I want to know why a man can’t set aside his pride and give a woman a second chance?? Women do it all the time! Does anyone have any good advice on this?
Sorry everyone I meant to say Why Can’t a Man Give a woman a Second Chance!
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30788 · Topics: 649
How you know you're not on your 5th chance?
I know.. we have had a thing for 10 years, the cancer and Scorpio soul mate stuff, then one night he really wanted me to come out and I couldn’t... he took it as rejection and pulled away! I didn’t know what hit me, that was 3 years ago and I’ve apologized, only seen him 2 times since then and when he saw me fir the first time again he pulled away again , yet he will talk to me everyday from morning until night but when I ask if he wants to hang out you know what he says?? “ I have lots of friends o don’t see or talk to but we’re still friends , sorry but I just don’t see us hanging out “ now you tell me what this means?!?! Your ok as long as you don’t see me? Because you feel vulnerable when you do? And you got that Big Wall up still ?????
I mean is it true if you just stop and practice the No Contact Rule, that they come around again? This type is used to control, mind games and Testing!!! Lots of testing because they don’t give their hearts out freely! I passed those tests but the minute I said no? I got thrown out on my A** and the silent treatment
Because he is my love and this is something that can be fixed! I mean it’s coneva long way.. before we weren’t talking st all... now we were until Sunday when he said he doesn’t see us hanging out! My response was “ I’m sorry you feel like that “ abd I just stopped and walked ... I haven’t text him and he hasn’t text me!!! He doesn’t trust me with his heart.... and his Pride abd Ego is bigger then his heart abd I’m so Angry of this behaviour ... because I know he cares about me, would rather go to his death than Show Me!!
He’s a Scorpio born October 29 1971 abd I’m a cancer born July 8 1972.. I don’t know our times... but he is that mars Pluto thing that’s for sure! Thanks ladie you are all helping me with your warm words! ❤️
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Dec 14, 2016Comments: 7399 · Posts: 18799 · Topics: 84
I never look back, just forward.
Nothing was intentional I just couldn’t go out because I had to work early in the mmorning and it has never been the same since then..
I just mean like I won’t contact him because I said and did what I could do I’m just not going to contact him anymore
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Apr 23, 2016Comments: 512 · Posts: 2341 · Topics: 198
Because we have Egos. Cheating, being disrespected in front of friends etc. can make us feel, emasculated, disrespected and humiliated. We want to look good, we want to be and perceived as men.
Woman want love, men want respect.
All of everyone’s comments and is advice is helpful👍
Carmelizedcoffee I have no idea what my moon is!!
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Jul 09, 2017Comments: 1028 · Posts: 1393 · Topics: 37
I don’t give second chances. Cuz I mean.. look at me.. lol
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Mar 24, 2006Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
Finding it hard to believe you got iced out simply because you couldn’t go out and had to work....
What else went on why he feels you were either making up an excuse or lying or seeing someone else??
He didn’t trust you back then for a reason either that or he sounds really immature and threw his toys out of the crib in a tantrum!
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Jun 20, 2017Comments: 525 · Posts: 1201 · Topics: 14
There are more women than men in the world. The numbers are in our favors. I don't make the rules.
No reason to lie.. what I say happened is what happened! He felt rejected and fucked off on me... I apologized and there was nobody else! He is the true Scorpio and has the characteristics of an unevolved kind.... we were talking again and I asked him if we could hang out and I asked him if he was comfortable with that or would he prefer to never see me again and he says “ I don’t see us hanging out “ sorry Just being honest ! So deep down his ego is still bruised and he feels vulnerable therefore can’t take a chance in seeing me again because deep down he still cares for me!!!! He didn’t delete me off fb because he still wants a connection to me! Anyone disagree????
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Jan 05, 2015Comments: 14 · Posts: 5462 · Topics: 94
So I guess I’m trying to understand... were you guys dating for 10 years or FWB or ??? Because it doesn’t make sense that having a connection that long and you can’t make it out one night that a reasonable person would throw you way like that? So, I have to wonder what is his underlying reason and quite honestly it doesn’t even matter because this will never work. The universe is saying “NO” to this. Time to move on and find someone meant for you and visa Versa.
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
The real question is would you think less of him if he set aside his pride?
There were feelings of unfinished business between us because of what happened!! You know? The Elephant in the Room????
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Dec 14, 2016Comments: 7399 · Posts: 18799 · Topics: 84
You sound a little nuts and obsessive.
We’re getting off topic... I’m asking why can’t a man give it another chance? I’ve explained in great detail exactly what happened and nothing more and nothing less... we were involved in and off fir a decade, never argued and we always got a long... I know what I did I bruised his Scorpio ego! He felt like I didn’t care about seeing him and I’m not truly forgiven that’s why he can’t abd won’t see me! Last year when he did invite me over? I was dying inside being that close to him and he was nervous, wouldn’t sit near me... he was guarded... I left in tears that night because I didn’t know who this person was anymore... it’s not that easy to just forget someone but believe me after what he said Sunday night??? I’m going on with my life! My Q was, why can’t men seem to give another chance ?
Sweetie nobody is nuts or obsessive! I don’t drive by anyone’s house, or creep, I simply want to feel better about what happened with my issue and get some insight... if you can’t offer any decent advice? I suggest you fuck off...
I didn’t use the word tree trunk off! The computer did... I was saying Eff Off!!! Now I’m sure you get it!
Men do give second chances , just depends on the person .. there’s some prideful, stubborn mo fos that would rather die than give a woman that did them dirty a second chance lol
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Jan 22, 2016Comments: 1153 · Posts: 4982 · Topics: 13
Men - do give women another chance. Maybe, just, not that man... but other men might. 😏