Why would a guy do this? *NOT A TROLL*

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by justmex3 on Wednesday, March 15, 2017 and has 29 replies.
This guy I had liked in HS was really emotionally abusive and he would call me names behind my back. And then one time he screamed at me. And after he had screamed at me I caught him jacking off to me in the bathroom. He was saying my name over and over. Then I ran away. But he made me feel really lonely and we weren't even in a relationship. He was possessive in a sense because he kept all of the other guys from dating me because he told them lies about me. Why would he do that? Is it because he wants me all to himself?
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Yeah he kind of is
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But I'm serious. I really need help with this. I'm really hurting because of it.
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He was really emotionally abusive though.
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He blocked me on Instagram after I had tried to message him.
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We aren't in school anymore.
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It just really hurts me that he would jack off to me and say my name and then scream at me. In church service for graduation I walked in and he was talking to some friends and then he saw me and he made a circle and I was talking to my friend and I turned my head and he was standing there just staring at me at the end of the hallway all alone just watching me and then he went to the bathroom.
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Posted by justmex3
We aren't in school anymore.
Weren't he make you suck him at HS dumpster for $ 5?

That's not abuse!

It's business btw..

So get over yourself!
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Btw what's your name? Maybe it'll help dxpnet guys here to...help themselves?

Who knows? Be nice. Tell!
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@Gemitati First of all you don't know the situation and you weren't even there. He is emotionally abusive and I never even touched him. Why would I even want to suck him off? Tf? lmao
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@Ajna I'm still affected by what he has done. We live in a small town so sometimes I see him out places.
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Posted by Ajna
Posted by justmex3
This guy I had liked in HS was really emotionally abusive and he would call me names behind my back. And then one time he screamed at me. And after he had screamed at me I caught him jacking off to me in the bathroom. He was saying my name over and over. Then I ran away. But he made me feel really lonely and we weren't even in a relationship. He was possessive in a sense because he kept all of the other guys from dating me because he told them lies about me. Why would he do that? Is it because he wants me all to himself?
Is he still in your life or you are


affected by what he has done ?
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I'm still affected by what he has done. We still see each other out places because we live in a small town he he just stares at me and smiles.

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Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by justmex3
He is emotionally abusive and I never even touched him. Why would I even want to suck him off? Tf? lmao
Don't mind gemitati.


We know. We are on your side.


But tell someone and stay away. Talk about it with friends and find friends to make you feel less lonely.
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Thank you. Me and him are not in high school anymore. We just see each other a lot because we are in a very small town.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Oh no you're in hs?


That's creepy


Run
We aren't in high school anymore. We graduated in 2016.
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Posted by justmex3
@Ajna I'm still affected by what he has done. We live in a small town so sometimes I see him out places.
I understand.



You are very strong to be going through that. And just look here you are as sweet as you are. He can't take that from you. You're lovely.


It's got to be very tough.



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Thank you. That is a very sweet thing to say. It is rough for me. He makes me feel really lonely. Whenever I see him out places he will just stare at me. There's this music festival in our town every year and this year he went and he saw me and he gave me this huge toothy grin and then I walked away but then I saw him go to the restrooms and it's like wow you're doing it again? Every time he sees me out whether it be a football game at our old hs or if its like at an event he will stare at me and then smile and then go to the bathroom after watching me.
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I think you might have remainder feelings maybe curiousity..Or you see him and it brings back memories


Forget that loser and talk to other guys, since you graduated already
I really do still like him. Sometimes I actually feel like I love him because he wasn't always this terrible. He used to be nice to me and we were friends.
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I don't know if he will try to do anything because we are never alone together.
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I've told my mom and she knows. She doesn't think he will do anything though. She thinks he isn't dangerous. But I told my friends at work and they said they think he is possessive and that if we were alone he would hurt me. they think right now he is working on my mental and he is trying to make me think of him all the time and then once he knows he has control over me mentally that's when he will try and pursue me and ask me out and then go and physically hurt me.
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Posted by justmex3
Posted by the_sunflower
I think you might have remainder feelings maybe curiousity..Or you see him and it brings back memories


Forget that loser and talk to other guys, since you graduated already
I really do still like him. Sometimes I actually feel like I love him because he wasn't always this terrible. He used to be nice to me and we were friends.
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this is fulfilling some sort of need for you. assess your life and feelings and see where it comes from. then you can move on. from what you have stated, it sounds unhealthy and unhealthy people have unhealthy relationships.
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Posted by AbbyNormal
Posted by justmex3
Posted by the_sunflower
I think you might have remainder feelings maybe curiousity..Or you see him and it brings back memories


Forget that loser and talk to other guys, since you graduated already
I really do still like him. Sometimes I actually feel like I love him because he wasn't always this terrible. He used to be nice to me and we were friends.
this is fulfilling some sort of need for you. assess your life and feelings and see where it comes from. then you can move on. from what you have stated, it sounds unhealthy and unhealthy people have unhealthy relationships.
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He's really the only boy who has given me any attention. He makes me feel special when he looks at me. Sometimes he looks at me with this dreamy eyed look and he has this half-smile. It's like he gets into a trance. He would always trip over things trying to stare at me or he would bump into things.

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Posted by Ajna
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Posted by Ajna
Posted by justmex3
This guy I had liked in HS was really emotionally abusive and he would call me names behind my back. And then one time he screamed at me. And after he had screamed at me I caught him jacking off to me in the bathroom. He was saying my name over and over. Then I ran away. But he made me feel really lonely and we weren't even in a relationship. He was possessive in a sense because he kept all of the other guys from dating me because he told them lies about me. Why would he do that? Is it because he wants me all to himself?
Is he still in your life or you are


affected by what he has done ?


I'm still affected by what he has done. We still see each other out places because we live in a small town he he just stares at me and smiles.



I would carry a pocket knife or something

else small for self defense.


I would also study him.


I would learn everything I know about him

to help me be more invisible to him.


Switch times you two normally meet or

avoid all together etc...


If you see him, have your cell on

quick dial to the authorities...



what he has said to you and to those

people are irrelevant. If they do not date

you because of what was said then let that

be a test of sorts that enables you to see the

quality of these people. Besides, the one that

is meant for you will show up no matter what.

These silly rumors cannot stop this connection.


Let everything you know about him and

what he does teach you more about him

to help you move around him.



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I never really see him anymore. But my friends told me him and his friends look at my Twitter page and make fun of me. They still won't leave me alone.
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Posted by Ajna
Posted by justmex3
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Posted by justmex3
Posted by Ajna
Posted by justmex3
This guy I had liked in HS was really emotionally abusive and he would call me names behind my back. And then one time he screamed at me. And after he had screamed at me I caught him jacking off to me in the bathroom. He was saying my name over and over. Then I ran away. But he made me feel really lonely and we weren't even in a relationship. He was possessive in a sense because he kept all of the other guys from dating me because he told them lies about me. Why would he do that? Is it because he wants me all to himself?
Is he still in your life or you are


affected by what he has done ?


I'm still affected by what he has done. We still see each other out places because we live in a small town he he just stares at me and smiles.



I would carry a pocket knife or something

else small for self defense.


I would also study him.


I would learn everything I know about him

to help me be more invisible to him.


Switch times you two normally meet or

avoid all together etc...


If you see him, have your cell on

quick dial to the authorities...



what he has said to you and to those

people are irrelevant. If they do not date

you because of what was said then let that

be a test of sorts that enables you to see the

quality of these people. Besides, the one that

is meant for you will show up no matter what.

These silly rumors cannot stop this connection.


Let everything you know about him and

what he does teach you more about him

to help you move around him.



I never really see him anymore. But my friends told me him and his friends look at my Twitter page and make fun of me. They still won't leave me alone.
People will laugh but who are *these* people?


The ones that deserve your energy and

attention are the ones that were there


for you from the beginning. People

that dont care about you...


that laugh about you...


theyre just background noise


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The people are this friends and him.
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Posted by AbbyNormal
Posted by justmex3
Posted by the_sunflower
I think you might have remainder feelings maybe curiousity..Or you see him and it brings back memories


Forget that loser and talk to other guys, since you graduated already
I really do still like him. Sometimes I actually feel like I love him because he wasn't always this terrible. He used to be nice to me and we were friends.
this is fulfilling some sort of need for you. assess your life and feelings and see where it comes from. then you can move on. from what you have stated, it sounds unhealthy and unhealthy people have unhealthy relationships.


He's really the only boy who has given me any attention. He makes me feel special when he looks at me. Sometimes he looks at me with this dreamy eyed look and he has this half-smile. It's like he gets into a trance. He would always trip over things trying to stare at me or he would bump into things.

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Well it's your choice. limit yourself to one small town guy who stares at you and berates you and masturbates to you, confusing you. or broaden your horizons and find that connection with someone healthier and more mature. it seems like you want to see what he's all about no matter what anyone says. curiosity is winning and it's hard not to let it at your age. just try not to limit yourself is all I'm saying i guess. you could try talking to him one on one but that could either clear the air or further convolute things depending on how he reacts/behaves.

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Posted by AbbyNormal
Posted by justmex3
Posted by AbbyNormal
Posted by justmex3
Posted by the_sunflower
I think you might have remainder feelings maybe curiousity..Or you see him and it brings back memories


Forget that loser and talk to other guys, since you graduated already
I really do still like him. Sometimes I actually feel like I love him because he wasn't always this terrible. He used to be nice to me and we were friends.
this is fulfilling some sort of need for you. assess your life and feelings and see where it comes from. then you can move on. from what you have stated, it sounds unhealthy and unhealthy people have unhealthy relationships.


He's really the only boy who has given me any attention. He makes me feel special when he looks at me. Sometimes he looks at me with this dreamy eyed look and he has this half-smile. It's like he gets into a trance. He would always trip over things trying to stare at me or he would bump into things.

Well it's your choice. limit yourself to one small town guy who stares at you and berates you and masturbates to you, confusing you. or broaden your horizons and find that connection with someone healthier and more mature. it seems like you want to see what he's all about no matter what anyone says. curiosity is winning and it's hard not to let it at your age. just try not to limit yourself is all I'm saying i guess. you could try talking to him one on one but that could either clear the air or further convolute things depending on how he reacts/behaves.

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Yeah.
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Posted by Ajna
Posted by justmex3
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Posted by justmex3
Posted by Ajna
Posted by justmex3
This guy I had liked in HS was really emotionally abusive and he would call me names behind my back. And then one time he screamed at me. And after he had screamed at me I caught him jacking off to me in the bathroom. He was saying my name over and over. Then I ran away. But he made me feel really lonely and we weren't even in a relationship. He was possessive in a sense because he kept all of the other guys from dating me because he told them lies about me. Why would he do that? Is it because he wants me all to himself?
Is he still in your life or you are


affected by what he has done ?


I'm still affected by what he has done. We still see each other out places because we live in a small town he he just stares at me and smiles.



I would carry a pocket knife or something

else small for self defense.


I would also study him.


I would learn everything I know about him

to help me be more invisible to him.


Switch times you two normally meet or

avoid all together etc...


If you see him, have your cell on

quick dial to the authorities...



what he has said to you and to those

people are irrelevant. If they do not date

you because of what was said then let that

be a test of sorts that enables you to see the

quality of these people. Besides, the one that

is meant for you will show up no matter what.

These silly rumors cannot stop this connection.


Let everything you know about him and

what he does teach you more about him

to help you move around him.



I never really see him anymore. But my friends told me him and his friends look at my Twitter page and make fun of me. They still won't leave me alone.
People will laugh but who are *these* people?


The ones that deserve your energy and

attention are the ones that were there


for you from the beginning. People

that dont care about you...


that laugh about you...


theyre just background noise


The people are this friends and him.


People only do this when

they see only from them selves.


They dont know what its like to be

you, to live your life. THEY dont matter.


YOU do
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True.
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Posted by Seraphlight
Just me ...i don't understand how you can like him?



This thread is nuts.


People are overreacting with the pocket knife idea....NO. ..scary...Just stay away from him and his friends and don't look at his twitter. I am sorry and everything. But stay away from him.
I guess I still like him because I keep thinking he is going to change back into the person he was and become nice again. It's a super long story lol.
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Posted by Ajna
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This guy I had liked in HS was really emotionally abusive and he would call me names behind my back. And then one time he screamed at me. And after he had screamed at me I caught him jacking off to me in the bathroom. He was saying my name over and over. Then I ran away. But he made me feel really lonely and we weren't even in a relationship. He was possessive in a sense because he kept all of the other guys from dating me because he told them lies about me. Why would he do that? Is it because he wants me all to himself?
Is he still in your life or you are


affected by what he has done ?


I'm still affected by what he has done. We still see each other out places because we live in a small town he he just stares at me and smiles.



I would carry a pocket knife or something

else small for self defense.


I would also study him.


I would learn everything I know about him

to help me be more invisible to him.


Switch times you two normally meet or

avoid all together etc...


If you see him, have your cell on

quick dial to the authorities...



what he has said to you and to those

people are irrelevant. If they do not date

you because of what was said then let that

be a test of sorts that enables you to see the

quality of these people. Besides, the one that

is meant for you will show up no matter what.

These silly rumors cannot stop this connection.


Let everything you know about him and

what he does teach you more about him

to help you move around him.



I never really see him anymore. But my friends told me him and his friends look at my Twitter page and make fun of me. They still won't leave me alone.
People will laugh but who are *these* people?


The ones that deserve your energy and

attention are the ones that were there


for you from the beginning. People

that dont care about you...


that laugh about you...


theyre just background noise


The people are this friends and him.


People only do this when

they see only from them selves.


They dont know what its like to be

you, to live your life. THEY dont matter.


YOU do
True.



When you start to feel a certain way...


Maybe think of your mother or father instantly..


Those are people that deserve your thoughts...

And maybe ask your friend not to tell you

what those people are doing anymore too.





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Alright. Thank you.

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Posted by AbbyNormal
Posted by justmex3
Posted by AbbyNormal
Posted by justmex3
Posted by the_sunflower
I think you might have remainder feelings maybe curiousity..Or you see him and it brings back memories


Forget that loser and talk to other guys, since you graduated already
I really do still like him. Sometimes I actually feel like I love him because he wasn't always this terrible. He used to be nice to me and we were friends.
this is fulfilling some sort of need for you. assess your life and feelings and see where it comes from. then you can move on. from what you have stated, it sounds unhealthy and unhealthy people have unhealthy relationships.


He's really the only boy who has given me any attention. He makes me feel special when he looks at me. Sometimes he looks at me with this dreamy eyed look and he has this half-smile. It's like he gets into a trance. He would always trip over things trying to stare at me or he would bump into things.

Well it's your choice. limit yourself to one small town guy who stares at you and berates you and masturbates to you, confusing you. or broaden your horizons and find that connection with someone healthier and more mature. it seems like you want to see what he's all about no matter what anyone says. curiosity is winning and it's hard not to let it at your age. just try not to limit yourself is all I'm saying i guess. you could try talking to him one on one but that could either clear the air or further convolute things depending on how he reacts/behaves.

Yeah.
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you're young. mistakes will be made. just be smart and know yourself. being really in tune with yourself and exploring your soul and loving yourself is the key to attracting the kind of mate you want forever. if you just want your kicks now, that's understandable. just realize what you are inviting. make smart decisions for yourself and surround yourself with people you aspire to. push out all negativity and enjoy your journey.
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Family problems. Troubled childhood is my guess.
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