We live long distant so we see each other when we can. I was goin thru a break up when I met him and he was my rebound love. He has always been very gentleman like towards me but now its time to stop being FWB. He told me it was his job to give me what I need yet he doesnt talk to me on a personal level and when I start my serious talk i can see him mentally ready to bail so I back off him. I did mention to him that i didnt like him running away from me in the the bed after sex which he said had nothing to do with me but now he adjust his pillows so he doesnt have to run anymore. He does try to fix the things I mention but I just cant tell if he's just reeeaaallly nice or if he likes me? And we are way past his infatuation stage we're cool and he tells me he keeps me around cuz I keep things interesting for him. Im patient but i dont hav time to waste and need an idea on how to have an adult conversation. Mind you aquariuses dont know how to talk about feelings either but atleast I know i want to and he just wants to blow in the wind!
When we are together he's real chilled and layed back usually watching tv the sports channel and says he's cool doing that with me, but i know his other side enjoys being out partying with his friends but when hes with me its chill time with no cuddle or intimate time til time to go to bed. I remember when he use to share things with me til i told him i crossed the line and started having feelings. I just want my friend back....
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Sep 18, 2008Comments: 1 · Posts: 4899 · Topics: 99
Yea I'm like that with my boyfriend. I kinda just sit around with him but like to be doing crazy fun stuff with my friends.
One of the struggles is trying to mix the two. I don't know why but for some reason it's hard.