Determining if your a true sag

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Unregistered on Tuesday, April 2, 2002 and has 7 replies.
What are the characteristic of a true sag?
We're a happy go-lucky bunch, cheerful, straight-forward, honourable, loyal, optimistic, independent and intuitive.
We are simply just the best :-)
SexySag XXX
See the Sexy_SagXXX above hit it right on the nose...it's all of those things, and just a little bit more... such as our Careless, Impulsive, easy-going, and let's not leave out Carefree ways, which sometimes gets in our way to even relate to the simple things. We really want it all, but we sing in the key of freedom and that has implication for our (short-lived) love-affairs. I myself am still seeking to find out who it is that is willing to accept all of the above... and still let me be me without try to change the traits of the true Sag that I am. There's no doubt about it...the person that is inquisitive about us must be able to step up to the plate and attempt to tame the wild horse that I/am we/are and not be intimidated? If you keep that in mind? your ahead of the game? and ready win a ?true Sagittarius heart? for life.
Good luck,
Coffy
scorpio male
just curious fem sag's ... i know you're very social and sometimes flirtatious (which can get you into trouble), but when you apply "freedom" to relationships does that mean you feel the freedom to be promiscuous?
When you say "short-lived" love affairs do you mean interest or sexual or both?
Hi George!
This is alot of information, but you can skim through it as you like. I am Sag rising and this sounds alot like me, for the most part. I guess you have to consider the entire planetary placements to get the whole story!
"When you say "short-lived" love affairs do you mean interest or sexual or both?"
To your question, NO. Not for me. Are you looking for a short-lived affair? I am sure you can find one, but in my experience that would be the male species and not the female. But, I am not really sure about that either. I can really only speak for myself and what I know.
OK, good luck! Have fun!
Cheers!

The SAGITTARIUS Woman
"Then it doesn't matter which way you walk," said the Cat.
"-So long as I get somewhere,"
Alice added as an explanation.
"Oh, you're sure to do that," said the Cat,
"if you only -walk long enough."
She's not always going to say the kind of things you want to hear. Most of the time, she'll curl your sideburns with her remarkable, flat statements and her embarrassing ques??tions. But now and then she'll say something so special and splendid it will make you feel like singing.
You may need a sample. Scene: Coffee shop. You've just gotten up the courage to tell her you love her, but before you can say it, she looks at you with wide-open, guileless blue eyes-or forthright, steady brown ones- and asks you curiously, "How do you feel about being so short? Does it make you neurotic or anything?" While you're gulping, trying manfully to recover, she'll add, "You shouldn't care about it. Lots of men were short. Like Napoleon. And Fiorello LaGuardia." That's almost adding insult to injury, but before you get a chance to walk out, thinking no woman ever deserved such ungallant treatment more, shell muse dreamily, "I hate men who look like bean poles. You're perfect. I noticed when we were walking over here tonight-we measure just right together."
Sit back down. You're staying. For a long time. A friendly, frank Sagittarius girl has just wound herself around your heart with her own, peculiar brand of charm. She'll always be a little outspoken, because she sees the world exactly as it is, even while she's wearing those ridiculous, rose-tinted glasses. That, you must admit, is quite a talent. It's not everyone who can apply clear, reasonable logic to every situation, and retain the happy faculty of believing things will get better or else deciding to accept them^or what they are.
Sagittarius females are regular Pollyannas. It will cut when she tells you she wishes you would make more money, but then she'll add, "Of course, too much money can make people selfish. Maybe it's lucky that you're poor." Admittedly, it's sort of a left-handed optimism, but you'll get used to it. This girt will never lie to you. Some??times, you may wish she would. Show curiosity about how she spends the nights you're not with her, and you'll get a detailed, perfectly honest report of the letters she writes to that handsome intern she met last summer on her vacation and how many dates she turns down on the phone. She may even relate her troubles with insomnia, brought on when she lies awake at night wondering if maybe what she feels for you is friendship instead of love. You'll feel like yelling at her, "For Pete's sake, lie a little once in a while, can't you? A man has his pride." Don't yell too loud. You'll offend her, and she's not exactly noncombustible herself. Sagittarius girls have been known to fly into some pretty fiery rages.
She will probably live alone. Sagittarius girls are very ? independent, and both sexes have a strange aloofness to family ties. Maybe it's because they travel so much, they don't get home often enough to get to know their families well. Even if they only travel to the movies and girl friends' houses, they're restlessly on the go. I don't want to frighten you, but
Coffy, if possible could you please elaborate on the following comment:
"We really want it all, but we sing in the key of ***freedom*** and that has implication for our (short-lived) ***love-affairsprinkle. I myself am still seeking to find out who it is that is willing to accept all of the above... "
Any other sag's besides legaleagle please add your comments.
Two things to focus on: "freedom" and "short-lived love affairs"
As a female sag, how promiscuous are you (if at all ... i'm counting on your honesty and bluntness here)? How many of your male friends have ever seduced you? or do you dump them fast when you get bored? (please be honest)
The reason I ask is because I met a nice female sag last week. It was kind of weird adapting to her style of things, esp. the short-term memory and blunt statements ... but seeing her flirtatious nature and wide assortment of male friends made me a little suspicious.
I'd be willing to accept her free-roaming nature if it meant she was loyal, and by no means am I trying to stereotype her based on your answers. I'm just interested in knowing if the female sag flirtatious nature ever goes too far.
Thanks in advance for your answers and insights.
Hi George -
I am a Sagfemale who subscribes to the "freedom" aspect of our horoscope. However, that in no way refers to promiscuity. I can only speak for myself, of course, and as much as astrological traits can ring true in each sign, people are people.
That being said, I can say:
I have just as many male friends as female friends; I am naturally social and communicative and enjoy being around others (not constantly, but on a regular basis). I am independent too.
And, as I have had 3 relationships with Scorpio men and seem to attract (and be attracted to) them more than any other sign, I wanted to reply to you with my experience.
My personality is pretty much in line with what you read about Sag females - outgoing, buoyant, funny and communicative. These are the very things that attracted my ex's to me, yet these are the very same traits that seemed to create friction between us once we were a couple.
Be sure to ask yourself if you truly want a mate that needs interaction with the human race (and not just you) on a regular basis, and will probably keep her male friends (which might be confusing to you). If you can deal with that, sign right up with a Sag! Just don't expect her to stop her life and commune only with you once you are together because it will scare her off. The trick with Sag women is to give them all the freedom they need to be themselves and remain independent, and they will be yours for life (if you want that!). Try and coax her into staying home every night or tell her you don't like her friends, and she will get progressively more turned off of you and things won't last. In my opinion, Sag girls really want a nurturing, self-assured man to call their own but if they feel the slightest bit claustrophobic in their relationship, it could end rather quickly!
And PS, I have found that signs really have no bearing on promiscuity among people. I have known slutty Capricorns and chaste Scorpios.
I hope this is helpful. I think(not just because I am one) that Sagittarians are typically great comapnions of any sort. Good luck!!
PS - Curious G is one of my favorite people (monkeys?).

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