Worst Timing Ever..
This topic was created in the Relationships forum by slowdive80 on Monday, July 16, 2018 and has 2 replies.
This is part 2 of my exploitation situation with a my pisces ex-friend/roommate. A quick recap, pisces roomie met this older divorcee through his bible study group. They hit it off and things got serious real quick. Catch is she doesnt know I live there as my roommate is embarassed by living with 2 guys. So she doesnt know I live there and thinks it is only one guy there besides my roomie.
As a result I have to stay out late till 10pm at night even on work days as I never know what my roomies schedule is. His mind cant be changed on at least partially telling the truth basically saying i am moving and staying with him till octobor to save money as he has stated "that would look too weird"
Even though I am moving in october. So I've put my head down and gone along with this farce but at the same avoiding him like the plague. As I am very angry with him and cant fake being cool with him for more than a hour.
This tactic has worked well up till recently. He usally stays the night every night of the week with her. But now stayed home last night as he felt a break was needed. Even though he stated the intention to move in with her and get a apartment or house in both their names.
I am getting a bad feeling especially with merc in retrograde coming up soon that things are about to cool off between them. Which sucks as he will expect me to want to hang out. Even though he disappeared and has been stage five clinger with her. Which didnt bother me till made up the lie which is affecting me right now.
If they break up or go on a break and he wants to hang out with me should I communicate that I am not happy and he was out of line for exploiting me like that.
Or leave it alone and scam making up excuses that I am busy getting ready to leave in october? I originally plan to communicate my grievances with him by leaving a note with him when I leave. And also putting in the note that if he wants this friendship to continue he needs to acknowledge that what he did was wrong, other I dont wish to talk with him anymore.
What do you think is the best course of action here?
As a result I have to stay out late till 10pm at night even on work days as I never know what my roomies schedule is. His mind cant be changed on at least partially telling the truth basically saying i am moving and staying with him till octobor to save money as he has stated "that would look too weird"
Even though I am moving in october. So I've put my head down and gone along with this farce but at the same avoiding him like the plague. As I am very angry with him and cant fake being cool with him for more than a hour.
This tactic has worked well up till recently. He usally stays the night every night of the week with her. But now stayed home last night as he felt a break was needed. Even though he stated the intention to move in with her and get a apartment or house in both their names.
I am getting a bad feeling especially with merc in retrograde coming up soon that things are about to cool off between them. Which sucks as he will expect me to want to hang out. Even though he disappeared and has been stage five clinger with her. Which didnt bother me till made up the lie which is affecting me right now.
If they break up or go on a break and he wants to hang out with me should I communicate that I am not happy and he was out of line for exploiting me like that.
Or leave it alone and scam making up excuses that I am busy getting ready to leave in october? I originally plan to communicate my grievances with him by leaving a note with him when I leave. And also putting in the note that if he wants this friendship to continue he needs to acknowledge that what he did was wrong, other I dont wish to talk with him anymore.
What do you think is the best course of action here?
I was honestly thinking of avoiding him still. As he is volatile and temperamental on this subject. As he feels he is doing me and the roommate a favor. Stating he doesnt have to be there. Even though he would never live under someone with out his name on it as well.
He has me in a vulnerable position as my name isnt on the lease even though I help pay for the deposit. Reason is I am currently not is that it would cost more for the deposit.
I'm dreading to see their relationship slow down. I dont care if it does just not when I am trying to get out. It serves him right for lying to her like that if it does though.
He has me in a vulnerable position as my name isnt on the lease even though I help pay for the deposit. Reason is I am currently not is that it would cost more for the deposit.
I'm dreading to see their relationship slow down. I dont care if it does just not when I am trying to get out. It serves him right for lying to her like that if it does though.
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