WITH COVID HAS ANYONE SINGLE GIVEN UP ON DATING OR HAVING SEX AGAIN FOR A LONG TIME?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by slowdive80 on Tuesday, January 5, 2021 and has 39 replies.
With these new covid strands Ive thrown up my hands on dating. Yeah we can do zoom but if it gets to the point where things are going well, scheduling covid testing for both on the same day can be tricky just to spend time together in person with no masks.


Yeah there is the vaccine about to be distributed but with this new strand they will go back and make another one and that will take who knows how long.


Ive pretty written dating off this year until 2022. Then I'll reevaluate. Anyone else that is single of the same thinking about this?
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Nope, Covidus Cockblokus is a non-issue around here.
Covid aint STD's , so def not.
Posted by slowdive80

With these new covid strands Ive thrown up my hands on dating. Yeah we can do zoom but if it gets to the point where things are going well, scheduling covid testing for both on the same day can be tricky just to spend time together in person with no masks.


Yeah there is the vaccine about to be distributed but with this new strand they will go back and make another one and that will take who knows how long.


Ive pretty written dating off this year until 2022. Then I'll reevaluate. Anyone else that is single of the same thinking about this?

why would covid stop can you from doing the beginning stages of dating with a mask on?


Mask on

No touching

No physical intimacy

Basically, old fashion religious style dating minus the chaperone🙃
What is sex?
My apparent asexual activity wasn’t the result of covid


It was the result of being bored with sex in general


Needing a new way to spend my time


Looking for more of what life has to offer


Posted by GenXgem

If I’m ever single again, I think it would be awesome to date during a pandemic! Geminis love different things and my Leo planets would love a challenge like that.


I could use Covid-21 excuse as a leverage to say no to sex and especially oral sex which I don’t care for anyway 😀😎
After I gave up on sex, I had a dream that I met a guy and we were talking about sex. I told him that I didn’t do that anymore and he got up and left. Never heard from him again.


I was standing there dumbfounded


I’m waiting for that dream to realize lol
Tbt when my husband & I wore masks and gloves during sex when he was taking care of his dad with long haul covid
Posted by DMV

My apparent asexual activity wasn’t the result of covid


It was the result of being bored with sex in general


Needing a new way to spend my time


Looking for more of what life has to offer


My Aqua placements have been feeling like this since puberty. I never understood the ridiculous obsession people have with sex. How can people waste their life away enslaved to their primal instincts?
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Posted by DMV

My apparent asexual activity wasn’t the result of covid


It was the result of being bored with sex in general


Needing a new way to spend my time


Looking for more of what life has to offer


My Aqua placements have been feeling like this since puberty. I never understood the ridiculous obsession people have with sex. How can people waste their life away enslaved to their primal instincts?
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Now, I finally get the other side of the table. Before I never understood the reluctance to not be screwing every second of the day. Wake up, fauk


I realized while I was having sex, how absolutely bored I was and completely turned off. So I told the guy to stop mid stroke and haven’t turned back yet.


Boy, did my life change...for the better


I did check my progressed placements and I do have mars and Venus in air


That is actually very telling.
Posted by DMV

My apparent asexual activity wasn’t the result of covid


It was the result of being bored with sex in general


Needing a new way to spend my time


Looking for more of what life has to offer
Have you ever tried getting it in the back door though
Unless you can get the test which gives you results in a few hours... its not 100%

Let me explain what I mean.

I was invited to a nye house party where everyone was required to show a negative test to gain entrance. Only about 12-15 people showed I think. But obviously not social distancing.

I briefly thought of going but ended up going camping for the weekend.

Anyways someone tested positive AFTER the party. Which means that they most likely picked up the virus after being tested prior, during that 24hr-48hr period waiting for the results. They show up thinking they were negative, negative results in hand, and were in fact positive.

Now all those people are having to quarantine for the next 2 weeks/until testing negative. Bummer.


Anyways... my condolences. Being single and wanting to mingle rn has to be really tough. Like sure, you were gonna risk your life for that stranger danger tinder dick... but now the stakes are even higher in these pandemic times.
Posted by LadyNeptune

Unless you can get the test which gives you results in a few hours... its not 100%

Let me explain what I mean.

I was invited to a nye house party where everyone was required to show a negative test to gain entrance. Only about 12-15 people showed I think. But obviously not social distancing.

I briefly thought of going but ended up going camping for the weekend.

Anyways someone tested positive AFTER the party. Which means that they most likely picked up the virus after being tested prior, during that 24hr-48hr period waiting for the results. They show up thinking they were negative, negative results in hand, and were in fact positive.

Now all those people are having to quarantine for the next 2 weeks/until testing negative. Bummer.


Anyways... my condolences. Being single and wanting to mingle rn has to be really tough. Like sure, you were gonna risk your life for that stranger danger tinder dick... but now the stakes are even higher in these pandemic times.
Do you and the Gemini live together?
Posted by SnowBunny726
Posted by DMV

My apparent asexual activity wasn’t the result of covid


It was the result of being bored with sex in general


Needing a new way to spend my time


Looking for more of what life has to offer


Have you ever tried getting it in the back door though
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You must not know bout me
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by LadyNeptune

Unless you can get the test which gives you results in a few hours... its not 100%

Let me explain what I mean.

I was invited to a nye house party where everyone was required to show a negative test to gain entrance. Only about 12-15 people showed I think. But obviously not social distancing.

I briefly thought of going but ended up going camping for the weekend.

Anyways someone tested positive AFTER the party. Which means that they most likely picked up the virus after being tested prior, during that 24hr-48hr period waiting for the results. They show up thinking they were negative, negative results in hand, and were in fact positive.

Now all those people are having to quarantine for the next 2 weeks/until testing negative. Bummer.


Anyways... my condolences. Being single and wanting to mingle rn has to be really tough. Like sure, you were gonna risk your life for that stranger danger tinder dick... but now the stakes are even higher in these pandemic times.


Do you and the Gemini live together?
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You've already asked me this. Consult your notes.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by LadyNeptune

Unless you can get the test which gives you results in a few hours... its not 100%

Let me explain what I mean.

I was invited to a nye house party where everyone was required to show a negative test to gain entrance. Only about 12-15 people showed I think. But obviously not social distancing.

I briefly thought of going but ended up going camping for the weekend.

Anyways someone tested positive AFTER the party. Which means that they most likely picked up the virus after being tested prior, during that 24hr-48hr period waiting for the results. They show up thinking they were negative, negative results in hand, and were in fact positive.

Now all those people are having to quarantine for the next 2 weeks/until testing negative. Bummer.


Anyways... my condolences. Being single and wanting to mingle rn has to be really tough. Like sure, you were gonna risk your life for that stranger danger tinder dick... but now the stakes are even higher in these pandemic times.


Do you and the Gemini live together?


You've already asked me this. Consult your notes.
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Forgot.


Why are you putting people at risk by meeting up with the Gemini for dick?
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by LadyNeptune

Unless you can get the test which gives you results in a few hours... its not 100%

Let me explain what I mean.

I was invited to a nye house party where everyone was required to show a negative test to gain entrance. Only about 12-15 people showed I think. But obviously not social distancing.

I briefly thought of going but ended up going camping for the weekend.

Anyways someone tested positive AFTER the party. Which means that they most likely picked up the virus after being tested prior, during that 24hr-48hr period waiting for the results. They show up thinking they were negative, negative results in hand, and were in fact positive.

Now all those people are having to quarantine for the next 2 weeks/until testing negative. Bummer.


Anyways... my condolences. Being single and wanting to mingle rn has to be really tough. Like sure, you were gonna risk your life for that stranger danger tinder dick... but now the stakes are even higher in these pandemic times.


Do you and the Gemini live together?


You've already asked me this. Consult your notes.


Forgot.


Why are you putting people at risk by meeting up with the Gemini for dick?
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Ok fake outrage
Posted by GenXgem

If I’m ever single again, I think it would be awesome to date during a pandemic! Geminis love different things and my Leo planets would love a challenge like that.


I could use Covid-21 excuse as a leverage to say no to sex and especially oral sex which I don’t care for anyway 😀😎
Aren’t you single now Gem?


I’m deffo on the wagon...not worth the fallout
Watch Dating App Horror: The Untold Stories if you'd like to scare the shit out of yourself. On hulu.
Its good for the asexuals right now LOL But for people with loads of fire in their chart like who are single its hell.


Unless they are on antidepressant or birth control then its not a thing I guess.


Im getting some interest from women, but I want to wait till I get vaccinated before I start to attempt even dating.


It sucks though being reduced to masturbation as the only option makes me feel like Im in high school again.


I hope once I get vaccinated I meet a girl who is not uptight about hooking up and just wants to get laid like me. Provided we still test negative though.


For people right now who have f-buddies but are complaining about wanting something more from them, you suck. Most of us would be fine with a steady fb at this point. I dont wanna hear it. Getting laid is better than not getting laid at all



Posted by DMV
Posted by SnowBunny726
Posted by DMV

My apparent asexual activity wasn’t the result of covid


It was the result of being bored with sex in general


Needing a new way to spend my time


Looking for more of what life has to offer


Have you ever tried getting it in the back door though


You must not know bout me
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Yerrrrrrrrrrr
Very limited dating. Have to be careful who you are around. Think it’s going to be on hold at this point. It’s just not worth it. Also, I do not need sex unless I’m in a relationship.


Posted by GODZ

Oh wait I have to say thx u to all the ppl who wished me happy birthday
I missed it. But happy birthday!
Posted by LadyNeptune

Watch Dating App Horror: The Untold Stories if you'd like to scare the shit out of yourself. On hulu.


Highly interesting
I am not even leaving the house for any reasons other than cigarettes, the weed store, and getting my chinchilla his fucking food/hay/toys.


Everything else I get delivered.


I s'pose I am lucky for my location allowing this, but dating? I have left that way behind. Any kind of intimacy I miss is from my family, not wanting to fuck. Jesus Christ. I am so glad my sex drive is dead and only relies on being interested in someone in particular in order to be active, or I would be so sexually frustrated, it isn't funny.
Congratulations, not only are you being scammed in the biggest heist in human memory, but you get to not have sex for a year too.


Don't forget your (((vaccine))) certificate if you want to have sex


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I didn't stop having sex when this started, but I wasn't meeting anyone new for it. Now I'm starting to go through another phase when sex does not interest me so we will see how my partner handles that. So far he's good but I can tell he is getting fustraighted. It's been like over a month since we had sex.
I ain't afraid of no fuckin covid
Posted by hydorah

Congratulations, not only are you being scammed in the biggest heist in human memory, but you get to not have sex for a year too.


Don't forget your (((vaccine))) certificate if you want to have sex


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lol yea joe biden just got caught on a hot mic in the White House briefing room saying it's just the flu 😂
Can't Stop, Won't Stop


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Wow. It's really nice to see how serious people are taking this pandemic. Right on
Posted by GODZ

My fuccboi years starting right now and nobody will stop me
Lmfaoo


Does this mean the birth rates will be down?
Posted by slowdive80

With these new covid strands Ive thrown up my hands on dating. Yeah we can do zoom but if it gets to the point where things are going well, scheduling covid testing for both on the same day can be tricky just to spend time together in person with no masks.


Yeah there is the vaccine about to be distributed but with this new strand they will go back and make another one and that will take who knows how long.


Ive pretty written dating off this year until 2022. Then I'll reevaluate. Anyone else that is single of the same thinking about this?
No.

I'm suffering a very bad depression and also panic attacks since this covid!

I have been through a painful divorce for 3yrs.it only finalised a year ago. My husband bought me out of our family home. I moved by June last year.


I hate being a single mum! I never wanted this!

Those of you who know my story from 4yrs ago with a Pisces guy i fell deeply in love with , will know the pain that caused. Sadly.

I'm not going into that story again but all i will say that i never wanted to end up a single mum with depression and anxiety now. In therapy twice a month and only seeing my child 50% of the time as we have shared care.


I was hoping to be in a rship with Pisces guy a long time ago and when i asked him last week "what do you want from me? What have you ever wanted from me?"

He replied..

"I wanted a future with you."

It ripped my heart to pieces to hear that!

So why isn't he with me?

I gave him openings,where we could start our life but he made excuses.

But when I started ignoring him he would Chase me!?

Now he is still with his partner years after we met and wondering why we are not together.


Yet I am now alone. Without my husband or life I used to have.

And its all gone wrong!


I couldn't fix my marriage because my husband's control had escalated into threats!


So now in Lockdown I feel very isolated and depressed to the point that I sleep to waste the hours away.


I wish I had someone to love!

I've been alone 3 1/2 yrs since my husband moved out.


Lockdown is the worst!


I have seen the pisces guy a little when lockdowns opened and he says I'm in love with you etc.

But now he is still with his partner etc while I have lost everything!

So no..I open my arms WIDE to meeting someone to love.


F**k Off Covid!

Posted by pooface222
Posted by slowdive80

With these new covid strands Ive thrown up my hands on dating. Yeah we can do zoom but if it gets to the point where things are going well, scheduling covid testing for both on the same day can be tricky just to spend time together in person with no masks.


Yeah there is the vaccine about to be distributed but with this new strand they will go back and make another one and that will take who knows how long.


Ive pretty written dating off this year until 2022. Then I'll reevaluate. Anyone else that is single of the same thinking about this?


No.

I'm suffering a very bad depression and also panic attacks since this covid!

I have been through a painful divorce for 3yrs.it only finalised a year ago. My husband bought me out of our family home. I moved by June last year.


I hate being a single mum! I never wanted this!

Those of you who know my story from 4yrs ago with a Pisces guy i fell deeply in love with , will know the pain that caused. Sadly.

I'm not going into that story again but all i will say that i never wanted to end up a single mum with depression and anxiety now. In therapy twice a month and only seeing my child 50% of the time as we have shared care.


I was hoping to be in a rship with Pisces guy a long time ago and when i asked him last week "what do you want from me? What have you ever wanted from me?"

He replied..

"I wanted a future with you."

It ripped my heart to pieces to hear that!

So why isn't he with me?

I gave him openings,where we could start our life but he made excuses.

But when I started ignoring him he would Chase me!?

Now he is still with his partner years after we met and wondering why we are not together.


Yet I am now alone. Without my husband or life I used to have.

And its all gone wrong!


I couldn't fix my marriage because my husband's control had escalated into threats!


So now in Lockdown I feel very isolated and depressed to the point that I sleep to waste the hours away.


I wish I had someone to love!

I've been alone 3 1/2 yrs since my husband moved out.


Lockdown is the worst!


I have seen the pisces guy a little when lockdowns opened and he says I'm in love with you etc.

But now he is still with his partner etc while I have lost everything!

So no..I open my arms WIDE to meeting someone to love.


F**k Off Covid!
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You need to learn to be comfortable in your own skin, and to love yourself above everyone else, because your self is the only one you truly have.


If you don't love yourself, how do you expect others to love you?


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Posted by CreamyPV

Yeah looks like sex isn't happening until 2022. So I guess I'll just focus on my glow up so I can be ready.
Whatcha been doing to glow up?
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Posted by hydorah

Congratulations, not only are you being scammed in the biggest heist in human memory, but you get to not have sex for a year too.


Don't forget your (((vaccine))) certificate if you want to have sex


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lol yea joe biden just got caught on a hot mic in the White House briefing room saying it's just the flu 😂
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That’s classic 😂
you guys know this will keep going until the 2030s right?
Posted by hydorah

you guys know this will keep going until the 2030s right?

You're joking, right?

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