cant explain the attraction
This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by DMV on Thursday, December 13, 2012 and has 13 replies.
i was at a birthday party last weekend and i saw this dark chocolate dude who made my draw drop. i felt compelled to go up to him and introduce myself. the whole night, he followed me around the room and i followed him. we've been talking ever since. i looked up his chart and for the life of me, i dont see where the attraction is. its not in venus, mars, moon, sun. we have more squares than a chessboard.
i saw him leaving and i did something i thought id never do. i ran after him and walked him to his car. there was a desire to be next to him. i havent even smashed.
we talk and he is deep as hell. he has confessed some things to me about how he felt a spark when i hugged him. it must be his uranus and my uranus placements.
looking at his chart almost has me questioning for the first time, astrology of attraction. how can 2 people have the shittiest synastry but be so attracted to each other?
i saw him leaving and i did something i thought id never do. i ran after him and walked him to his car. there was a desire to be next to him. i havent even smashed.
we talk and he is deep as hell. he has confessed some things to me about how he felt a spark when i hugged him. it must be his uranus and my uranus placements.
looking at his chart almost has me questioning for the first time, astrology of attraction. how can 2 people have the shittiest synastry but be so attracted to each other?
damn, i never thought if it like that. hmmmm
Posted by Sutekh
Squares are attraction, problem is they crash hard
he is pretty known in the community, so i cant pull my normal shit. with all them damn squares, aint nobody coming out unscathed.
Posted by Ligeia
Chemistry out ways synastry in my book.
What's in black and white on paper is just potential
attraction compatibility.
So give up this dude's Sun sign!
I wanna knnnnnnnnoooooowwww
there def was chemistry....a lil too much. i dont want to jinx it. what i will say is i heard about him 3 years ago at a party and i told myself, i wanted him. 3 years later...he is so close, its electrifying.
Posted by DMV
...it must be his uranus and my uranus placements.
pretty bad when you have to go to the outer planets ... have fun, 6 months from now you'll be like ... uhmmm, huh, shoulda seen that comin'.
Posted by jru2Posted by DMV
...it must be his uranus and my uranus placements.
pretty bad when you have to go to the outer planets ... have fun, 6 months from now you'll be like ... uhmmm, huh, shoulda seen that comin'.click to expand
haha that usually happens in like a week. Moon Conj Uranus natally. you have to admit, uranus makes things exciting!
Posted by FUM
well.. not sure about rest of placements but I was shaking like an autumn leaf at the presence of my top Sag man who also is Snake. So I match/found someone within same category, but it didn't work same.
hm.. Uranus?
Another experimentation timeframe and guys needed.
ugh i do not like the shaking thing. the butterflies are scary. they feel good but i dont like them. probably because its going to suck when they go away but im not going to plan the funeral yet...
Posted by DeeGee
I gotta give you credit DMV, you're out there movin and groovin....soon we will here you find the one and be getting married...
with men and relationships..dont stop believin. lick my wounds and get back up
makes total sense. i will live for them 
i dont like openly expressing my love. im a venus in cap and moon in scorp. showing emotions is messy to me and i prefer to keep my love life separate. if someone puts me on the spot, it makes me cringe. its a total loss of control and leaves you open to haters. so i have to agree with jamie on this one.
its not that he wants to look available to other women, he would just not rather put his business out there. i can see how to a scorp, you all would need to be publicly recognized. i hear ya. shit like that is nice and makes you feel reassured. when it doesnt happen, you feel slighted and rejected..but i assure you that isnt the case.
jamie is a venus in scorpio and they can be very hush hush in their love for someone. it may or may not be easily expressed. they subtle. you will have to pay attention elsewhere to how they show their love. as a scorponic person, my guess is that they would need to be shown love more than showing love themselves.
now the problem i have is when you would rather show affection to other people instead of showing affection to your partner.
its not that he wants to look available to other women, he would just not rather put his business out there. i can see how to a scorp, you all would need to be publicly recognized. i hear ya. shit like that is nice and makes you feel reassured. when it doesnt happen, you feel slighted and rejected..but i assure you that isnt the case.
jamie is a venus in scorpio and they can be very hush hush in their love for someone. it may or may not be easily expressed. they subtle. you will have to pay attention elsewhere to how they show their love. as a scorponic person, my guess is that they would need to be shown love more than showing love themselves.
now the problem i have is when you would rather show affection to other people instead of showing affection to your partner.
i dunno if youve checked your transits. what is saturn doing to your chart? what is neptune up 2?
sorry for the 'hides', sweety.
Time for me to move on. Out of sight, out of mind.
Time for me to move on. Out of sight, out of mind.
trust, i understand
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