Depressed Sag. Is that even possible?

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cancerboo
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12 Years

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My Sag boo just called me. He sounded so down and out. Las time we talked was Wed and he sounded about the same.He actually has been sounding loike this since the past weekend.

So, Wed he told me he was going to call me back, after he ate. He just got finish taking a nap (in the middle of the day), this is sooooo not like him. He never called. I text him yesterday morning and no response. SO I thought cool, he needs his space again, so I let it be. Well he just called and sounded so down and out. He asked where I been? I told him, right here. I told him it felt like he needed some space, so I didnt call. He then tells me, he has been in the house since Tuesday and sleeping all day and ONLY going out to get something to eat (has to eat he is a diabetic)and coming right back home. He does not want to deal with anyone or anything.I know he is having a stressful time right now, financially. I asked him was there anything I could do, he said no. I asked did he feel like hurting himself? He kind of chuckled and said "naw". I asked are you sure? because you never know what a person is truely going thru. he said "no". So I told him, to please call me if he needs ANYTHING and I understand exactly how he feels. I have been there.

I am a bit confused I know we are all human, but I never thought this happy go lucky/full of life/crazy Sag would ever get this low. I am not sure what I can do/or if I can make him feel better. I feel really helpless. I hate seeing people I love and care for hurting.

Any suggestions?
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cancerboo
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So we have been in constant contact. he seems to be doing a lil better. but I know him, i know it is a facade. he does not like people to keep asking him "are you alright"? So he will start acting "normal". Then a few days later he usually tells me, I just been telling people that so they will stop asking me that.

He finally got out the hpouse this weekend. I am glad he did. Spent time with his eldest son. Yesterday I could start to hear the stress in his voice again.

All I will/can do is be there for me when he needs me. I made some food for him, plan to take it to him. Home cook meals are always good for the soul 🙂.