leejt86
@leejt86
12 YearsVirgo
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Posted by leejt86
So as you all know im in love with a leo woman.
Im at the point where I dont know how to move forward. She has been hurt a lot in the past so she has her guard up and wont let anyone get close, at all. Will she ever let her guard down and let me get close? Is there anything i can do? Or is she going to push me away because she doesnt want to get hurt?

Posted by leejt86
She has been hurt a lot in the past so she has her guard up and wont let anyone get close, at all.

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by leejt86
She was my date to my friend's engagement party. She's even had dinner with my parents.
But she also teases me a lot, its playful. She always says I should shave my beard.
She gets embarrassed easily around me.
Okay. It's possible that she is not looking for a relationship right now. Sometimes being single is a relief. Strange but true. The ball is in her court either way. Be careful about emotionally investing in this woman until you are sure that you are on the same page. If she is showing some interest though you shouldn't just give up. Just don't be too pushy about it.click to expand

Posted by feby16aqua
It's not supposed to be this hard. It flows or it doesn't...naturally. What kind of model is she?

Posted by leejt86
what bothers me the most is this.
she flat out said "i dont want you to like me because i dont like you like that"
What kind of person says something like that?


Posted by leejt86
what bothers me the most is this.
she flat out said "i dont want you to like me because i dont like you like that"
What kind of person says something like that?

Posted by leejt86
what bothers me the most is this.
she flat out said "i dont want you to like me because i dont like you like that"
What kind of person says something like that?
Posted by leejt86
Nope I'm not. I'm ignoring her, keeping myself distracted.
A day after we had the talk, her friend msged me on Facebook telling me to back off. I thought high school was done
Sigh....click to expand

Posted by Jynja
@Rocky
Oh Please!
She's a Leo Sun Scorpio Moon. The moment she felt pressured to make a decision, she backed off and he became undesirable (boring even). He didn't hold any appeal... he ruined the lioness's "stalk."
It has nothing to do with logical advice or something he's doing.
We're a masculine sign that go for what we want. We hunt - the minute our prey jumps in head first, the appeal is lost.
Too easily caught, too easily lost.


Posted by Jynja
@Rocky
Oh Please!
She's a Leo Sun Scorpio Moon. The moment she felt pressured to make a decision, she backed off and he became undesirable (boring even). He didn't hold any appeal... he ruined the lioness's "stalk."
It has nothing to do with logical advice or something he's doing.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Also, OP, what do you mean by "affection?"

Posted by Jynja
Rocky, the fact of the matter is that Leos love the chase.
Astrology or fantasy or logic, a Leo likes the thrill of a chase. If he hadn't gone at her directly, she could have been wondering about him now.
If astrology doesn't explain behaviors, what are we studying? When you pull your natal chart on cafeastrology, why do you read the short profile? It explains behavior. It might not determine situation, but it says that Leo women are one way, and Arieses are another way.
ALL the Arian logic in the world won't change a Leo's natal profile.
Deal, don't deal. Whine, don't whine. I told him she'll back off from him if he goes at her the way he did, and she did.
Astrology or logic... whatever explains that... your pick.

Posted by leejt86Posted by rockyroadicecream
Also, OP, what do you mean by "affection?"
I sent her roses on her birthday.
I told her i cared about her, i would send her texts calling her beautiful and things like that.
What bothers me is, why would she invite me out to hang out, run errands, etc, if it was too "weird for her". She invited me out last week. And I dont mean me initiating it i mean her texting me "hey do you want to go with me to...."
how was that not "weird" for herclick to expand

Posted by Jynja
So this is Arian logic? SMH
I told him not to pressure her. Not to come across as a bumbling idiot. See what listening to bumbling idiots has done to him.
Hahahaha... how interesting.







Posted by leejt86
@celticlioness
I should have moved on when she told me she didnt feel the same way a month ago. But I didn't listen and got myself hurt over and over.
My thinking was we didn't know each other as well as we thought and if I let her get to know me she would give me a chance.

Posted by leejt86
I should have moved on when she told me she didnt feel the same way a month ago. But I didn't listen and got myself hurt over and over.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
^^ I called bullshit on him weeks ago. Lol. 😛
Honestly. I think P Angel is right. He's one of those perverted Virgies with a fetish for talking about models or some other kink.
Posted by JynjaPosted by leejt86
@celticlioness
You have made the most sense out of any other poster on this thread.
I should have moved on when she told me she didnt feel the same way a month ago. But I didn't listen and got myself hurt over and over.
My thinking was we didn't know each other as well as we thought and if I let her get to know me she would give me a chance.
And you thought a month was "enough time" to convince her?
Maybe P-Devil has a point.
hmmmmmmclick to expand

Posted by feby16aqua
GG what in the world are you talking about? Ok. They are NOT friends—? Why do you assume and speak before you know the truth.



Posted by tiziani
I have never mentioned your name in any private message to geminicandle.
As much as I am fond of GC, we never spoke in private at all until about a week ago about something completely unrelated to this website.

Posted by Superseven
And tiz, you talk weird bro lol. I've always wanted to tell you that. I've showed you respect through out all of this. I need you to do the same so all this "you're not the sharpest" or "if you wanted to act stupid" comments needs to be brought down to a minimum cause you're only exciting my demons broski. I'm calling a truse, so there's no need for any more of your dumb ass metaphors. I'm not mad and never was so let's move on here.
#superfaded

Posted by scorchedearth
i hate when someone i have blocked talks shit about me and someone quotes it.


Posted by P-AngelPosted by tiziani
I have never mentioned your name in any private message to geminicandle.
As much as I am fond of GC, we never spoke in private at all until about a week ago about something completely unrelated to this website.
Quite often, GC says that she talks to people in PM's, and those same people come in to say that they didn't tell her what she says they said. This happens nearly daily.
Purr does the same thing ... she also lies about PM's to attempt to gain credibility.click to expand


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Im at the point where I dont know how to move forward. She has been hurt a lot in the past so she has her guard up and wont let anyone get close, at all. Will she ever let her guard down and let me get close? Is there anything i can do? Or is she going to push me away because she doesnt want to get hurt?