BCJ
@BCJ
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Advice please - confused by a sag guy!!!
Hes doesnt want a relationship, but he will still be friendly and wanna bang every so often. Fwb
If thats not what u want, move on.
If thats not what u want, move on.
Is he just not ready for a relationship or is it me he doesn't want a relationship with?
Says he doesn't even want just sex n fun right now either, n that ain't wot I want either!
Do u think he will be ready for a relationship n come back soon if I move on n give him his space?
The confusing thing is him seemingly showing me he likes me when I see him, then ignoring me inbetween!
Plus him getting jealous n not telling me to move on from him!
He's clearly been hurt so badly in the past n doesn't want it to happen again - everyone keeps telling me that he just needs time to get his head together n that he will be back or else he would have told me he doesn't see anything with me!!!
Says he doesn't even want just sex n fun right now either, n that ain't wot I want either!
Do u think he will be ready for a relationship n come back soon if I move on n give him his space?
The confusing thing is him seemingly showing me he likes me when I see him, then ignoring me inbetween!
Plus him getting jealous n not telling me to move on from him!
He's clearly been hurt so badly in the past n doesn't want it to happen again - everyone keeps telling me that he just needs time to get his head together n that he will be back or else he would have told me he doesn't see anything with me!!!
he doesnt want a relationship but will be nice to you and friendly. he will still want to be friends, ask questions, and occasionally get some.
dont worry bout the details. stop thinking so much about it.
sometimes i think people expect exes to all be jerks and douchebags. saggis just want to be cool.
dont worry bout the details. stop thinking so much about it.
sometimes i think people expect exes to all be jerks and douchebags. saggis just want to be cool.
It's just doing my head in!!!
Do u think it sounds like he wants me to wait and will want a relationship down the line with me when he feels ready or not?
Surely if he didnt want something with me eventually he would just tell me, especially when I told him I would wait around for a bit n told him not to string me along!
Do u think it sounds like he wants me to wait and will want a relationship down the line with me when he feels ready or not?
Surely if he didnt want something with me eventually he would just tell me, especially when I told him I would wait around for a bit n told him not to string me along!
Everything started off amazing until he turned around and said that he really liked me, he thought he was ready for a relationship, but he isnt. he says his guards went up to protect himself, so he doesn't feel mentally and emotionally ready. He told me he was sorry, that even though he likes me he wasnt ready for anything at all and could only offer me friendship right now.
this is what you need to focus on. he DID tell you but your refusing to believe him.
dont wait, get on with your life....cause he is.
hes not stringing you along, your doing that to yourself.
onces hes told you that he doesnt want a relationship, hes excused himself from all responsibility to your feelings. he has freed himself from any potential blame from you. so dont go being mad at him months down the line when he told you straight up what the dealio was.
this is what you need to focus on. he DID tell you but your refusing to believe him.
dont wait, get on with your life....cause he is.
hes not stringing you along, your doing that to yourself.
onces hes told you that he doesnt want a relationship, hes excused himself from all responsibility to your feelings. he has freed himself from any potential blame from you. so dont go being mad at him months down the line when he told you straight up what the dealio was.
your talking yourself in circles and im keep repeating myself.
I think saggis should start being mean to people and stop wanting to be friends with them. people cant handle it.
I'm mean. Sometimes the meaner I am, the harder they cling.
I'm sure he likes you. If you asking if he likes you yes he does you can see that.
Will he be you're boyfriend. Sounds like no.
Will he be you're boyfriend. Sounds like no.
Coming from a Sag male, when I say I want to be friends, its just that friends...no benefits. Sometimes not even friends. It's why I stay platonic until I'm ready or we both are.
He told you straight up how he feels. He knows you want a commitment and he's not going to hold you up. It's something we don't get credit for...being honorable. He may be tempted to sleep with you every once in a while...we do have needs. But he knows he's not able to give what you're asking for. This doesn't mean you need to chase him like other guys would do. We don't play games like that. Be his friend but move on. In time he may be willing and you may be willing and available...let fate decide.
He told you straight up how he feels. He knows you want a commitment and he's not going to hold you up. It's something we don't get credit for...being honorable. He may be tempted to sleep with you every once in a while...we do have needs. But he knows he's not able to give what you're asking for. This doesn't mean you need to chase him like other guys would do. We don't play games like that. Be his friend but move on. In time he may be willing and you may be willing and available...let fate decide.
His attention is probably occupied somewhere else. He might be busy or seeing someone else who just (at the moment) grabs his attention. That could very well possibly be the ex. Be patient and don't take it personally. He needs to get his mind cleared. He will always think of you as a possibility or option. If you want to you can wait, if you don't want to you don't have to. He will probably understand if you come together later on 🙂
If he wanted to b with u, he would b with u, don't waste minutes of ur life trying to figure other people out, move on n find some1 who gives u what u want n need, life is to short to dwell on one guy, that never was! If he for some reason changes his mind, u will b the first to know!
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Everything started off amazing until he turned around and said that he really liked me, he thought he was ready for a relationship, but he isnt. he says his guards went up to protect himself, so he doesn't feel mentally and emotionally ready. He told me he was sorry, that even though he likes me he wasnt ready for anything at all and could only offer me friendship right now.
Over the past 2 months he has stopped calling and textin me, but does briefly reply most of the time if I text to say hi. I don't see him very often, and when I do it's only for a few minutes, as he works in a toll booth. When I do see him he seems to stare at me, smile, laugh, seems interested, tells me stuff, asks me questions, seems to want to keep me talking that extra few seconds even though he has a queue. Plus he seemed to come over all jealous when I asked him another guys name (looked at me like shite and rudely said he didn't know, but then acted all nice and smiley when I changed the subject and smiled at him).
I'm confused - know our birth charts are very compatible, but the timings wrong for him clearly.
Do you guys think he really isn't ready—
Does he like me and want to keep me interested n around for a relationship in the future when he's ready or is he just messing me around?
Do you think he's just trying to give himself time to try and be ready as he wants things to work and just doesn't wanna get hurt yet again—
We haven't slept together since his confession, and I'm trying to give him space and time to sort his head out.
He knows I like him, and he knows that I would be willing to wait a few months for him if he sees a future with me, but he hasn't told me whether or not he sees a future with me or not!!!
Know sags are supposed to be blunt n imagine if he didnt like me or see a future with me he would just tell me and wouldn't really entertain me when he sees me.