Aries girl hot for Sag dude

He likes having you as a launchpad? You know, cos it's so fun and all. Yipeeee!! I'm a back up plan!

But, seriously. It's hardly flattering. And it's not like you have to maintain his interest. He's straight up, good for him. But you can't complain about being dangled when you're quite happy to stay there. What does that say to him about how you view yoursef?

Maybe he just likes to juggle?

Yeah, he's just being a guy...and the OP is lapping it up

Posted by lotuslily
I know I'm awesome and so does he, so why would he choose non-serious on and offness over non-serious, serious awesomeness and fun with me—??"

first off, i dig your confidence 🙂

secondly, youve made several assumptions about him and the situation.

1.)you assumed no one else was after him, that he had no other options.
2.)you assumed that whenever you call him, he would be available
3.)you assumed that because his other relationship is off and on, that it cant be serious.
4.)you assumed that he wants flings and fun with you instead of a serious relationship with someone else.
5.)you assumed that he wanted to be your boy toy.
6.)you assumed that your game was that good that theres no way to resist you. i mean, your a bucket full of awesomeness.

you cant fall for a jumpoff. thats not their purpose in life. a jumpoff is not committed to anyone until they choose to be. they jump from bed to bed whenever the feel like it. they are like independent contractors. they choose when to sex or not to sex. all you can do is accept it. you cant control a jumpoff to supply your sexual needs or spend time with you whenever you beckon, then turn him loose till the next time. you also cant expect a jumpoff to not jump into another bed and like that other bed better.

at least he was straight up with you.

Sag guys....ugh.

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Posted by lotuslily
I know I'm awesome and so does he, so why would he choose non-serious on and offness over non-serious, serious awesomeness and fun with me—??"

first off, i dig your confidence 🙂

secondly, youve made several assumptions about him and the situation.

1.)you assumed no one else was after him, that he had no other options.
2.)you assumed that whenever you call him, he would be available
3.)you assumed that because his other relationship is off and on, that it cant be serious.
4.)you assumed that he wants flings and fun with you instead of a serious relationship with someone else.
5.)you assumed that he wanted to be your boy toy.
6.)you assumed that your game was that good that theres no way to resist you. i mean, your a bucket full of awesomeness.

you cant fall for a jumpoff. thats not their purpose in life. a jumpoff is not committed to anyone until they choose to be. they jump from bed to bed whenever the feel like it. they are like independent contractors. they choose when to sex or not to sex. all you can do is accept it. you cant control a jumpoff to supply your sexual needs or spend time with you whenever you beckon, then turn him loose till the next time. you also cant expect a jumpoff to not jump into another bed and like that other bed better.

at least he was straight up with you.

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Thank you for pointing out those assumptions. Those perspectives didn't even occur to me :/ He did say it's never been that serious though. The rest, you opened my eyes to. And I definitely appreciated his (and your) honesty.
I may call on your perspectives again in the future when I can't see how anyone could see things any way but my way 😄

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Posted by lotuslily
ended up being some of my best friends to this day! (even after sex)

funny 🙂

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Why?

anytime 🙂

ive been down this road b4.