Hi,
I recently started seeing a Pisces and he's so deep. We have been seeing one another for 9 months.
We met in a club (unfortunatley, not the most romantic) but when he called me over and he tried to speak to me we bumped head and nearly kissed (the energy was amazing), being so close to someone who was a complete stranger and feeling that feeling, I was frozen. It was instant from the beginning (for me anyways) , I can honesyly say I fell for him the moment I saw him, and because I'm a Virgo (Logic person) I figured it was all in my head and he did not feel the same, BUT he mentioned this feeling he gets from just kissing me, and I feel it to, so i was pretty happy about that. I find I get nervous around him and not too sure how to make conversation he relates too. I want to be able to have conversations with him so I can understand him better, I love listening to him but find that I'm not exactly hearing him or what he is really trying to say. I try not tto read too much into anything he does because his moods change on me without notice or explanation (which is fine because I understand that is just who he is), he likes his privacy and safe zone. He travels and is leaving again soon and I wanted to do something special for him, nothing that would scare him away of course, just somehting to make him know I'll be missing him (not trying to be desparate). I text message him yesterday and said "Not too sure when your leaving and i know you have alot to do before you go but if your not busy maybe we can chill? I wanted to offer lift to the airport but not too sure how he would take it., considering I sent him a text yesterday but I haven't heard from him as yet. Is this wise ? Please help.
Hello, I Don't really think there is a problem here... it seems you play it pretty safe to protect your feelings and i think thats great. I say keep doing what your doing but i have to ask, if your that interested in him, why is that when he speaks your not in tune to what he's saying? Is it physical attraction only maybe? Usually when your feeling someone your into everything they say and do, your interested you know, so I'm curious about that part of it. I think conversation should come naturally if you connect....
See I'm a logical person, he more about inner feelings and when he does something like not call me for a week, I automatically think he's busy and I will send a short and sweet text but then he won't reply for another week and then my mind goes to he doesn't want to be with me anymore any maybe AI'm just harassing him so I'll stop and then he'll call a few days later to see me and spend time, he thows me off. You are right abou the conversation aspect, it should come easily, I agree, I've never in my life ever had a problem with this, I find because he's travelled all over that he has more knowledge because he has see so much more and experienced so much, I find maybe my knowledge doesn't extent as far as his does. I beeing reading though and learning so many things that are amazing, so trying to educate myself at the same time as trying to relate to him.