When you can't have what you need

Posted by Whorpio
Have you ever just met a person who would be completely perfect for you, but you know things won't work with them because you are so out of their league?

I met someone who treats me right. I've never felt this special before. But I know I don't have a chance with him romantically because I have 0 personality to offer. All I have to offer is my body and for someone as smart and generous as him it's not enough in the long run.


Have any of y'all felt like that? Like you aren't good enough for a certain type of person? How do you get over that feeling and move on?

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*Moon may be in Leo instead of cancer.


@Capz

@ to whom it may concern

lol u cute my bro have this chart, it's a marryboi chart, the most dangerous type of fuqboi here, but i should stop here and not broke the brocode

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lol u cute my bro have this chart, it's a marryboi chart, the most dangerous type of fuqboi here, but i should stop here and not broke the brocode

Please translate to American slang. What is "marryboi"?

it's not an usual fuccboi, there is fuccboi who are typed as bad boy, but this one he's a pretty gentleman with a degree, and a nice smile.


i have a friend like this, he got the IT degree plus a formation for fireman, smart nice smile kind of muscular. and he told me, " for found the one i need to fug them all"


i was bro, this is not the problem, the problem is that every girl that you will fugg dont want to one night stand you, they want to marry you or present you to their mom. with great power comes great responsibility

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Posted by Whorpio
Have you ever just met a person who would be completely perfect for you, but you know things won't work with them because you are so out of their league?

I met someone who treats me right. I've never felt this special before. But I know I don't have a chance with him romantically because I have 0 personality to offer. All I have to offer is my body and for someone as smart and generous as him it's not enough in the long run.


Have any of y'all felt like that? Like you aren't good enough for a certain type of person? How do you get over that feeling and move on?

Yes, I have this problem right now..I know he is way smarter, richer and more mature than me.. scares me to death but I still want him eventually. He's helping me to see my value though and start to open up more.

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Posted by Mutabull
Yes, I have this problem right now..I know he is way smarter, richer and more mature than me.. scares me to death but I still want him eventually. He's helping me to see my value though and start to open up more.

Posted by Gemitati
You deny him and when he says 'I am not giving up' - you give up! Lol

Just to show him how not worthy you are of him.

And when he keeps bugging you - you reply to not to hurt his feelings.

And one day you say - damn' I must be worth much more than I give myself a credit for and you give up and stop thinking of him so highly.

Now you think of him 'that moron who fell for me like I am something special'... and you say I do!

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Posted by Gemitati
You deny him and when he says 'I am not giving up' - you give up! Lol

Just to show him how not worthy you are of him.

And when he keeps bugging you - you reply to not to hurt his feelings.

And one day you say - damn' I must be worth much more than I give myself a credit for and you give up and stop thinking of him so highly.

Now you think of him 'that moron who fell for me like I am something special'... and you say I do!

This would be great if we were in a movie.... but this is reality and I don't have the confidence to pull that off.

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lol u cute my bro have this chart, it's a marryboi chart, the most dangerous type of fuqboi here, but i should stop here and not broke the brocode

Please translate to American slang. What is "marryboi"?

it's not an usual fuccboi, there is fuccboi who are typed as bad boy, but this one he's a pretty gentleman with a degree, and a nice smile.


i have a friend like this, he got the IT degree plus a formation for fireman, smart nice smile kind of muscular. and he told me, " for found the one i need to fug them all"


i was bro, this is not the problem, the problem is that every girl that you will fugg dont want to one night stand you, they want to marry you or present you to their mom. with great power comes great responsibility

Ah ok that sort of makes sense. But he only had sex 2 times before he met me, so it's not like he has that "need to fug them all" mentality.


Anyways, how do I move on?

the season 3 - 4 of skins + ice cream wiz 2 xanz

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Posted by Gemitati
How ugly are you? ?

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You deny him and when he says 'I am not giving up' - you give up! Lol

Just to show him how not worthy you are of him.

And when he keeps bugging you - you reply to not to hurt his feelings.

And one day you say - damn' I must be worth much more than I give myself a credit for and you give up and stop thinking of him so highly.

Now you think of him 'that moron who fell for me like I am something special'... and you say I do!

This would be great if we were in a movie.... but this is reality and I don't have the confidence to pull that off.

How ugly are you? ?

That's deep mom.

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Posted by Whorpio

Posted by Gemitati
How ugly are you? ?

I'm saying I feel like I have nothing to offer other than my looks & body. I don't have the personality or brains to pull off what you speak of, because this boy care about more than looks.

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How ugly are you? ?

I'm saying I feel like I have nothing to offer other than my looks & body. I don't have the personality or brains to pull off what you speak of, because this boy care about more than looks.

Boy? Is it Jed? ???


Well does he know you are a pro?

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How ugly are you? ?

I'm saying I feel like I have nothing to offer other than my looks & body. I don't have the personality or brains to pull off what you speak of, because this boy care about more than looks.

Boy? Is it Jed? ???


Well does he know you are a pro?

Lmaoooo I hope it's not Jed ???


He don't know I'm a pro. I told him I want to be exotic dancer, but nothing else.

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#cope

Posted by WarAngel1
You do whatever it takes to rise to their level and wait for someone of their caliber to notice.

Posted by OrGasMe
You focus on yourself. Focus on being a better you, a happier you, a more successful you.


Focus on loving yourself and realizing your value in this world.


But you have to have the intentions to do it for yourself. Not for anyone else. If you focus on being a better 'you' for someone else you will always be chasing your best self.

Posted by Whorpio
I'm going to be alone forever.

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by OrGasMe
You focus on yourself. Focus on being a better you, a happier you, a more successful you.


Focus on loving yourself and realizing your value in this world.


But you have to have the intentions to do it for yourself. Not for anyone else. If you focus on being a better 'you' for someone else you will always be chasing your best self.

This ❤️❤️❤️❤️


But how do you even begin to realize your value in the world, when people just treat you like a piece of meat?

Even when I had my day job (at a snack stand) the men would still objectify me.


I feel like changing wouldn't benefit me much. It would only help me find a life-long partner.

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Posted by Whorpio

Posted by OrGasMe
You focus on yourself. Focus on being a better you, a happier you, a more successful you.


Focus on loving yourself and realizing your value in this world.


But you have to have the intentions to do it for yourself. Not for anyone else. If you focus on being a better 'you' for someone else you will always be chasing your best self.

This ❤️❤️❤️❤️


But how do you even begin to realize your value in the world, when people just treat you like a piece of meat?

Even when I had my day job (at a snack stand) the men would still objectify me.


I feel like changing wouldn't benefit me much. It would only help me find a life-long partner.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.


Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Whorpio
This ❤️❤️❤️❤️


But how do you even begin to realize your value in the world, when people just treat you like a piece of meat?

Even when I had my day job (at a snack stand) the men would still objectify me.


I feel like changing wouldn't benefit me much. It would only help me find a life-long partner.

Isn't that what you want though?

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Posted by AerialView
Cheer up Whorpio!


you don't suck that bad.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
You can't successfully date someone when your selling your pussy, imo.


Focus on yourself, i.e. focus on stacking your cash and investing it in a future where you don't need to rely on selling sex.

That's where I have the hang up. In my field of work, where you have to be detached and treated like an object, you just want someone to come home to at the end of the night who you can bond with, who will treat you like a human and accept you for you.


But you're also right in that I need to focus on saving money rn. That's another hang up for me because deep down I know I'd have to change my life style if I wanted a genuine connection with someone, but I'm addicted to the money and building my "empire" (so to speak).

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Posted by Whorpio
This ❤️❤️❤️❤️


But how do you even begin to realize your value in the world, when people just treat you like a piece of meat?

Even when I had my day job (at a snack stand) the men would still objectify me.


I feel like changing wouldn't benefit me much. It would only help me find a life-long partner.

Isn't that what you want though?

Yes, but if they can't financially support us there may be a problem...

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Posted by LadyNeptune
I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.


Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.


Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.


Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.

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I have a close friend who escorted and stripped throughout her 20s and 30s. She was smart with her money and invested it in real estate as well as started a business. Another friend is in her late 30s with two kids and she's still in the game. She's so burnt out and just over it, but the money is good so she keeps at it.


Your type of business has an expiration date. You don't want to be the granny selling her pussy to pay for meds. Take the tricks money and build a better future for yourself.


Its pretty pointless to try to date cause any dude who isn't a pimp is gonna want you to stop hoe-ing. But are you really gonna get a square job and work 9-5 minimum wage? Nope.


Get your money in order and when you quit, quit for real. Then you'll be ready for love.

I think I'll quit 3 years from now when I complete my Bachelors of Science in Nursing.


I would like to point out that there are men who date pornstars and don't ask Le pornstar girlfriend to quit her career. What makes what I do deserve a different approach?

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Posted by Taniwha
Get pregnant.

Posted by Sagiluv27
Stop putting yourself down be confident that your enough and you'll be enough

Posted by LadyNeptune
I read it. We can take this to pm's if that makes you more comfortable.

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by LadyNeptune
I read it. We can take this to pm's if that makes you more comfortable.

I already know your stance so I think it's fine. Thanks for the help cher. It's sort of a sad reality, but you are right I guesssss. I hope I can get out once I get my degree. Nurses make good money.

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I read it. We can take this to pm's if that makes you more comfortable.

I already know your stance so I think it's fine. Thanks for the help cher. It's sort of a sad reality, but you are right I guesssss. I hope I can get out once I get my degree. Nurses make good money.

My bosses wife is the head nurse at cedar sinai in beverly hills. She can't make more than 15k per month...and after taxes...meh. Any square job you do is never gonna be as easy as selling pussy.


You should save and invest some of the money into a passive income.

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Posted by aquanib
I once read a scorpio should never try to impress an aqua with her brain, that why would she try with her 2nd best attribute, when the 1st best attribute, her body and raw sex appeal works better.


In any case.....he won't have you while you do what you do.


As for #cope: ands found out it helps to get as many creampies on his face as possible.

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I read it. We can take this to pm's if that makes you more comfortable.

I already know your stance so I think it's fine. Thanks for the help cher. It's sort of a sad reality, but you are right I guesssss. I hope I can get out once I get my degree. Nurses make good money.

My bosses wife is the head nurse at cedar sinai in beverly hills. She can't make more than 15k per month...and after taxes...meh. Any square job you do is never gonna be as easy as selling pussy.


You should save and invest some of the money into a passive income.

The only thing I could think to invest in is bitcoins, but they are at their highest price right now

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Posted by Sagiluv27
Stop it !! Based on your threads I find that your the opposite of what you think of yourself!! I'm sure if you really be yourself in front of him he will admire your honesty like I do.

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Posted by Whorpio
The only thing I could think to invest in is bitcoins, but they are at their highest price right now

I was thinking something more tangible, like rental property.

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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
But anyways, you have a personality and it's never too late to get "cultured"

Like learn about something interesting to talk about "i was reading this article about..." or reading a book

Or I went

Or i wish someday to travel to... (share your dreams and aspirations)

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The only thing I could think to invest in is bitcoins, but they are at their highest price right now

I was thinking something more tangible, like rental property.

Interesting... How do I get into that? I already have a couple time shares; could I rent those out? Or maybe buy a condo and rent it out on Airbnb? The opportunities are starting to seem endless!! ?

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Posted by Taniwha
Get pregnant.

He'd pay to abort it...

Don't tell him until its born then.

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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
I've been reading online about femininity and from what I've read and my own experiences--guys are intimidated or feel challenged when a girl is too intelligent (unless he's attracted to intelligence)

It seems that most guys just want to chill or feel 'healed' by spending time with someone pleasant who doesn't make them feel like he has to compete with you and your opinions all the time.

But what do I know *shrugs*


You are good enough and you need to find a way to make yourself believe it because it's true.

He's just another human with flaws as we all are.


Just don't think too much--dive in and wing it.


I always think too much when dealing with (the very few) guys I like and I start getting calculating etc and that just doesn't work


Just flow--be feminine energy and flow


And it's not like you'll be in your industry forever. Does he know about it? Because you can either keep it a locked down secret which might bother your conscience which you'll have to quiet or be open about it and he'll either have to accept it or not. It's not like he's going to financially support you

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This ❤️❤️❤️❤️


But how do you even begin to realize your value in the world, when people just treat you like a piece of meat?

Even when I had my day job (at a snack stand) the men would still objectify me.


I feel like changing wouldn't benefit me much. It would only help me find a life-long partner.

Isn't that what you want though?

Yes, but if they can't financially support us there may be a problem...

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Posted by Whorpio
Interesting... How do I get into that? I already have a couple time shares; could I rent those out? Or maybe buy a condo and rent it out on Airbnb? The opportunities are starting to seem endless!! ?

Yes buy a Caribbean vaca home and invite me over lol. I make a mean jalapeno margarita.

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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Dont let him know about your money then


What's his venus? I can't remember from the chart. Don't worry about what aquas like. If his venus is in aqua then he's into some weird shit lol

Venus in Capricorn cares about status and reserved traditional etc success

Venus in pisces im not sure

And venus in aries would be into agressive and headstrong women

Venus in Sagittarius would work with your moon


But I've noticed that cancer moons can be moody sensitive and manipulative (if it's not in leo) so you might have to walk on eggshells

Don't worry too much about thinking you're not intelligent enough--there are different types of intelligence out there

And you said he's in a drinking/party phase so I don't view him as very high status--just remind yourself of his immaturity and it should help you feel better than him so that you don't feel like you're not good enough

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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
But anyways, you have a personality and it's never too late to get "cultured"

Like learn about something interesting to talk about "i was reading this article about..." or reading a book

Or I went

Or i wish someday to travel to... (share your dreams and aspirations)

I've tried spewing facts and sharing aspirations, but he always outdoes me, so I end up feeling irrelevant.

You're gonna feel irrelevant around him for the rest of the relationship. why would you wan't that?

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Interesting... How do I get into that? I already have a couple time shares; could I rent those out? Or maybe buy a condo and rent it out on Airbnb? The opportunities are starting to seem endless!! ?

Yes buy a Caribbean vaca home and invite me over lol. I make a mean jalapeno margarita.

Hmmmm... can you give me this margarita recipe first and then later we can talk about my Caribbean home?

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