Women supposedly love a Selfish Alpha
This topic was created in the Most Selfish Zodiac forum by heartlocket on Saturday, September 20, 2014 and has 12 replies.
Possibly one of the worst articles I have ever come across. It suggests that women are naturally like chameleons, that they will change for their men, and they were put on this Earth to please selfish men.
But there is truth to some of it. Selfish men have a way of getting into women's skulls.
Hell, that doesn't mean I would stick around. I think women will try and try to change their selfishness and please them. That is what keeps them around. Then when she never gets anything in return, realizes she deserves better and will leave the selfish man's ass.
http://boldanddetermined.com/2011/11/18/the-only-piece-of-advice-you-will-ever-need-to-pick-up-and-attract-women-and-keep-them-vying-for-your-love-attention-and-affection/
Thoughts??
But there is truth to some of it. Selfish men have a way of getting into women's skulls.
Hell, that doesn't mean I would stick around. I think women will try and try to change their selfishness and please them. That is what keeps them around. Then when she never gets anything in return, realizes she deserves better and will leave the selfish man's ass.
http://boldanddetermined.com/2011/11/18/the-only-piece-of-advice-you-will-ever-need-to-pick-up-and-attract-women-and-keep-them-vying-for-your-love-attention-and-affection/
Thoughts??
+1 Lupus
But it works! Attraction makes no sense and therefore a lot of women even the Alpha type females can become alpha male/pick up artist/player prey.
Once a man can learn and become experts of the psychological make up of a woman's natural instincts to respond and react to certain behaviors including what motivates her to invest herself emotionally he got her, he can pretty much drag her ass or love her whichever one he chooses to do.
He can be the shittiest assclown type of guy but if he can trigger all the right mental emotional triggers she will stay with him until it runs it course or she leaves.
But it works! Attraction makes no sense and therefore a lot of women even the Alpha type females can become alpha male/pick up artist/player prey.
Once a man can learn and become experts of the psychological make up of a woman's natural instincts to respond and react to certain behaviors including what motivates her to invest herself emotionally he got her, he can pretty much drag her ass or love her whichever one he chooses to do.
He can be the shittiest assclown type of guy but if he can trigger all the right mental emotional triggers she will stay with him until it runs it course or she leaves.
Posted by tiki33
+1 Lupus
But it works! Attraction makes no sense and therefore a lot of women even the Alpha type females can become alpha male/pick up artist/player prey.
Once a man can learn and become experts of the psychological make up of a woman's natural instincts to respond and react to certain behaviors including what motivates her to invest herself emotionally he got her, he can pretty much drag her ass or love her whichever one he chooses to do.
He can be the shittiest assclown type of guy but if he can trigger all the right mental emotional triggers she will stay with him until it runs it course or she leaves.
Agree, so that's why you have to stay UNPREDICTABLE..never let them get comfortable with you..be like a chameleon..change with the wind...lol..just because
Posted by heartlocket
Possibly one of the worst articles I have ever come across. It suggests that women are naturally like chameleons, that they will change for their men, and they were put on this Earth to please selfish men.
But there is truth to some of it. Selfish men have a way of getting into women's skulls.
Hell, that doesn't mean I would stick around. I think women will try and try to change their selfishness and please them. That is what keeps them around. Then when she never gets anything in return, realizes she deserves better and will leave the selfish man's ass.
http://boldanddetermined.com/2011/11/18/the-only-piece-of-advice-you-will-ever-need-to-pick-up-and-attract-women-and-keep-them-vying-for-your-love-attention-and-affection/
Thoughts??
"Political incorrectness does not make something false."
It doesn't, that's true.
And you're right-- he does make some good points, in spite of himself.
But the eensiest bit of research tells us that this fucker's on steroids.
Soo... his pecker will be falling off sometime in the next few years, anyway, if he keeps at it.
*snicker*
Good post.
This is very true, attraction is a choice.
However, I think it goes more like this:
The selfish man treats the woman like a princess so he can capture her heart. Then, after a while, starts to manipulate her feelings and make her believe that she needs him. He then shows his true colors, acts selfishly and uses her, and she then feels stuck trying to please him to get him to praise her again, that she is his. This is my take on it, and how I have seen many selfish men in reality.
Fortunately I have witnessed one woman get away from a selfish man, he used her in every way possible, she was stuck with him for over twenty years.
However, I think it goes more like this:
The selfish man treats the woman like a princess so he can capture her heart. Then, after a while, starts to manipulate her feelings and make her believe that she needs him. He then shows his true colors, acts selfishly and uses her, and she then feels stuck trying to please him to get him to praise her again, that she is his. This is my take on it, and how I have seen many selfish men in reality.
Fortunately I have witnessed one woman get away from a selfish man, he used her in every way possible, she was stuck with him for over twenty years.
I'm pretty sure it's because the woman body is easily more aesthetically pleasing to look at and thus the demand for it's nakedness. Besides it should also be attributed to the effect of centuries of marketing. However this does not discredit the claim that men (some) objectify the woman body as a result. That is a negative byproduct of this marketing.
Besides how many women will openly admit to wanting to see a certain celeb's junk on screen? If less admit to it, of course the demand will not be enough for the industry to warrant said celeb should have a nude scene.
Besides how many women will openly admit to wanting to see a certain celeb's junk on screen? If less admit to it, of course the demand will not be enough for the industry to warrant said celeb should have a nude scene.
Lool montgomery, agreed one hundred percent!
Gah.... grammatical error.
I meant to put that attraction is NOT a choice...
It is an unconscious thing that we cannot control. And yes, after that, we make out choices of what to do about that attraction.... pursue or not to pursue, confront or leave it alone.
I meant to put that attraction is NOT a choice...
It is an unconscious thing that we cannot control. And yes, after that, we make out choices of what to do about that attraction.... pursue or not to pursue, confront or leave it alone.
Posted by heartlocket
... Selfish men ... women will try and try to change their selfishness and please them. That is what keeps them around. Then when she never gets anything in return, realizes she deserves better and will leave the selfish man's ass ...
Thoughts??
In average, how many times does a woman fall into such trap and stay there?
I bet it is once in a life time for most women. And 1-3 times for the victim types who get addicted until they mutate to perp themselves.
of course .....
... because women never pretend to be anything other than themselves, and NEVER use manipulations to trap a man ... and if women did do this, she would never be considered selfish for it.
women never do that ... they are always on the up and up with pure intentions
Posted by seraph
Attraction is not a choice.
Whether it happens to be healthy in someone's particular case, however, is a different matter entirely.
'
so true. It's not a choice.The poor bastards who only get unrequited. that's what they get for not getting the message.
as per the topic, i just thought of something: if a man is selfish,then he selfishly only wants you to be his. If his selfishness is "limited" then, it's a good thing.If it's extended outward to everyone, then you get a slut, who loves everyone generously and can't love one person. Most women want a man who focuses on one-on-one.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by seraph
Attraction is not a choice.
Whether it happens to be healthy in someone's particular case, however, is a different matter entirely.
'
so true. It's not a choice.The poor bastards who only get unrequited. that's what they get for not getting the message.
as per the topic, i just thought of something: if a man is selfish,then he selfishly only wants you to be his. If his selfishness is "limited" then, it's a good thing.If it's extended outward to everyone, then you get a slut, who loves everyone generously and can't love one person. Most women want a man who focuses on one-on-one.click to expand
Not exactly sure what you mean, here.
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