Aqua needs to communicate w/sagg

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by She Devil on Saturday, November 13, 2010 and has 3 replies.
We live long distant so we see each other when we can. I was goin thru a break up when I met him and he was my rebound love. He has always been very gentleman like towards me but now its time to stop being FWB. He told me it was his job to give me what I need yet he doesnt talk to me on a personal level and when I start my serious talk i can see him mentally ready to bail so I back off him. I did mention to him that i didnt like him running away from me in the the bed after sex which he said had nothing to do with me but now he adjust his pillows so he doesnt have to run anymore. He does try to fix the things I mention but I just cant tell if he's just reeeaaallly nice or if he likes me? And we are way past his infatuation stage we're cool and he tells me he keeps me around cuz I keep things interesting for him. Im patient but i dont hav time to waste and need an idea on how to have an adult conversation. Mind you aquariuses dont know how to talk about feelings either but atleast I know i want to and he just wants to blow in the wind!
When we are together he's real chilled and layed back usually watching tv the sports channel and says he's cool doing that with me, but i know his other side enjoys being out partying with his friends but when hes with me its chill time with no cuddle or intimate time til time to go to bed. I remember when he use to share things with me til i told him i crossed the line and started having feelings. I just want my friend back....
Yea I'm like that with my boyfriend. I kinda just sit around with him but like to be doing crazy fun stuff with my friends.

One of the struggles is trying to mix the two. I don't know why but for some reason it's hard.
Are you still with your Aqua.... and you were good with that? I know I know my aqua ask alot of questions, but I just dont want to over think things. This is my first sagg experience and he's already getting the best of me .....and I think I like it as I fight the temptation to just stop it all. smile Thanks Sagg 89

Both my grandparents were both Saggs. I never known them being together, but I heard the stories how they'd fight bad fights all the time. But I mainly remember my granddad just like my guy friend in a tranz in front of that t.v. I didnt think he cared if I was around until he was on his death bed and he accused me of not coming around more and having a better relationship with him. Go figure! But he was the coolest grandpa smile