virgo-scorpion match.. seems not so hopeful

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by virgoaway on Friday, February 24, 2006 and has 4 replies.
I am living with my boyfriend. I am 23 and he is 24. We have been living together for 6 months and have known each other for the same amount of time. I am a virgo and he often tells me i am too sensitive and i ask too many questions. Sometimes we get into arguments and he tells me just to leave, from him and give him some time. Today he blew up probably the most i have seen. I dont know if he is trying to change me or if i just need to realize his spacial needs. When a situation occurs I try to find a solution at that moment and that makes him even more irritated. Sometimes he looks at me like he wants to hit me but i know he never would. I dont know if i am the problem and he is trying to change me to be less inquisitive or if i need to accept that i need to talk to solve my problems and he needs to be left alone. I love him, my first love and i dont want to break up with him because he makes me soo happy. Do you think I am being changed to accomodate him or should i acknowledge that fact that we have totally different personalities and i need to more accomodating to him whena touchy situation occurs?? any feedback?
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i dont know much abt ur kinda relationship but i felt like putin in a word if only hopin it'll hold u 2.
the scorpios i know r usually very cool. dont get angry or anything when they r around me. seen them angry only when they r mighty irritated or felt real bad abt somethin. otherwise its just acting. cant be sure though.
in ur case r u sure ur not being nit-picky or too anal or tryin to help him too much, like in work or some personal attire or somethin?
the strategy is --
let him be. if he's a scorp he'll somehow find his way without help in almost anything. its kind of thats how they were born. for a few months dont say or do any help unless he asks. perhaps u should tell him before hand why ur doing this and then he's sure to appretiate it.
sometimes i've felt scorpios r less individualistic ppl than virgos but they can thrive very well when they r alone just like virgos perhaps better.
they have this focus/passion for most things. they'll swim in it and we just wouldnt know. so just observe, give space and be there.
if u love him very much that wont be difficult.
the important thing is to hold ur tongue and think before u say anything.
just my thoughts.
best of luck
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Yeah just give him his space, trust he'll be fine once he's gotten over whatever it is in his own head and in his own time. Its true we don't like too many questions..and Virgos do tend to question a lot and find solutions. Nothing wrong with that, we do it too (scorpios) but we don't put you under the microscope..we do it in our own time..and yes think before u say anything..if you say something hurtful we won't talk to u for absolutely ages and its quite easy for us to cut you off completely..but that aside..Scorpio men, I feel are the best lovers..fun to be around too..a bit crazy at times..
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One thing about a scorpio.When they are mad they like to be away from whom ever upset them so that they can cool down and will come later to talk once their not upset.Never try and talk to them until hes ready to talk to you,cuz alls that will do is make him more upset and scorpios need time to think when their mad.or hurt.dont take hes words too personaly and tell him how he makes you feel at all times at every moment weather it be love or pain.it will make him think and realize...^_^
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