Any Experience with Aries male out there—?

I keep hearing from Aries?..on and off all summer. Well he has been sending me texts every now and then. So after the hurricane he asks how I'm doing.

I replied to him only to get a call from him the next day. We talked for a few and I guess he wanted to see me but I had company coming over because they have no power after the hurricane.

I told him to call me the next day to see if he wanted to come over. The next day I sent him a text asking if we were going to get together that day or what. I think he was working and he didn't respond. So I get a call from him, while my roommate and I were out to dinner. He was asking if I would like to come to his place and watch a movie (we have watched movies every time we get together). Well come to find out he still didn't have power at his place. I told him that I wanted to go visit my brother first that lives close to him and then go to his place after. (I figured if I am going to drive that way I might as well see how my brother and his family are doing). He said to take my time because the pwr wasn't restored yet.

Finally I get to his place he gives me a kiss on the lips and we sit outside and talk/catch up. I hadn't really seen him since mid july.
Yada yada yada?..we did the hokey pokey and we turned ourselves around!!!! LOL

So I decided to say/ask??..?you have a girlfriend don't you?? he was taken a back and just told me the whole truth or the truth according to him?.who knows.

That he had a gf but they were ending things around the time we met and hooked up the first time (back in June). That was the beginning of the end for them and then they decided to give it another shot??but they were off and on all summer. Hence the spottiness he displayed with me. (I have to admit the honesty was quiet refreshing)
He was telling me that he was really into her and he thought they could be the real thing for life. And he wanted to know why I suspected he had a girlfriend. I told him I just had a feeling and I went with my gut, and that he treated me like i was and option not a priority. He was so easy about the whole thing (so was I) and he was I guess happy that I didn't act all shady about it??.i could completely understand him without judging (I have been in the almost exact situation at the same time). It was all so WEIRD!!!!!
We then went on do discuss his feelings about how girls tend to get clingy with him and he was impressed on how independent I was. I think we bonded

The only thing I am afraid of is??..I don't want to have feelings for him. I like him. And he never BSed me or promised anything. I don't know what he wants or if it is just to have someone (lonely and brokenhearted??). For me I am physically and mentally attracted to him but I have no feelings for him. And one other thing does he want to see me more— I never took this seriously or wanted too. Never had a casual thing but I know all things change which ever the direction, it won't stay like this for long.

PS i also posted this on the aries board.

awwwwww, so cute
makes my heart beat little faster for you...
why wouldnt you want to have feelings for him? he sounds cool to me,
just go with it, you wont be sorry, i wish i could find me a good saggi girl agian, i probably wont rest till i do.....

CAA: Well, I don't want to have feelings because I don't want to get hurt. If I start to care, who is to say he doesn't end up back with the ex, and I am left out in the cold. I don't think I can handle that kind of hurt anymore (I think I'm suffering from low self-esteem right now)—I didn't even think that I liked him all that much to begin with. Then I started to like him even though we only spent a few moments together. It's hardly enough to get to know someone. After he disappeared from me, I deleted his number. That way I wasn't temped to call or text, and I could just move on. I figured he was just playing the field and he had other prospects. I was getting over my previous heart break myself.

I would really like to actually date an Aries!!! They seem so fun and full of life. I've never really had an Aries male interested in me either. I c a n just go with the flow....and see what happens next.

Oh and you shouldn't rest till you do find your saggi......she will keep you happy.

Ram: I never made myself too available to him?..in fact I wouldn't really answer all his texts. And every time he called its like I was supposed to come running?.but I was always just living my own life doing my thing. Maybe it worked because he is calling and texting me again or maybe not.

ram is right but if you do cancel make sure its not in the way that he would think that you are blowing him off

as far as him going back to his ex, damn im surprised that he even went back the first time
us aries dont like to double dip if you know what I mean, i have flat out refused sexual favors from ex even when they were insisting that all they want is just sex, done is done. why would i want to have sex with someone that i no longer find interesting or exciting ...

sag tree, dont worry about getting hurt, just play little hard ( not to hard ) to get and this guy will be so into you he will loose sight of any other out there, if i know anything about sag women and aries man and I DO is that this has got to be one of the best matches in the whole zodiac zoo , i ve been down that road and trust me this is the only time when i was dump lol
everytime I am even next to a saggi girl I can feel this intense attraction and sexual tension in the air, often i have to be an ass just to create some imaginary wall betwenn us cause often this saggi girls are gf or wifes of guys i know, and that would be wrong but they better never double cross me or they will loose their gf hahaha,

and you say you are hurt...but honestly...how bad hurt are you? i thought you sags get over a break up 5 minutes before the actual break up lol

throw caution into the wind and go for a spin with an aries, it will feel so wright , im sure of that

i really do think i need another sag, im with aqua now but she just cant handle my fire and can keep up , i was with aries she was to masculine and not feminine enough, leo to bossy and lazy and pompous and sagg....well no complains really
so there....

Yes sir! I'm right on it?.

On top of it?
In reverse?.
On my head?.
Allllll over it—😉

The only thing though is i can't cancel.....it's decieving. Plus I'm going to get myself going and want to do it. It's like a drug.

hey sagetree,glad to know you made it thru ike,im in houston...are your lights on...if you live in houston...finally got mine back friday what a relief..okay back to subject....i dated a aries male for 3 yrs..had a child,,but not together anymore...he was good to me,,best relationship i had to date..that probably why im screwed up now....okay im better now..have attachment because of son...very outgoing,fun to be with,and very serious about their women when they love u..the problem with us was when i had my son i slowed down dramatically and i think it was too much for him..i dont think he ever cheated..but who knows if he did i never knew..the one thing i will say if he wants to be with you he will definitely tell u,,as they dont like to share and like to be the center of their mates attention...i use to have a sag friend she was also outgoing and fun to be with..so comparing the two personalities you will make an excellent match..never read match as far as astrology,,i think you can keep him interested,,you will keep his heart

I'm glad to hear you have your pwr back on. I got mine on last Tuesday. I know quite a few ppl that still dont have their pwr.

I believe you.....Aries doesn't seem to be dishonest about his intentions. I still have to say that he is "getting over" his ex so he may not be ready to get with someone so soon after. I just told him that I feel like we have a connection. At first I did not tell a sole that I was seeing him. I didn't want to be asked about him, if things didn't go any further then that, I wouldn't have to be faced with it. That was my logic. Well now I let the cat out of the bag. Here and with a close friend. he may not even call again.....who knows.
Kinda did want to get to know him more.

you know as far as him getting over his ex, it might take him a long time, it depends how deeply he was involved with her
its been 2 years for me and i still suffer at time due to my break up with the sag girl ( the only one i truly loved)and im still waiting, searching for something similar to what i had, anything less is doomed to fail in my book, i start sabotaging it right of way

you might be just what he needs, im serious, I am pushing you towards this guy cause deep inside im little jealous and wish i was with a saggi

but done be mad at me sagtree but you have little of my sympathy as far your break up and getting hurt, you got served your medicine and it was your own damn fault.....
actually it would make me feel better if i knew that similar thing happened to my sag ex....i know i know i dont wish a broken hear on anyone but i wish i wish i wish she felt at least one 10th of what i did
ok, im done ranting

but i still like you, and you a cutie, i would hit on you in a new york minute babe

No really, you're one class act Arianboi

It's always the ex-factor that gets in the way. Damn!

Just wish that a real man would date me already. The guys here don't know how to date; the only thing I see is hooking up for short term sex. It's kind of sad.

Class Act: Everything happens for a reason....its ok that you have no sympathy. I don't want anyone's sympathy, I'm pissed off. I did what I did and I paid for it. My ex was no angle either he did some really shady stuff to me in the begining. If you know what I mean.

Libra was just sweet talking me to get some where ?

I still want to see the good in them not the bad stuff they do.

Thanks for the compliment. I wish you did hit on me....to bad we are not in New York
🙂

Plus I don't think this Aries is that interested anyhow......he doesn't really call or contact me that often. Haven't heard from him in a week. Is that normal for them?

Haven't heard from him in a week. Is that normal for them?

yup plus it's a guy thing

Ram do you mean don't contact him and i get a better reaction than if i did?

I never do contact him....he always calls me or texts me. I work full-time and go to school full-time. So im always busy and always tired. I have so much homework this weekend!!!

How can I when I haven't heard from him? I will ask if and when the time is right.....

Your right though.....he will definitely tell me if I ask. I wouldn't want to waist my time thinking about him and talking about him in this way if he isn't really interested. Whichever the way it goes I would still like to keep him as a friend. I think that would be nice too.

i think you might be just to busy for him , everytime he would call you dont have time, so maybe he just turned down some of his flame on that tourch of his, but if you would add little fuel to it , take my word, it will burst in flames ( the good ones) again, so maybe reach out and contact him, dont ask him , TELL him you want to go for drinks or coffe and could he take you somewhere cool,

yeah too bad you in TX and im in sunny IL lol
but i do get to TX few times a year ahahaha, lock the doors hide your daughters ....or dont lol

How is your little adventure going—

I have been with Aries Man for 20 years. He was seeing someone when we met. We hung around people as a group so we got to see each other alittle. I liked him alot. I wasnt sure he was into me. He told me once that he wasnt interested in getting serious with anyone and that hurt my feelings. But I kept to myself. I immediately told him- oh I am not either, I do like being around you, and I like talking to you but that dont mean I want to marry you. He even stood me up one night and I remarked that -oh I hope you didnt come by because I went out with my GF's at about 9:30. Well, that was the beginning of LOVE. I would just give in enough to make him wonder I guess. To this day- he will tell you that he has always been inlove with me.

Now the difference is this- I show the true Sag in me. He is very grounded. I mean like- I will give to the man on the side of the road-because thats how I feel in my heart. Aries- will question the mans intentions. He will get mad when I am joking. Yikes!!

Now- LIBRA men- I must say- they intrigue me- but I have a hard time figuring out what the intentions are.

Sagittarian: "How is your little adventure going—"

Read the "Aries is a cheater!" on the Aries board.
it will be a month since i heard anything from him. he is really not that interested. No sweat tho. life goes on.

🙂

i didn't think he was cheating on his girl after he said the were off..... but i did find out they were together right after we went out then i don't hear from him. So i just let it go. i like Aries in general just this guy didn't work out. hope he gets exactly what is coming to him. I'm not all innocent but i did approach the situation with all honesty. just that he was on and off with someone so he i guess went back to her. i do believe he twisted things around to his benefit. but who really knows— Im not him and im not in his situation.

I'm not going to let this get me down, im independent enough and very happy with who i am.

I understood him for the most part, we clicked and had pretty good convo! that is where i started to like him. For me there always has to be a connection before i start to like a guy for real. looks are enticing but not everything.