Gemitati
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What's so scary to be in love
Feeling vulnerable maybe..?
Once you fall in love, your heart opens, your feelings come out and it feels incredible (and vice versa) .but it can be scary because you've opened yourself. .
Once you fall in love, your heart opens, your feelings come out and it feels incredible (and vice versa) .but it can be scary because you've opened yourself. .
So what if you open up to a person?
Do you have some homeland security info to protect?
Do you have some homeland security info to protect?
I think people get scared of being hurt emotionally by the other person.
I know what you mean though.
I think dumping someone is a bit extreme though.
Maybe the dumping come from not being ready?
Love is a complex thing eh!
I know what you mean though.
I think dumping someone is a bit extreme though.
Maybe the dumping come from not being ready?
Love is a complex thing eh!
Posted by GemitatiI lost count of the many times I used this^
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?
Posted by TeenaHow dare you? LolPosted by GemitatiI lost count of the many times I used this^
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?click to expand
Can't be honest and say - you are a sloppy kisser!!! Enough!
Posted by GemitatiLOL!!! True that!!!—Posted by TeenaHow dare you? LolPosted by GemitatiI lost count of the many times I used this^
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?
Can't be honest and say - you are a sloppy kisser!!! Enough!click to expand
I really dunno why even do that
Posted by TeenaChicken! LolPosted by GemitatiLOL!!! True that!!!—Posted by TeenaHow dare you? LolPosted by GemitatiI lost count of the many times I used this^
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?
Can't be honest and say - you are a sloppy kisser!!! Enough!
I really dunno why even do thatclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiIkr ??Posted by TeenaChicken! LolPosted by GemitatiLOL!!! True that!!!—Posted by TeenaHow dare you? LolPosted by GemitatiI lost count of the many times I used this^
Or it is just same thing as 'it's not you its me'?
Can't be honest and say - you are a sloppy kisser!!! Enough!
I really dunno why even do that
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Love itself isn't the scary part, it's the fear of going through the pain of losing that love that makes people run away.
Posted by Deedee86That's what strikes me as dumb! Let's lose it before I lost it? What—
Love itself isn't the scary part, it's the fear of going through the pain of losing that love that makes people run away.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Deedee86That's what strikes me as dumb! Let's lose it before I lost it? What—
Love itself isn't the scary part, it's the fear of going through the pain of losing that love that makes people run away.
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Have you ever lost someone you were deeply in love with?
I would rather be alone forever than go through that pain again.
Posted by Deedee86So now no one should fall in love and being love because they might lose them?Posted by GemitatiPosted by Deedee86That's what strikes me as dumb! Let's lose it before I lost it? What—
Love itself isn't the scary part, it's the fear of going through the pain of losing that love that makes people run away.
Have you ever lost someone you were deeply in love with?
I would rather be alone forever than go through that pain again.
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What a logic!!!
Let's not be happy because it might end?
I am in pain for years and would
not ever want my love not to happen! Because moments are amazing!
Yes it hurts 99% of the time so...it's price
for happiness!
Posted by PootyButtOh I know is just as I type it.
Right now I feel like dying. I know I'll get over it, but it's the shittiest feeling in the world, and nothing will make it stop except time. If I had avoided love, I wouldn't be feeling it. That is what people are afraid of, and frankly, you know it. I remember those threads you've posted begging people to explain to you why a broken heart hurts so much.
But avoiding it is like avoiding life itself!
Specially at younger age?
And it is still going to happen! Marriage kids erc.
Posted by PootyButtHow long have been in this position?
Right now I feel like dying. I know I'll get over it, but it's the shittiest feeling in the world, and nothing will make it stop except time. If I had avoided love, I wouldn't be feeling it. That is what people are afraid of, and frankly, you know it. I remember those threads you've posted begging people to explain to you why a broken heart hurts so much.
Just want to tell you embrace yiurself.
Time is not a good healer.
Time doesn't give a crap! Lol
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