Okay this is my first time posting here so bear with me. I met a Sagittarius man eight and a half years ago and we've been acquaitances ever since. Recently we ran into each other on a dating site and decided to go out. Well, in a nutshell we have been hanging out here and there and decided to date each other casually which I was fine with. We did have amazing sex for the first time about a week ago. So the other night we were talking and I told him that I was really looking for a no strings attached sort of relationship. He seemed really relieved and even mentioned to me that if he ever saw me talking to another guy it would not bother him. I felt extremely pleased with this conversation that night, and felt that this is the best arrangement for us seeing that he is a huge flirt and I could not be with him seriously due to my jealous Scorpio nature (lol). All of the trouble started a couple of days ago. He asked me to come over that night and I said that I would. Well, I waited to hear from him when he got off work and never did. So finally later that night I asked him what the deal was and he was obviously mad at me and told me forget it he was going to bed and that basically he was done. Well, I was trying to make peace with him and told him that I was confused as to what he wanted, did he want me to come over or did he just want to go to bed. So then he asked me do you want to come over or no, because he said I was acting like I didn't want to because he was the last to text me that day and felt like I just stopped talking and blew him off. I said yes I wanted to so he told me to get over there now lol. Needless to say I went over there and we had amazing sex. We cuddled and watched a movie afterwards and everything seemed fine. So the next day I texted him good morning so that he didn't feel like I was ignoring him, and he texted right back and everything seemed fine. Later in the day, I texted him and invited him, his son, and his roommate to come over and hang out with some friends and I after work. He didn't answer me right away and said he was busy and that he would text me later. He never answered me back so quite a few hours later I texted him that I had been drinking a little bit and that I really wanted him. He said that there was nothing he could do about that because his son was sick and he was in for the evening. I got kind of busy after that and didn't answer his text back. Right after that, I posted on a guy friend's facebook...
**Revised: he posted on facebook, "can't find a good who*e these days.
1 more thing, his chart is as follows:
Birth date 12/9/71; I do not know time of birth, so I entered 12pm.
Rising Sun 3 degrees Pisces
Sun 16 degrees Sagittarius
Moon 17 degrees Virgo
Mercury 24 degrees Sagittarius
Venus 13 degrees Capricorn
Mars 19 degrees Pisces
Jupiter 17 degrees Sagittarius
Saturn 1 degree Gemini
Uranus 17 degrees Libra
Neptune 3 degrees Sagittarius
Pluto 1 degree Libra
You are right, it was wrong of me to post that on fb knowing he would see it and I do feel bad. He is so mad right now. I can't help but feel regretful that he is hurt.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30788 · Topics: 649
When i think about men and their behavior, i think if my father would do that to me. He wouldnt, so they shouldnt.
Just a quick update: sag man's roommate called me last night. Apparently when I texted a heart felt apology to sag man, he was sitting on the couch next to his roommate and laughed hysterically, showing him the text saying "Look what this dumb wh*re said!" His roommate also informed me that sag man is an alcoholic and sex addict. He said that at the very moment we were on the phone, sag man was at their apartment with two girls he met on a dating site in his bedroom, leaving his very I'll child to fend for himself on the couch. I was so thankful his roommate thought enough to call me and tell me. I am not doing any confronting, I'm just going to disappear from him if he ever tries to contact me again. I lived and learned!
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30788 · Topics: 649
his roommate is a total snitch by the way. i mean bros before hoes. like why would he even do that?
He's kicking him out and is pissed because sag man hasn't been paying his share of the rent and apparently brings women in and out all the time.
But I'm friends with his roommate too, and he said he didn't want to see me get hurt (even though I was never ever wanting a steady, exclusive dating relationship at all).
Oh lawd, I think I'm done with all that fwb stuff. Too dang complicated.
I don't want his roommate lol
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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
I like the thoughts of dmv and exo.
anyway don't do fwb. and the sag man is trash. is his idol Chris Brown by any chance?
Man, some of you guys are some friendly folks on here LMAO