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Aug 04, 2015Comments: 2057 · Posts: 38091 · Topics: 1026
Just want to tell you.
I had introduces 2 people and on the first and only date
all seemed fine.
He is 57 and she is 53.
He took her to Dunkin Donuts...(no comments).
After date he kissed her on the cheek and disappeared.
After about 2 month she is still asking me what had happened.
Why didn't he ever contacted her and he won't tell me.
2 days ago I spoke with her and she is still wondering what went
wrong. I had nothing to say.
I saw him yesterday and he asked me to introduce him to
someone else. I almost said 'you've embarrassed me enough'.
Meaning DD date.
I asked him why? He said 'she is not for me. I don't want to tell.'
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I am wondering why can't man just find a way to tell woman he is not into her.
Especially when there was nothing between them.
Is there way to break it to a woman - I am not interested without hurting her feelings?
And how is that mature person can dwell for 2 month on
'what have I done wrong' after just one date? I would be pissed!
I know heart is a muscle but can it be trained?
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Also they both are good looking people. She is somewhat into herself.
Could he sense that and hate it?
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Aug 04, 2015Comments: 2057 · Posts: 38091 · Topics: 1026
I know, she is kind of too much to the point of annoying.
Maybe he saw it?
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Oct 14, 2015Comments: 826 · Posts: 2348 · Topics: 15
Is any of them your relative?
I much more prefer to a man fade away than telling me he is not into me..... I takes some time to figure it out, that he is not into me, but I dont need a "clousure talking" it is enough, that somebody is not into me, why to listen to it ?
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
He figured her out and saw something he couldn't compromise to, and moved on without a word. Because we have high hopes in first impressions.
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Oct 29, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 16583 · Topics: 222
Or if their moon, mercury, and rising picks up vibes right off the bat. I wonder what kind of questions both people asked each other..