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Wishy Washy Washy Wishy
Posted by aquarius_manThat's not very nice. We are just easily expendable commodities.
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.
Posted by aquarius_manI see you trying to push that dagger in a little harder with each comment. You'd like me to suffer slow death.Posted by LibWmannot passing judgment, just answering why we like that. and by we i mean men. but mostly aqua men 😄Posted by aquarius_manThat's not very nice. We are just easily expendable commodities.
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.
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Posted by aquarius_manThis is 100% true. Now with social media and all the dating apps, men don’t want to settle very easily because there’s so many options. I do have this problem. I was always looking for someone better and not settling or giving some guys a chance. But then eventually both men and women meet someone worth the plunge. Took me 7.5 years....
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.
Then what it really means that the person who finds it so easy to move on from you and finds any reason not to commit, is not really the one for you at all. Such superficiality.
Imagine being in a perpetual state of insecurity in a relationship due to the fear that your partner may trade you in at any given time.
Imagine being in a perpetual state of insecurity in a relationship due to the fear that your partner may trade you in at any given time.
Posted by pinkbird03Nd the individual that viewed you as an easily expendable commodity, really wasn't shit.Posted by aquarius_manThis is 100% true. Now with social media and all the dating apps, men don’t want to settle very easily because there’s so many options. I do have this problem. I was always looking for someone better and not settling or giving some guys a chance. But then eventually both men and women meet someone worth the plunge. Took me 7.5 years....
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.click to expand
Posted by LibWman
Then what it really means that the person who finds it so easy to move on from you and finds any reason not to commit, is not really the one for you at all. Such superficiality.
Imagine being in a perpetual state of insecurity in a relationship due to the fear that your partner may trade you in at any given time.
Find you a man who dun’t do social media
Posted by WhorpioI abhor social media. Any man who indulges in it must vacate the inner most realms of my vicinity.Posted by LibWman
Then what it really means that the person who finds it so easy to move on from you and finds any reason not to commit, is not really the one for you at all. Such superficiality.
Imagine being in a perpetual state of insecurity in a relationship due to the fear that your partner may trade you in at any given time.
Find you a man who dun’t do social mediaclick to expand
Posted by LibWmanSounds like a hateful crotch tbh. 😂😂😂
Any man who indulges in it must vacate the inner most realms of my vicinity.
Posted by Mr_PinchyI am a crotch.Posted by LibWmanSounds like a hateful crotch tbh. 😂😂😂
Any man who indulges in it must vacate the inner most realms of my vicinity.
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Because they don't need to
Women make it easy for them not to by not laying down boundaries and giving away sex like dishing out sweets to children
Modern day life hey? 🙄
Women make it easy for them not to by not laying down boundaries and giving away sex like dishing out sweets to children
Modern day life hey? 🙄
Posted by MyStarsShineI really very much like your response. When shall we be exchanging our nuptial vows?
Because they don't need to
Women make it easy for them not to by not laying down boundaries and giving away sex like dishing out sweets to children
Modern day life hey? 🙄
Posted by LibWmanThank you, but i have decided not to enter into the matrimonial prison againPosted by MyStarsShineI really very much like your response. When shall we be exchanging our nuptial vows?
Because they don't need to
Women make it easy for them not to by not laying down boundaries and giving away sex like dishing out sweets to children
Modern day life hey? 🙄
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So sorry 🙂
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXHow'd you know?Posted by AerialViewMen commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.click to expand
With all due respect. You are not a man.
Posted by SentimentalCrabbyis that really true - if it is - LOL
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.
And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
Posted by AerialViewBecause it's a fact. It's glaringly obvious a woman meets the criteria and then some, goes over and above for her man and he is still an ungrateful pilchard looking creature who thinks with his dick. Some people have disgusting character and lack of morals.Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXHow'd you know?Posted by AerialViewMen commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
With all due respect. You are not a man.click to expand
Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXThank you. This is why I will find you and marry you one day.Posted by AerialViewPosted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXHow'd you know?Posted by AerialViewMen commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
With all due respect. You are not a man.
With all due to respect, I have eyes.
Not all experiences require you to be the person in question for you to understand the circumstances.
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Posted by LibWman100% false mindset you have there.Posted by AerialViewBecause it's a fact. It's glaringly obvious a woman meets the criteria and then some, goes over and above for her man and he is still an ungrateful pilchard looking creature who thinks with his dick. Some people have disgusting character and lack of morals.Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXHow'd you know?Posted by AerialViewMen commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
With all due respect. You are not a man.
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Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXBut I still remember those pictures and I do love you bae.Posted by LibWmanPosted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXThank you. This is why I will find you and marry you one day.Posted by AerialViewPosted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXHow'd you know?Posted by AerialViewMen commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
With all due respect. You are not a man.
With all due to respect, I have eyes.
Not all experiences require you to be the person in question for you to understand the circumstances.
With all due respect, I'm not a man.
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Posted by AerialViewBut that's ok.Posted by LibWman100% false mindset you have there.Posted by AerialViewBecause it's a fact. It's glaringly obvious a woman meets the criteria and then some, goes over and above for her man and he is still an ungrateful pilchard looking creature who thinks with his dick. Some people have disgusting character and lack of morals.Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXHow'd you know?Posted by AerialViewMen commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
With all due respect. You are not a man.
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Posted by LibWmanNo it's NOT OK.Posted by AerialViewBut that's ok.Posted by LibWman100% false mindset you have there.Posted by AerialViewBecause it's a fact. It's glaringly obvious a woman meets the criteria and then some, goes over and above for her man and he is still an ungrateful pilchard looking creature who thinks with his dick. Some people have disgusting character and lack of morals.Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXHow'd you know?Posted by AerialViewMen commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
With all due respect. You are not a man.
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Posted by AerialViewBut I'm content though.Posted by LibWmanNo it's NOT OK.Posted by AerialViewBut that's ok.Posted by LibWman100% false mindset you have there.Posted by AerialViewBecause it's a fact. It's glaringly obvious a woman meets the criteria and then some, goes over and above for her man and he is still an ungrateful pilchard looking creature who thinks with his dick. Some people have disgusting character and lack of morals.Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXHow'd you know?Posted by AerialViewMen commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.
With all due respect. You are not a man.
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Posted by LibWmanThey haven't matured into men yet.
Why are males so wishy washy when it comes to real commitment.
Compare and contrast.
Posted by aquarius_man🤣🤣
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.
Posted by SofiaV87Hmm disappointed in him.Posted by aquarius_man🤣🤣
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.click to expand
Because men are not nice. They are nasty. They will always hurt you. They make bad fathers and hurt their kids. They are selfish. They are shallow...and that is just the beginning of it.
Posted by LibWmanThe way I see it is if I’m going to spend the rest of my life with this guy he better be everything I want and need. I don’t date for sex or companionship. I date for marriage.
Then what it really means that the person who finds it so easy to move on from you and finds any reason not to commit, is not really the one for you at all. Such superficiality.
Imagine being in a perpetual state of insecurity in a relationship due to the fear that your partner may trade you in at any given time.
Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXTrue thatPosted by AerialViewMen commit when they want to. That's not something women have control over.
First you must look at yourself. Men commit when they found someone worth for it.
Her "worth" will not change his actions.
Men can have everything they ever wanted in a partner and still cheat.click to expand
Posted by LittleFairyIt's kinda true & kinda not true .. there are plenty of women out here & sometimes the grass is greener, in some situations, unfortunately .. he could have worded that better lolPosted by SofiaV87Hmm disappointed in him.Posted by aquarius_man🤣🤣
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.click to expand
Posted by SofiaV87If she is a whore or a horse.Posted by LittleFairyIt's kinda true & kinda not true .. there are plenty of women out here & sometimes the grass is greener, in some situations, unfortunately .. he could have worded that better lolPosted by SofiaV87Hmm disappointed in him.Posted by aquarius_man🤣🤣
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manI was saying that in jest and being simplistic. I know there is a vast number of criterions BOTH women and men have which they'd liked met in order to feel satisfied and to engage in a long term commitment with another. But men are, from my extensive observations, far more superficial fickle and volatile.Posted by LibWmannot really, no. you d be surprised. but you ll have to be a man to understand. which you aren't. ergo, you don't understand.
If she is a whore or a horse.
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Posted by Lunarmaiden82That is why I created the topic. It isn't specific to a situation I am facing. Just an open ended discussion.Posted by GeminiGirl052388
We should read the book "Why Men Marry Bitches" ... it worked at least for me. The book just says stuff like you dont have to be the perfect girl (you dont have to be the nicest, the prettiest... but you have to be the most memorable). I used to think it was the men who is the problem. Later on I realized it takes 2 people to make it happen and make it work. Women cant be perfect. Theres always gonna be a better woman out there. Men can cheat and look for the greener pasteur despite being with a good woman. But in reality, do we actually want that kind of man that will make us feel inferior and we always have to compete for his attention? So if it doesnt work out then it is highly likely a mismatch in values, in interests, long-term plans. This is where the greener pasteur comes in. Men and women will be looking for a better match if certain aspects arent met by their current partners. Doesnt mean the other is inferior to the rest of the women available. It just doesnt match. It is what it is. Its either you are his greener pasteur or not.
It really does take two hahahaha
Oh we women can be such nags hahaha
But i like this place... I can vent here and ask the stuff i better not say to him.... Then have people give their objective opinion.... So i can check my ass and calm down
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Posted by Supesthat doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lolPosted by tctaoThe same can be said for the ladies.Posted by SentimentalCrabbyis that really true - if it is - LOL
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.
And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all thatclick to expand
Posted by LibWmanThey are wishy washy cause you allow it. Seriously.
Why are males so wishy washy when it comes to real commitment.
Compare and contrast.
I haven't had any issues having dudes commit. Mostly cause I cut off the dudes not interested in relationships. And I can do that cause I don't let myself get emotionally involved without relationship terms in place.
Posted by SupesI'd give it 3 months and no more. That is as much as I am willing to be closer to death before I cut my losses and invest in something worthwhile.Posted by tctaoI personally think that if someone won’t commit to you within 4-6 months of going on dates, you need to cut ties and move onPosted by Supesthat doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lolPosted by tctaoThe same can be said for the ladies.Posted by SentimentalCrabbyis that really true - if it is - LOL
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.
And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all thatclick to expand
Posted by SupesabsolutelyPosted by tctaoI personally think that if someone won’t commit to you within 4-6 months of going on dates, you need to cut ties and move onPosted by Supesthat doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lolPosted by tctaoThe same can be said for the ladies.Posted by SentimentalCrabbyis that really true - if it is - LOL
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.
And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all thatclick to expand
Posted by Supesand it just shouldn't be difficult - if it is, then it's over quickly for me - I don't do difficultPosted by tctaoI personally think that if someone won’t commit to you within 4-6 months of going on dates, you need to cut ties and move onPosted by Supesthat doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lolPosted by tctaoThe same can be said for the ladies.Posted by SentimentalCrabbyis that really true - if it is - LOL
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.
And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all thatclick to expand
are you guys saying you should get married by 3, 4, 6 months of dating or that you should be an exclusive, ie not see other people, type of couple by then?
Posted by rabidtalkerHoneymooning in Barbados.
are you guys saying you should get married by 3, 4, 6 months of dating or that you should be an exclusive, ie not see other people, type of couple by then?
Posted by LibWmangeez how about kona island instead, not everyone is richPosted by rabidtalkerHoneymooning in Barbados.
are you guys saying you should get married by 3, 4, 6 months of dating or that you should be an exclusive, ie not see other people, type of couple by then?
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Posted by Supes4-6 months is even too generous imo.Posted by tctaoI personally think that if someone won’t commit to you within 4-6 months of going on dates, you need to cut ties and move onPosted by Supesthat doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lolPosted by tctaoThe same can be said for the ladies.Posted by SentimentalCrabbyis that really true - if it is - LOL
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.
And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all thatclick to expand
1-2 months is my cut off(assuming we see each other 1x per week).
Posted by MyStarsShineI can vouch for men here. They don't have it easy on social media.
Because they don't need to
Women make it easy for them not to by not laying down boundaries and giving away sex like dishing out sweets to children
Modern day life hey? 🙄
It's matter if luck.
If you agree to 'date' someone from Sweden being in Netherlands - go ahead!
Phone sex is the only option. And if picture is fake - meeting could be costly nothing.
If you chose closer candidates - there other issues.
And I bet poster above could probably find someone quicker irl.
I think...
Posted by LadyNeptuneSo how many weeks per decade you are busy dating?Posted by Supes4-6 months is even too generous imo.Posted by tctaoI personally think that if someone won’t commit to you within 4-6 months of going on dates, you need to cut ties and move onPosted by Supesthat doesn't seem to be the definition of a good woman because if she was, she would invest in him if he was good - yes, it surely works both ways - but if one is difficult, then that isn't my definition of "good" - for me we should be able to work things out from the get go - and maybe that's just my dreamer pisces mars kicking in lolPosted by tctaoThe same can be said for the ladies.Posted by SentimentalCrabbyis that really true - if it is - LOL
When they think the grass is greener in the other side of the fence and leaving the good ones.
And they end up with someone crazy and stressing them out every day
LOL, just smile and wave.
60% that this becomes true.
yeah, those that continue to look are not the good ones anyway - I want a man who knows a good thing when he has it and knows that it is best to just tend to your own grass - like I always said - as long as it's working, don't break it - if it cracks, mend it well so it lasts another long time ...
I think most men pass on a good woman because she won’t fully invest in him. Chasing gets old after a while and the men feel like the woman is too damn difficult. If she’s this difficult just dating, imagine a married life. Ain’t nobody got time or energy for all that
1-2 months is my cut off(assuming we see each other 1x per week).click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manDirty men i wouldn't touch with a barge pole.
@LibWman - what men fantasize about when they freshly out of a relationship. @clockwisee can confirm
Posted by aquarius_manEh, depends on the situation lolPosted by SofiaV87you don t think so?Posted by aquarius_man🤣🤣
because there are so many other women out there. and despite what you women think the grass is always greener.
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