Who ghosted who?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by TwinFlame2018 on Wednesday, May 22, 2019 and has 2 replies.
I'm curious to know what others think and who ghosted who in this situation.

Boy meets girl, girl likes boy a lot and on first date wants to start a relationship. Few weeks into relationship boy says silly joke and girl flips out and breaks up with him. Boy waits a month and tries to get back with her but she refuses to talk to him (initially said she would but changed her mind at time of proposed conversation). A week or so later boy texts girl with a picture of him at exotic place and says "greetings from exotic place and happy new year". Girl responds and offers for us to get back together if this is what I want. We get back together and everything is going well, she is texting me few thousand words each day. We have a dinner date together before I was to go on a business trip (another exotic place) and during dinner I kissed her few times on her cheek and each time she would kiss me back on auto pilot. Few days later as I am on my trip I text her and thank her for good time we had during dinner and tell her that I appreciate little things and it was cute how she kissed me on auto pilot. She responds with that she has to break up with me and that something is reminding her of her past relationship. No explanation of any kind given.

Boy is disappointed but remembers that he promised to buy girl Belgian chocolates for her upcoming graduation (1 month or so after break up). Boy likes to keep his promises and buys a box of chocolates and has them to delivered to her (also coincided with another holiday). Attached message was something along the lines "Congratulations on your graduation, I know you worked really hard to get to this place and you have a bright future ahead of you".

Girl doesnt acknowledge it after receiving it but all of a sudden 2 weeks later she sends a long text message, thanking for the gift and giving me an update on her personal life & work situation after graduation. Her reply could've been just thank you and end conversation there but instead she structured it in such a way that would get my response and me asking more about her life / work situation. She starts texting me non stop (few thousand words per day) and many times she would be the first to initiate conversation in the morning. This went on for ~2 weeks and during this time I was out of town. She tells me about problem she is having at work and how she can't take it anymore and wants to quit. I am totally supportive throughout the whole process and give her support and encouragement. She is very grateful and says she appreciates me being there for her and that she doesnt have anyone else she can talk to.

Fast forward to the day I'm landing in my home town from my trip and she texts me great news. She was able to leave her toxic job and got new job at place that's exactly what she was looking for. She was very happy about it and thanked me for being there for her.

Fast forward another week or so and now she is cranky about certain life situation. It was uncomfortable but not the end of the world but she was cranky for few days and I tried to avoid having conversations with her in this state. One day we're talking and she is cranky about her life situation (which would get resolved in a week or so) and as well as some problems that her parents were having. I ask her if I can call her that night so that we can talk and I would soothe her problems and she responds that she cant because she is going out (which she says she rarely does) and needs her time. I respond with something like "OK have a good time tonight and take your mind of all things that are bothering you. TTYL" She didnt respond to that and both of us never initiated new conversation. I made a decision long before that not to chase her anymore and I stuck to my principles.

So in your opinions, who ghosted who? Did I do it by ending with Talk To You Later and her expecting for me to start new conversation few days later after she wasn't cranky or was it her who never responded with anything (ie. have a good night) and also not initiating any conversations later.

she did both times