and our other friends. One of my other friends told me he felt bad for ignoring me when he was messing around.
A few hours passed and we started to talk a but more. I asked him about when i told him I love you to him, that it those are some strong words and he just thought it was because i was a little drunk...oof

so, i than asked "do you have anything, you would like to add or say about anything of this?"

btw this is all on Teamspeak (voice chat) and Steam message.

He was typing and than stopped typing a few times. He than finally said "well ive been seeing someone else. im really sorry (my name). i didnt know you still had feelings for me.

me - Okay.
him - im sorry, i really dont want to hurt you your amazing person and you deserve better to be honest

me - i'm not sure what to say.
him - im not sure either

me - You're still my best friend and i want you to be happy whoever you're with.
if you're happy, i'm happy too. That what matters to me.

him - Thanks i really appreciate that . you're my best friend too.

we both said good night to each other.That was that.


Okay now you know what happen, I just want to say i am accepting the fact he has someone else now and it is going to be difficult for me sometimes. Not because i can't be around him in person and hang out like "normal" friend would.

I just would like to know how to deal with my emotional and dealing with feeling like i might lose him.

If you have ever dealt with being in love with your best friend, how did it end up? are you still BFs? or moved on?

I would really like to know

thanks.

I am an Aries and he is a Capricorn.



the thing is: what is your definition of a best friend? and what is his definition of a best friend? it is the same?

him telling you: "i didnt know you still had feelings for me."

what does this mean? are you his groupie? why he would say this? in a group chat?
Posted by Aries18
Hello!
Last Saturday, i decide i wanted to drink a little of rum and coke because i was having a tough week and i don't drink at all.

I was hang out with some friends online playing games and talking. My best friend was messing with me saying "oh, this account got hack." This was AFTER i messaged him "Can i tell you something?" he replied "sure" and i said "You're awesome and aMEIzing!" (Overwatch reference) i than said "i had a little too much to drink oops, don't mine me ;P" i was being cute and funny. He than replied "haha I love drunk (online name) "

I said I Love You!.

He than was messing with me like i mention before. So he was joking around and i knew it was him just messing with me and our other friends. One of my other friends told me he felt bad for ignoring me when he was messing around.
A few hours passed and we started to talk a but more. I asked him about when i told him I love you to him, that it those are some strong words and he just thought it was because i was a little drunk...oof

so, i than asked "do you have anything, you would like to add or say about anything of this?"

btw this is all on Teamspeak (voice chat) and Steam message.

He was typing and than stopped typing a few times. He than finally said "well ive been seeing someone else. im really sorry (my name). i didnt know you still had feelings for me.

me - Okay.
him - im sorry, i really dont want to hurt you your amazing person and you deserve better to be honest

me - i'm not sure what to say.
him - im not sure either

me - You're still my best friend and i want you to be happy whoever you're with.
if you're happy, i'm happy too. That what matters to me.

him - Thanks i really appreciate that . you're my best friend too.

we both said good night to each other.That was that.


Okay now you know what happen, I just want to say i am accepting the fact he has someone else now and it is going to be difficult for me sometimes. Not because i can't be around him in person and hang out like "normal" friend would.

I just would like to know how to deal with my emotional and dealing with feeling like i might lose him.

If you have ever dealt with being in love with your best friend, how did it end up? are you still BFs? or moved on?

I would really like to know

thanks.

I am an Aries and he is a Capricorn.





I am sorry he is seeing someone else, but think of it is he really your best friend if you did not know he was with someone else?
And I don't get why be more worried about losing his friendship and wanting him to be happy than thinking about yourself and what is best for you, being around him or not being around him.
@Panadora101

Wasnt't a group chat it was with me only in a private chat.

The reason why he said that was because earlier this year we talked about what has been happening lately. He had said he was helping his mom, and sister out with their situations. He knew how i felt from Jan to now only because i've been hinting it and during the past few months he was being himself again with me. He was being nice, sweet and a great listener. We always have good/amazing times when we are hanging out on Team Speak, playing steam games online.

In April he had missed my birthday and was feeling bad that he had missed it. So he got me a steam game online as a gift. He insisted on getting me something. He was being kind to me.

I know you may think - his just being a nice person to you. Doesn't me anything.

Maybe i thought he still was interested in me that way like when we first met last June.

I also made a post last month here -> https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/need-your-opinion--10632231/