Posted by LostinmyMind11Do you have any advice for me and my situation? What do you think about what i post?
Yes on both sides at different times lol, no longer speak to each other, I would like to be but no and I moved on...I don't believe he has.
Let me clarify...I've moved on more than I think he has. We are both dumb and stubborn.
Posted by tizianiWise words.
If it's not worth saying sober then it's not worth stressing out over.
Posted by Aries18Unfortunately...you just have to let it play out and see what happens. Things could go either way...Posted by LostinmyMind11
Yes on both sides at different times lol, no longer speak to each other, I would like to be but no and I moved on...I don't believe he has.
Let me clarify...I've moved on more than I think he has. We are both dumb and stubborn.
Do you have any advice for me and my situation? What do you think about what i post? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by tizianiI beg to differ.
If it's not worth saying sober then it's not worth stressing out over.
Posted by Aries18the thing is: what is your definition of a best friend? and what is his definition of a best friend? it is the same?
Hello!
Last Saturday, i decide i wanted to drink a little of rum and coke because i was having a tough week and i don't drink at all.
I was hang out with some friends online playing games and talking. My best friend was messing with me saying "oh, this account got hack." This was AFTER i messaged him "Can i tell you something?" he replied "sure" and i said "You're awesome and aMEIzing!" (Overwatch reference) i than said "i had a little too much to drink oops, don't mine me ;P" i was being cute and funny. He than replied "haha I love drunk (online name) "
I said I Love You!.
He than was messing with me like i mention before. So he was joking around and i knew it was him just messing with me and our other friends. One of my other friends told me he felt bad for ignoring me when he was messing around.
A few hours passed and we started to talk a but more. I asked him about when i told him I love you to him, that it those are some strong words and he just thought it was because i was a little drunk...oof
so, i than asked "do you have anything, you would like to add or say about anything of this?"
btw this is all on Teamspeak (voice chat) and Steam message.
He was typing and than stopped typing a few times. He than finally said "well ive been seeing someone else. im really sorry (my name). i didnt know you still had feelings for me.
me - Okay.
him - im sorry, i really dont want to hurt you your amazing person and you deserve better to be honest
me - i'm not sure what to say.
him - im not sure either
me - You're still my best friend and i want you to be happy whoever you're with.
if you're happy, i'm happy too. That what matters to me.
him - Thanks i really appreciate that . you're my best friend too.
we both said good night to each other.That was that.
Okay now you know what happen, I just want to say i am accepting the fact he has someone else now and it is going to be difficult for me sometimes. Not because i can't be around him in person and hang out like "normal" friend would.
I just would like to know how to deal with my emotional and dealing with feeling like i might lose him.
If you have ever dealt with being in love with your best friend, how did it end up? are you still BFs? or moved on?
I would really like to know
thanks.
I am an Aries and he is a Capricorn.
Posted by Aries18
Hello!
Last Saturday, i decide i wanted to drink a little of rum and coke because i was having a tough week and i don't drink at all.
I was hang out with some friends online playing games and talking. My best friend was messing with me saying "oh, this account got hack." This was AFTER i messaged him "Can i tell you something?" he replied "sure" and i said "You're awesome and aMEIzing!" (Overwatch reference) i than said "i had a little too much to drink oops, don't mine me ;P" i was being cute and funny. He than replied "haha I love drunk (online name) "
I said I Love You!.
He than was messing with me like i mention before. So he was joking around and i knew it was him just messing with me and our other friends. One of my other friends told me he felt bad for ignoring me when he was messing around.
A few hours passed and we started to talk a but more. I asked him about when i told him I love you to him, that it those are some strong words and he just thought it was because i was a little drunk...oof
so, i than asked "do you have anything, you would like to add or say about anything of this?"
btw this is all on Teamspeak (voice chat) and Steam message.
He was typing and than stopped typing a few times. He than finally said "well ive been seeing someone else. im really sorry (my name). i didnt know you still had feelings for me.
me - Okay.
him - im sorry, i really dont want to hurt you your amazing person and you deserve better to be honest
me - i'm not sure what to say.
him - im not sure either
me - You're still my best friend and i want you to be happy whoever you're with.
if you're happy, i'm happy too. That what matters to me.
him - Thanks i really appreciate that . you're my best friend too.
we both said good night to each other.That was that.
Okay now you know what happen, I just want to say i am accepting the fact he has someone else now and it is going to be difficult for me sometimes. Not because i can't be around him in person and hang out like "normal" friend would.
I just would like to know how to deal with my emotional and dealing with feeling like i might lose him.
If you have ever dealt with being in love with your best friend, how did it end up? are you still BFs? or moved on?
I would really like to know
thanks.
I am an Aries and he is a Capricorn.