Can any Sag men help me out? btw wtf is the big deal about sex

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Posted by justagirl
I think you need to understand what having a monogamous relationship means.

mo·nog·a·mous

məˈnäɡəməs/

adjective

involving marriage to one person at a time.

having a sexual relationship with only one partner at a time.

having only one mate at a time.


Sounds like you want a polyamorous relationship:

Polyamory (from Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", and Latin amor, "love") is the practice of or desire for intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the knowledge of all partners. It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy".

Exactly! If you want to be polyamorous then date other poly people. Not women looking for monogamy.

being poly means you have to share your partner too. and i don't see him letting his girl get dicked down by other men on the regular.

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Posted by hellosaggy

Why don't you just ask the damn question instead of making us look like we are jerks....

100% with you and I dig your work.

So I had this male friend who told me once a story about how he invited a girl to watch a movie and how she was so surprised he didn't make moves on her cause you know guys do that...and then he invites me to watch a movie lol how dumb man you think I am? lol ofc some time later he admitted he ended up having sex with her the next time lol unless you're ugly or in any other way unattractive it's a 99% men will do you if they get a chance(unless he's gay)...no surprise there lol

It is a jerk move to go out it the long way around. I dunno why he felt the need to work up a story.

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Posted by theflyingarrow
Find yourself an innocent girl as your emotional safety net

And then mess with married women or emotionally unavailable women or women who are in a relationship but dont want to get out..

That works for my ex. He seems happy living that life 😂

Posted by hellosaggy
I rarely have unprotected intercourse.... because I'm rarely in relationships....I should seriously own some stock in Trojan.... magnums

I'm dead serious about why don't you ask instead of assuming.

but seriously...I like you.... you like me..... hey lets enjoy each other's company.... and I see you once every week or so... that makes us automatically a couple?

I don't go days without communicating with someone I'm with, or even a day really. that might be my definition. every woman I am talking to now I hear from every other day or so, and it might just be 4 or 5 text going back and forth.

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Posted by hellosaggy
I rarely have unprotected intercourse.... because I'm rarely in relationships....I should seriously own some stock in Trojan.... magnums

I'm dead serious about why don't you ask instead of assuming.

but seriously...I like you.... you like me..... hey lets enjoy each other's company.... and I see you once every week or so... that makes us automatically a couple?

I don't go days without communicating with someone I'm with, or even a day really. that might be my definition. every woman I am talking to now I hear from every other day or so, and it might just be 4 or 5 text going back and forth.

I see what you mean when you break it down like that, but that's what you need to say when you feel you are dealing with someone that may be assuming its more than what it is. This is not your idea of building towards a relationship, you are just doing you being friends that's it. I can relate I been bamboozled like that rebounding with someone during a breakup with my guy. He tried to force a relationship upon me by assuming just because he had my time of day we were working towards a relationship and I had just got out of one. No I didn't come out and say hey I don't want to build but I never said I did either he knew my circumstances.

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Posted by hellosaggy
I was having this conversation with my friend.

I was comparing sex partners to Ice cream.

You can love vanilla ice cream, and its your favorite, you can add toppings to it, etc.

but sometimes you see caramel, chocolate, strawberry shortcake... and you want to sample it... and its good, or bad, or ehhhh, but you will always love vanilla.


and what's the big deal about sex outside of a monogamous relationship? There is no cheating involved. why is it that some woman ASSUME that just because a man is nice to her and treats her well he wants to be with her?

Why don't you just ask the damn question instead of making us look like we are jerks.... I don't need to love you to bone you. I'm not going to love you until after I have sex with you...and its going to take a damn while for it to actually happen. its just facts.

Posted by aquarius_man
@hellosaggy + @saggurl88 = L.O.V.E.

You both are honest and fun although saggy talks a lot. Well saggurl would too but she s heartbroken now and quiet, reflecting, and pondering