Aqua in love

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by NikkiMse1978 on Wednesday, November 9, 2011 and has 29 replies.
I have seen time and time again, woman, including myself who are bewildered by Aqua men. How they lack emotions on the outside, are distant, walk away when pushed, need space, etc.
So how do they act when they really do love someone? And I mean LOVE!! HAHAHAHA
Details...please!
If your a Sag female with an Aqua man even better! smile Thanks!
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Posted by MzSagittarius
Never had a relationship with an Aquarian man. I have a few Aqau buddies, though. Their pretty cool. I like their ability to detach personal feelings from a situation. Its something everyone should learn to do.
As far as love, like I said, I've never been romantically involved with one. I have heard that they're great in bed, though.
Winking
Aquarians aren't very popular in this board. You commonly hear about Scorpio and Leo men.


MZSagittarius-Can you ask your Aqua men friends?!?! LOL.
I have been involved with Scorps and Leo's as well. I am semi/not/want to be with my Aqua. Make sense?
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like our fellow sag sister, ive never dated an aqua but ive had a few aqua buddies.
theyre just not my cup of tea. i find them to be too scattered and too detached. theyre funny, smart, intelligent, but just not right for me. shame 2, i hear such good things about them.
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is ur aqua atill with his lady friend?
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Posted by DMV
is ur aqua atill with his lady friend?


This is the first and only Aqua I have dealt with! LOL.
No, he is not with her. He told me he tried breaking up with her that first night I stopped by his house out of the blue. A few weeks later he told me he started realizing he had feelings for me still. *sigh* There is more but I don't need to get into details. smile
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good 4 you. i know thats what you wanted.
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Posted by DMV
good 4 you. i know thats what you wanted.


Good for me? It isn't so good. He started getting picky and said he couldn't do this, AGAIN. LOL> This is the 3rd time!!!
So now, I am really leaving him alone. Its been almost 2 weeks now, and I have not contacted him. I can't. To me, its a matter of principle now.
Any advice?
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I never got my aqua long enough to get to "I love you"

I actually found a video of us the other day. Reminded me how much I liked him. Idk
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Posted by Sag89
I never got my aqua long enough to get to "I love you"

I actually found a video of us the other day. Reminded me how much I liked him. Idk


Hey Saggi89! How you been? smile I got to "I love you"-but he took it away when he left me the first time. Then the second time-we go to I love you then, but then WHAM-gone in a flash! This time around he told me "I heart you." But took that back too! Sad
Don't be sad! Be happy! Love them in your heart and keep them there. Mine will always be there. smile
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Posted by NikkiMse1978
Posted by Sag89
I never got my aqua long enough to get to "I love you"

I actually found a video of us the other day. Reminded me how much I liked him. Idk


Hey Saggi89! How you been? smile I got to "I love you"-but he took it away when he left me the first time. Then the second time-we go to I love you then, but then WHAM-gone in a flash! This time around he told me "I heart you." But took that back too! Sad
Don't be sad! Be happy! Love them in your heart and keep them there. Mine will always be there. smile
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Haha life has been a little rough at the moment. My dad is sick so I've been dealing with that but okay. How are you? So this must be how things turned out with aqua?
Yea, man he was the only guy who never came back to me. But I loved that airy detachment about him. He was so chill but at the end was just a huge jerk.
I still dig aquas alot though, despite him.
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Posted by NikkiMse1978
Posted by Sag89
I never got my aqua long enough to get to "I love you"

I actually found a video of us the other day. Reminded me how much I liked him. Idk


Hey Saggi89! How you been? smile I got to "I love you"-but he took it away when he left me the first time. Then the second time-we go to I love you then, but then WHAM-gone in a flash! This time around he told me "I heart you." But took that back too! Sad
Don't be sad! Be happy! Love them in your heart and keep them there. Mine will always be there. smile


Haha life has been a little rough at the moment. My dad is sick so I've been dealing with that but okay. How are you? So this must be how things turned out with aqua?
Yea, man he was the only guy who never came back to me. But I loved that airy detachment about him. He was so chill but at the end was just a huge jerk.
I still dig aquas alot though, despite him.
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Do you like him? Or care/love him? I know the heavy hearted feeling. I feel it everyday.
AWWW I hope your dad is on the road to recovery? Is he alright? I will send a prayer your way smile
Besides dealing with the ex I am fine! smile Sad
Things are, things. LOL. We are not together, but we talk. On the phone and in text. It is quite refreshing actually. There is a mutual understanding of affection/ calm and just "being" that surrounds us. Im happy!
They mostly don't come back to you. All the actio is on my part so far. But I do know once he starts "feeling" again more intenstly he will initiate the contact. Its happend like that before. smile
I dig Aquas too, jerks and all! HAHAHA
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Here's what you posted before:
Posted by NikkiMse1978

My Aquarius ex and I grew up together. I was friends with his sister-we met in preschool. Our families live on the same street and have even attended family functions together-weddings, etc.
At one point I ran into my ex (we were not dating at that time) at the resturaunt where he worked. He gave me his phone number (I thought he was still with his GF at the time) and I never called him.
I guess it wasn't time for us.
Even though we didn't date at that time-I always felt a HEAT go through my whole body. From my head to my toes whenever he physically made contact with me. A hug, a brush of the shoulder.
Needless to say we did end up getting together but we both brought too much baggage into the relationship. (He had just bought a business, still had an ex lingering around. I had emotional baggage, low self esteem.)
And me not knowing how an Aquarius man is, when he broke up with me the first time, I went nuts!!
In the end I betrayed him big time.
I did, however, correct my mistake and even apologized to him, on many occasions.
We tried to get back together almost 9 months later, at least that is what I thought, till he started saying it wasn't going to work.
I left him at this point. I could not do this, AGAIN, and even though I left, I felt...like I was losing my soulmate.
We did not speak really for a year, and just recently, we spoke to eachother.
I went over to his house, we talked, and it was as if I was seeing him and he was seeing me in a new light. That night, we had sex.
I went again to his house and asked him for his phone number, to which he gave me.
We discussed at that conversation about having a bc thing going on type thing. We both agreed.
He sent me a text every day since he gave me his new number, to which I would reply or not, depending on what I was doing at that time.
This past Sunday I sent him a text asking if we were doing this bc thing or not? To text whenever one of us had the need?
He said, "I actually cannot do this. I thought I could but I can't. Take Care."
I sent, "Can I ask why?"
His reply (which damn near broke my HEART, yet again, "I think I am in love with someone, and its not you. I can't do that to her. I am sorry."


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Posted by NikkiMse1978
So the drama continues with the ex Aqua. He is not respecting my space and is texting me to talk. I am trying to speak to him and watch my tone and what I say, but I do not know how many times I can repeat the same thing to him!
He says he knew we had to talk, again, but its the same SHIT all the time. And what's funny is, if I bring it up, he gets huffy but its OK FOR HIM TO KEEP BRINGING IT UP!
And what's more, this man is confusing me royally! I am detaching but he keeps contacting me, but when I do speak to him he tells me he cannot marry me, he can never walk the aisle with me. He wants to see how him and his new gf work out. I have HAD ENOUGH!
Can someone out there please HELP! I am at my wits end.


the more I hear, the more he seriously seems like a douche bag.
You're gonna have to be straight up with him. Like bitch style .
Don't worry about sounding harsh.
One thing I appreciate about Aquas is how honest and straight forward they are.
Although I was deeply hurt by what happened between me and my Aqua friend...and wish it never happened....I do appreciate that he was man enough to say "I'm sorry, I changed my mind, I don't want to be with you."
As much as it annoyed me and confused me and didn't make any sense (contradicting) I accepted it.
I moved on from it, I never looked back. I didn't wait for him to change his mind again.
He was so direct and upfront about it...he made sure I was not given any "false hope." He made sure there was nothing left for interpretation...no "read between the lines." It just was what it was. Over.
I think you need to handle this the same way.
Tell him you are not interested in being second best, the other woman, etc. & that he is not to contact you anymore.


Posted by brianafay
The fact that he would even ask you to be that...says a lot about the level of respect he has for you.
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& your response after many others told you to leave it alone too
Posted by NikkiMse1978
For the record, I am not going to contact him. I have ALOT to say to him, but it will not do any good. What's been said, has already been said. OVER & OVER again. I am through talking.
I am just going to disappear like he does. He will not remember me, nor think about me, and I prefer it that way.


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Yet, here you are again... a couple months later ...still going through the same shit.

Are you gonna learn this time?
Or do you need someone to be really blunt with you
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If an Aqua really is in love and wants to be with you...he will be. That's it.
This dude doesn't love you. He plays with you and he has no respect for you.
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Posted by brianafay
Yet, here you are again... a couple months later ...still going through the same shit.

Are you gonna learn this time?
Or do you need someone to be really blunt with you


WHO are you to judge me? I am "feeling" other opinions out but ultimately I do what I feel is best, for me.
You need to read about Twin Flames/Soul connections and you will then UNDERSTAND what it is I am going through. Thank you!
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Posted by brianafay
If an Aqua really is in love and wants to be with you...he will be. That's it.
This dude doesn't love you. He plays with you and he has no respect for you.



Kinda like you have no respect for me either??

Sag fire is a blazin' so you know. smile
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Posted by NikkiMse1978
Posted by DMV
good 4 you. i know thats what you wanted.


Good for me? It isn't so good. He started getting picky and said he couldn't do this, AGAIN. LOL> This is the 3rd time!!!
So now, I am really leaving him alone. Its been almost 2 weeks now, and I have not contacted him. I can't. To me, its a matter of principle now.
Any advice?
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^^^^^^^^^^^ you asked, again, "any advice?"
I gave you some last time you posted, and gave you some again.
Get over yourself. Your little attitude should be directed at yourself, the only person to blame....not some random person on a forum who gave you advice AFTER YOU ASKED FOR IT
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& LOL why should I have respect for you? I don't know you....nor do I owe you anything.
I only know what you've come here and told us...and personally witnessed your contradictions and lack of self respect.
You asked, I delivered.

btw your story from the first time, to now, already changed a little.
Wondering what the true story is...............but nah, not really actually.
Just remember, when I gave you advice the first time, and now, I am speaking from the POV of someone who has been in a similar situation with an Aqua. You can get upset all day. It's the truth and eventually you will have to face it


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You're dumb.
First of all, I rarely ask for advice...and when I do...I listen, I don't get defensive and start attacking the people who were trying to help.

Secondly, No one was judging you...just pointing out the obvious. You said several times already you were "done" with it and you were going to cut off contact, since this is what you've been advised to do, and you know in your heart it's what you should do. But for some reason you cannot respect yourself enough to stick to it. For some reason, you can't see you deserve better and you're selling yourself short deluding yourself to believe this dude is really in love with you and is just scurred and confused or something. :/

Anyway, do you girl. It's whatever.
Get defensive on someone else. You asked for advice, ESPECIALLY from a Sag who has been involved with an Aqua (ME)
You got what you asked for, but you didn't hear what you wanted to hear.
You can go ahead and disregard what I said since you cannot handle it. I don't really care either way. smile I assure you
See you in a couple months

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God, do you people have no real friends...?
If I had a friend acting like you...I'd be smacking some serious reality into her thick skull.
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Yes, violence...I smack my friends out. That's what I meant literally.
You're really dumb seriously, Lol.

It's blowing my mind.

Also, save the victim mentality! I never disrespected you!! If you go back and read all I did was post your previous posts and my previous advice and stated it was still the same...and wondered if you were going to learn from your mistakes?
You took offense, not my problem...must mean you already know.
Go easy on yourself.
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HAVE FUN AND GOOD LUCK
I am done listening to this juvenile bullshit.

See you in a few, I'll remember you don't really want advice next time you ask for it!
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@Nikki
Why are you wasting your time with someone who doesn't know what they want? Sounds like he's not ready for a relationship.
Find someone who will respect you and give you the things you want from a guy, cus by the way you're presenting this he doesn't seem like the type of guy you really want to be with. Sounds like a jerk to me
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Btw I have been with an aqua before. I could share with you some details if you'd like
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Thanks nickki, I do too.
Yea with your aqua do whatever you feel. No one knows what can or will happen.
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Posted by happykitsune
@Nikki
Why are you wasting your time with someone who doesn't know what they want? Sounds like he's not ready for a relationship.
Find someone who will respect you and give you the things you want from a guy, cus by the way you're presenting this he doesn't seem like the type of guy you really want to be with. Sounds like a jerk to me


Hi Happy-
I am not wasting my time. It goes beyond that. Deeper, to a soul level. He is not ready for a relationship so that is why I am dating. I am not waiting for him.
He is not a jerk, he is a man, and an Aqua. Nuff said! LOL.
Seriously though he really is a sweet man, just not when he is afraid of himself (emotionally). That is the problem.
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Posted by happykitsune
Btw I have been with an aqua before. I could share with you some details if you'd like


Sure if you have stories to share-please tell me. You can message me to if you would like. smile
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