what is your dream man personality and look

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by abdoolly on Thursday, April 18, 2013 and has 10 replies.
how do you want your dream man to be in his personality , shape , and everything
Personality: no set type as long as we compliment each other. I think people with both similar personalities and polar opposite personalities can work out as long as they are compliments. I prefer someone more outgoing than me because two shy people gets boring super quickly. Someone funny too. Intelligence is very nice. I think a more dominant personality type would compliment me since I have a less dominant personality type. Also a good sense of confidence and pride. I can't deal with insecure guys because I'm not one to coddle anyone.
Physically: Tall (6'0 and up or bust), somewhat muscular. I don't really dig the rail thin or lanky guys. If we're talking ideal, like if I could design a guy, he would have a body like the wonderful Jared Padalecki because come on. Drool. But I mean that's like a dream. I'm not too hung up on body type as long as the guy is healthy. Physically active is a plus.
This is why there are so many morons (especially the females) who cannot seem to develop a mature relationship and are forever coming in here crying about how confused they are.

yeah ... because they've already decided (what) they want, so then when they attempt to apply a person in to act the role and he can't .... the woman losses her mind and thinks the guy did something to hurt her.

in reality, she hurt herself by idealizing, rather than actually considering the man for who he is
Yep.
Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Posted by P-Angel
This is why there are so many morons (especially the females) who cannot seem to develop a mature relationship and are forever coming in here crying about how confused they are.

yeah ... because they've already decided (what) they want, so then when they attempt to apply a person in to act the role and he can't .... the woman losses her mind and thinks the guy did something to hurt her.

in reality, she hurt herself by idealizing, rather than actually considering the man for who he is


It's a fantasy thread lighten up. No sane person expects to get everything on their check list. With all the sex threads on this board I would expect people to be less uptight.

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Well of course, every person who participates in planning a relationship "expects" to get everything on their checklist.
You don't pay attention to the people around you much, do you?
Since you are in such defiance, it's a clear signal that you are the very moron I spoke of.
Posted by abdoolly
how do you want your dream man to be in his personality , shape , and everything



Since you're a guy, it is assumed that you wanted people to come in here and paint a picture of what they desire in a man so you can dirty another sock.
I'm sure you are greatly disappointed because instead of getting physical attributes ... you got stupid females idealizing, and making men objects.
You're only 17, you aren't old enough to talk about relationships with adults.
I used to be like this.
Posted by Amandus
I used to be like this.




Not sure what you mean by that ... but, I am sure of your maturity and wisdom. You were under legal age when you first came here, and even then, you were mature.
That says a lot
This is how morons are made .... they objectify, rather than relate.
Posted by P-Angel


Not sure what you mean by that ... but, I am sure of your maturity and wisdom. You were under legal age when you first came here, and even then, you were mature.
That says a lot


I was sixteen and in my junior year of high school. I may have known a little more than others but I was still so ignorant about myself.
You probably didn't see but when I was still Jason2213 I was creating threads, asking the other women questions just like what abdoolly is doing now...just like the body type threads in the astrology forums...all because I didn't know what I wanted from myself.

I'm not sure if my old feelings are the same as the reason this thread was created.
But I'll tell you, abdoolly, that you won't find happiness listening to others go on about how their ideal someone should be. Worrying about not being able to find someone who wants you won't help you either. From the day you were able to choose for yourself, you became your own artist.
So take your time and fill out your canvas on your own. Make the changes you want to.
You have all the time in the world.