Connection?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Unregistered on Sunday, July 21, 2002 and has 4 replies.
Im a taurus/gemini(cusp) with a sag rite now. OMg i love him, the other ex i had was a libra and we didnt hit it off too great but this with sag i can just do anything and i feel comfortable, were always having fun and communicating great! i can connect with him about anything. He says he loves me so deeply and that he wants to spend his life with me.. and i feel the same way.. Has anyone felt this kind of love before? And has anyone whos a taurus/sag been so in love?
Well darlin'...speaking from my experience....it may for awhile (in my case 15yrs and 7yrs of trying to be myself = 22yrs of marriage to a taurus/gem ascendant). I also fell madly and deeply in love w/my taurus ex and for all those years catered to him, was by his side 24/7. I didn't "want" to see the neediness in him or his unability to let me "out" every once in awhile to be w/my friends or do things that I enjoyed. He eventually made me feel "guilty" if I wanted these things. Don't get me wrong, the times we spent together in the early years were wonderful, he made me feel loved, he taught me a lot about money & curbing my "wild saggie" nature on occassion. But all in all it finally smothered me so bad that when I did wake up I totally lost it and fought tooth and nail to get free Sad It was a devastating time in my life and his as well. I sometimes sit and ponder if he really loved "Me" and not just what I could provide for him in our life together, ie..a cook, maid, lover, sister, mother, etc....I wish I had "woken up" earlier in our relationship and seen what was happening, but alas I didn't. Yes, it is a wonderful pairing for a time and in some cases it can work, but to work you have to let the other breathe or it will stagnate and go sour. Your sag's tendancy to flirt and be with people and to try new things all the time may eventually be too much for you to handle. Although w/you being a Taurus/Gem Cusp, it may work out for you two. As Gemini is Saggies opposite in the zodiac, and they have some of the same characteristics...fun loving, carefree, jokers, etc...Your taurus characteristics of wanting to stay close to hearth and home may eventually rub your saggie the wrong way....so my advice is....please talk to each other when these idiocynracies in your lives together flair up...don't let them smolder and get out of hand......talk about it, come to a resolution and move past it if you want this guy in your life. Never ever try to tie a saggie down....they will stand it for so long (in my case wayyyyy to long lol) and then bolt like the well known horse they are attributed to. Whereas you will dig your heels in and lower your horns and either stand solid or run over anyone in your path to prove your beliefs, be they right or wrong. As in any relationship darlin'....it's compromise, trust, love and the ability let each other have the space & time you both need to have a healthy and balanced relationship. Much luck to you and your Sag guy! I hope your relatiionship blossoms and grows!
~MP & BB~
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saggirl57
lol!!! im so hate staying home!! i love going out and meeting new ppl! yup! Big Grin and me and my sag give eachother space and stuff lolz so its all good i guess? hahaha :]]]
oh, and thanx for the advice, ill keep that in mind Winking