Whirlwind romance with Scorp male....

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by virgoblondie on Thursday, November 2, 2006 and has 11 replies.
Ok... So... I've started dating my scorpion man for about a month. He doesn't seem to fit the Scorpio profile completely, but he is extremely passionate (as am I). He has already told me he loves me, & trusts me, and we already are finishing each other's sentences. He says he's never felt more comfortable with anyone before, and we have already met each other's families. He has also been very open with me about anything I ask him. He is a great guy, and I think he has potential to be ?the one? but I get worried about this being such a whirlwind romance that the flame could blow out as quickly as it was lit. His past relationships have been fairly long, but he is normally the ?breaker-upper.? He's already talking about things we can do this winter, and next summer, and he says he plans on sticking around for a while. My scorp and I have so many things in common its alarming! I am not a typical Virgo. I am not conservative, and our? ?passion? seems to be on the same level. I am also extremely straightforward which is something he appreciates. Is it typical of a scorpion to be flooded with these loving emotions and then just get bored eventually? Do most Scorpios want long-term commitments? Are they marriage material?
Thanks!!
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In posting on a message board you are probably having doubts and in a month long relationship it's completely understandable. It's up to you to decide your fate and you have to be willing to take chances to do that. Being fearless is hard for us all but so many people are going to warn you off and you can't listen to others who want to make you miserable.
My parents met and married in 6 weeks and my father is a scorpio. They are married still and have been together over 30 years now. So it can happen if you want it to. (In actuality when a relationship gets me down I remember my own parents story and while as a teen it drove me crazy I love having that as a hope for me someday.) So take care of you and don't let us or your fears hold you back. Word of caution from me though is if your doubts are based on your heart telling you something then listen.
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Vorgoblonde...your story sounds like just my bestfriends - she btw is a Virgo and her husband is a Scorpio.
They met, went out and she had the best time saying everything to me that you have just posted. They were married after 3 mos. and have now been married for 6yrs. still going strong. *also created the cutest male Aries baby together* ---they "get" each other.
I agree with ladyvie...do not let your fears (false evidence appearing real) hold you back. Funny thing about our thoughts - what you think usually comes true so think postive, think good thoughts and that is exactly what you will create my dear. Winking
Not sure if this is the correct place to post this and it is not my intention to "hi-jack" your post - I'd like to share an experience with you re: fears.
I was dating a lovely Virgo man and we had some great moments and then, he would pull back out of fear, fear of disapointing me. This was his thought and this is what he would create. I asked him so many times to just be himself however his past relationships haunted him and he was afraid to make a "mistake." A relationship most likely will not survive if he cannot be authentically himself.
Relationships can be difficult and I wish that we were able to put each past relationship in the past (done and dusted) and not carry it with us into the new experience of a possibly wonderful relationship. I guess what I'm saying is if you can, let go of those imagined fears and enjoy being in the moment with your new pal letting each moment take you the next place with no worries.
Keep thinking those good thoughts Winking
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Ladyvie, what was your mother's sun sign ?
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My mom is a cancer actually. And my father is a scorpio raised by scorpios and he fathered alot of scorpios with my mother (exception being poor me the aquarius raised in the nuthouse... I joke. My parents are rather sickening together to this day.)
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Oh that explains it smile
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Explains what? I love hearing people's theories and thoughts. Are you saying water signs stick together?
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Hey ladyvie how was it living with a cancer mom and being an aqua...I have the same scenario.
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My mother is great really. I can't complain about my mother at all and never really did. She always let me do what I wanted and she was very much my friend growing up. She had me when she was 19, so she was the mom who took me and all my friends to the park or something. She was Growing up the battles I fought were with my Scorpio father. He could make me cry with just a cross word and I aggravated him all the time with a lack of character depth and no clear direction. Don't get me wrong here as I love my father very much but he was always the one I was trying to get approval from.
With a father as strict as mine is, my mother is and always was a blessing.
She was the first one up when it snowed getting us all up to build snowmen in the front lawn and offering to make the cocoa for all my friends (and my mom is a Florida native originally.) When I moved into my own apartment my mother was happy that I had the same decorating tastes as she did and out of all her children I don't make her guilty when she wants to go to a dance or have a social life outside the family. My mom is probably my best girl friend really.
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Oh thats great. My mom is GREAT too. I love her dearly.
I just asked because my mom was a bit overwhelming for me growing up. She is very emotional and loud...she freaks out easily smile , but I still love her.
After learning a bit more about astro signs I kinda understand her more. I also have a cancer sister, she too is the same way...BUT I love them both very much.
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My mother's emotional 'we need to get along' breakdown stopped many an argument between my father and me. Neither of us would have stopped arguing probably if she didn't start having her emotional breakdown. My Scorpio father wasn't abusive in any way and I don't want to paint a bad picture... but Irish temper and the scorpio temperment are not always easy to get along with when the whole 'my way or the highway' attitude surfaces. Like I said my father is a Scorpio raised by scorpios and one sister and my brother are scorpios (the other sister being a cancer like my mother.) My mother was the calm one in the family and if she weeped then we all stopped bickering.
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