Aquarius Female & Sagitarrius Man!

Ok so im an Aquarius bday Jan. 31 & Im dating a Sag his bday December 11. My question is do most Sags move fast?? We talk everyday all day...he seems to be very consistent. Our first convo was March 1 which lasted allll night. After that we became attached...its now april and he is talking about getting married and me having his child...im shocked! I thought sag guys were players! What is going on with this guy he has changed my life in so many ways in 1 month but i cant help but be cautious and nervous! Any advice ??

He's already talking babies, he probably senses some vulnerability in you and is appealing to your mothering instinct to gain control of you.

I would beware, Sags can jump into relationships fast and bolt out of them even faster.

Lol...after two months he wants children with you, and to marry you. I would be very careful if I were you. 😄 If he's not just desperate, and if he isn't much older than you, then it's little strange. But maybe there is a lot of water or earth placements on his chart. Isn't typical Sag, and yeah, he could also get cold fast. I also get very quickly interested, but can get also quickly bored with one person, and start looking for a new challenge. 😄

how old is he?

Posted by Simply_chante
Ok so im an Aquarius bday Jan. 31 & Im dating a Sag his bday December 11. My question is do most Sags move fast?? We talk everyday all day...he seems to be very consistent. Our first convo was March 1 which lasted allll night. After that we became attached...its now april and he is talking about getting married and me having his child...im shocked! I thought sag guys were players! What is going on with this guy he has changed my life in so many ways in 1 month but i cant help but be cautious and nervous! Any advice ??

When any man starts talking about marriage and love specifically as it pertains to you within a month's time, he's a player or he's letting you know he will be ultra clingy. I was seeing a Sagg and he talked the same talk but oh was he so suave, wore the finest clothes, drove a benz, so on the outside he seemed settled and put together. Come to find out, he had 3 baby mamas and dropped me the moment he realized I wasn't going to give up so easily. Then the mind games began but I shut that shit down.

Continue at your own risk.

Let's think about this for a moment? Why would anyone let alone, how could anyone know they want to marry someone they JUST met? Be cautious girl. Players know how to talk a sweet game, romance you and leave you all in your feelings.

Thanks guys...well now ima just fall back from him. We literally talk all day and all night...he is pretty consistent and i haven't caught him in any bull shit BUT im cautious... Its a shame too because we are actually pretty compatible and having fun. But im not in love either. So i can walk away. I have said to him on numerous occasions that i dont want anymore kids until about 5 years and he said the same thing. Now all of a sudden he has become super attached and he is signing another tune. He just keeps saying he wants me to his self and im not going no where. Kinda weird but idk

Posted by Wynter
He's already talking babies, he probably senses some vulnerability in you and is appealing to your mothering instinct to gain control of you.

I would beware, Sags can jump into relationships fast and bolt out of them even faster.

His last two relationships he was with each girl 3-4 years. He said he just feels better being in relationships....and he wants to be married and come home to a family

Posted by Simply_chante
Thanks guys...well now ima just fall back from him. We literally talk all day and all night...he is pretty consistent and i haven't caught him in any bull shit BUT im cautious... Its a shame too because we are actually pretty compatible and having fun. But im not in love either. So i can walk away. I have said to him on numerous occasions that i dont want anymore kids until about 5 years and he said the same thing. Now all of a sudden he has become super attached and he is signing another tune. He just keeps saying he wants me to his self and im not going no where. Kinda weird but idk

wait. what the duck— why would you do that. what the hell do we know. you know him and what the feels feel like!!

he sounds like he saw something good and you wants you to know that AND he wants to have it around him.

if he brings up babies, that doesnt mean get pregnant tonight. he's just forward thinking. he dreams about a future with you. you already told him your timeline. so again, whats the problem.

please just enjoy the ride. if you have seen any red flags, whats the problem....

Actually, there are two types of Sag. I was never that type that wanted kids with some chick soon, or to marry her. I am typical Sag, who loves his freedom, and find it very difficult to settle down. If it gets too serious, then yes, I'm afraid that I could lose my freedom, and I doesn't love that feeling.

Plus, as I said, I can quickly get bored. 😄 I would say that for every sign, there is higher and lower type of that sign, so it makes a big difference, and it's easy to spot them. Personally, I think that the type you mentioned isn't very clever too, they are in a rush of things, and typical cheaters. That is the lower type, and I know some of them. So, do not make a mistake, be clever. 😉

Posted by ozzzy
Lol...after two months he wants children with you, and to marry you. I would be very careful if I were you. 😄 If he's not just desperate, and if he isn't much older than you, then it's little strange. But maybe there is a lot of water or earth placements on his chart. Isn't typical Sag, and yeah, he could also get cold fast. I also get very quickly interested, but can get also quickly bored with one person, and start looking for a new challenge. 😄

Ok..i hear where you are coming from...i think he is just a lil clingy and a sucker i cant lie. And jealous and possesive

Posted by ozzzy
Actually, there are two types of Sag. I was never that type that wanted kids with some chick soon, or to marry her. I am typical Sag, who loves his freedom, and find it very difficult to settle down. If it gets too serious, then yes, I'm afraid that I could lose my freedom, and I doesn't love that feeling.

Plus, as I said, I can quickly get bored. 😄 I would say that for every sign, there is higher and lower type of that sign, so it makes a big difference, and it's easy to spot them. Personally, I think that the type you mentioned isn't very clever too, they are in a rush of things, and typical cheaters. That is the lower type, and I know some of them. So, do not make a mistake, be clever. 😉

Ok i will def take all that into consideration.

Posted by Wynter
He's already talking babies, he probably senses some vulnerability in you and is appealing to your mothering instinct to gain control of you.

I would beware, Sags can jump into relationships fast and bolt out of them even faster.

I do disagree with being vulnerable though. Out of the two of us he is waaaay more emotional then i am

Posted by dewiklaessen1991
he's a sagg too but with moon in cancer

He isnt afraid to get into a relationship as well. I just think he loves love. I really dont get a player vibe from him.

Posted by DMV
how old is he?

25

Posted by malloryor
Let's think about this for a moment? Why would anyone let alone, how could anyone know they want to marry someone they JUST met? Be cautious girl. Players know how to talk a sweet game, romance you and leave you all in your feelings.

He isnt flashy at all. Very laid back humble. Ive talked amd dated Sag men before and he is very very DIFFERENT

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Posted by Simply_chante
Thanks guys...well now ima just fall back from him. We literally talk all day and all night...he is pretty consistent and i haven't caught him in any bull shit BUT im cautious... Its a shame too because we are actually pretty compatible and having fun. But im not in love either. So i can walk away. I have said to him on numerous occasions that i dont want anymore kids until about 5 years and he said the same thing. Now all of a sudden he has become super attached and he is signing another tune. He just keeps saying he wants me to his self and im not going no where. Kinda weird but idk

wait. what the duck— why would you do that. what the hell do we know. you know him and what the feels feel like!!

he sounds like he saw something good and you wants you to know that AND he wants to have it around him.

if he brings up babies, that doesnt mean get pregnant tonight. he's just forward thinking. he dreams about a future with you. you already told him your timeline. so again, whats the problem.

please just enjoy the ride. if you have seen any red flags, whats the problem....

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Your right im just a lil nervous and cautious about the situation. So i guess im tryna find a reason to find fault in him and he could very well be my soul mate.

Posted by Simply_chante

Posted by malloryor
Let's think about this for a moment? Why would anyone let alone, how could anyone know they want to marry someone they JUST met? Be cautious girl. Players know how to talk a sweet game, romance you and leave you all in your feelings.

He isnt flashy at all. Very laid back humble. Ive talked amd dated Sag men before and he is very very DIFFERENT

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That wasn't really my point haha, I'm sorry, I was just describing my guy. I allowed that to make me a bit naive in my thinking. He was also significantly older than me too, so the signs of material security, made me only assume he would be emotional mature. Anyway my only point is that this man was not, he was a good talker, very consistent as you have described, just very good at romancing a woman without it feeling like a trap. However he lived up to the Sagg man reputation of being into something just as fast as he is out of it.

You can be positive and please do enjoy your time with him, because maybe he is different and means well, but be vigilant 🙂

Nothing on Sag men, but from my experience, that's not a good idea. Of course you do you, but this is just my $ 0.02. It could very well be the guy and not the sign, but the Sag I was dating was almost never faithful, never honest and never serious. This was all while he was asking for marriage, more kids and an honest relationship. It felt like being on a merry go round and falling nauseous. I got played time after time and this was mostly because I believed he was 1000% sincere. It always felt like a burst of energy and then it fizzles (during both phases of me being very loving and unloving).

Just take it slow, enjoy your time together and see what happens.

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Posted by malloryor
Let's think about this for a moment? Why would anyone let alone, how could anyone know they want to marry someone they JUST met? Be cautious girl. Players know how to talk a sweet game, romance you and leave you all in your feelings.

He isnt flashy at all. Very laid back humble. Ive talked amd dated Sag men before and he is very very DIFFERENT

That wasn't really my point haha, I'm sorry, I was just describing my guy. I allowed that to make me a bit naive in my thinking. He was also significantly older than me too, so the signs of material security, made me only assume he would be emotional mature. Anyway my only point is that this man was not, he was a good talker, very consistent as you have described, just very good at romancing a woman without it feeling like a trap. However he lived up to the Sagg man reputation of being into something just as fast as he is out of it.

You can be positive and please do enjoy your time with him, because maybe he is different and means well, but be vigilant 🙂

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Thank you much for your input tho! Its all appreciated luv...im def going to take things day by day thats for sute

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Posted by malloryor
Let's think about this for a moment? Why would anyone let alone, how could anyone know they want to marry someone they JUST met? Be cautious girl. Players know how to talk a sweet game, romance you and leave you all in your feelings.

He isnt flashy at all. Very laid back humble. Ive talked amd dated Sag men before and he is very very DIFFERENT

That wasn't really my point haha, I'm sorry, I was just describing my guy. I allowed that to make me a bit naive in my thinking. He was also significantly older than me too, so the signs of material security, made me only assume he would be emotional mature. Anyway my only point is that this man was not, he was a good talker, very consistent as you have described, just very good at romancing a woman without it feeling like a trap. However he lived up to the Sagg man reputation of being into something just as fast as he is out of it.

You can be positive and please do enjoy your time with him, because maybe he is different and means well, but be vigilant 🙂

Thank you much for your input tho! Its all appreciated luv...im def going to take things day by day thats for sute

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You're welcome 🙂

I wish you the best with this, you seem to be pretty levelheaded in love so I am sure no matter the outcome you will be okay.
Definitely keep us posted on this one!

Eh.....

I agree with Libraqueen! Take it strides...definitely, sags like air signs, change their minds often, but that doesn't mean that sags are incapable or lacking desire for long term, committed relationships, how one goes about it with a sag will determine that. So in the meantime, enjoy it, take it day by day. Don't take lightly a sags feelings, they choose who they show it too. At the same time, dont get played..read between the lines, don't isolate that incident..analyze it with other experiences you have with him. Use your beautiful aqua mind and also play the chess game, where do you want you guys to be? Then start implenting a plan behind the scenes that will gently guide your sag toward the right direction

My ex husband is a sag, he proposed on the 2nd date. We got married 6 months later.
Life never boring with him, fun to be around, the sex was amazing.
He was a great husband, very charming one who treat me well.

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Posted by malloryor
Let's think about this for a moment? Why would anyone let alone, how could anyone know they want to marry someone they JUST met? Be cautious girl. Players know how to talk a sweet game, romance you and leave you all in your feelings.

He isnt flashy at all. Very laid back humble. Ive talked amd dated Sag men before and he is very very DIFFERENT

What is his birthday? My ex was Dec 11

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December 11 as well

Posted by Geminiam
Thai scenario sounds so familiar. I dated a sag with sag moon, Venus & Mars Scorpio. Said he loved me after 3 weeks and randomly asked me to marry him, in the car on the way home from a date, I just ignored him and we never spoke of it. Months later I asked why he did all that and he said that's how he felt "in the moment". He called me "babe" the first time we talked (and always) saying he liked doing that because it was like ownership, lol. We also talked or texted all day every day in the beginning and he always wanted to know where I was, what I was doing and would ask me to send him pics several times a day. It was nice to feel so desired at first but then it started to feel very constricting.

He was soooo sexy though and a freak, had lots of crazy fantasies and loved to talk about them All. The. Time.

Btw I always wondered if he was just a charmer and might still be chatting up others. He said he wasn't..but after I broke up with him and he got with someone else he would still text me and try to get together. Told him no way out of respect for his girlfriend...but that told me enough, if they will do it to one they will do it to all.

That sounds like my sag as well...

Posted by AriesLove
I say follow your heart...as you will see some of these posters have problems with every zodiac sign every 3 weeks because they chase after men who do not want them and are insecure.

My ex birthday was Dec 11 same as yours and he was not a player and very sincere.

Well i really do like him and i would like for things to work out between us.