
I have known my Sag. ex for many years and in all of that time she has only ever said "I love you" once. That was many years ago and unfortunately I don't even know if she meant it as it felt like she was just saying it to test my response or something (I didn't really respond because I didn't trust that she was sincere). Since then she has never said it again and in fact told me a few years ago that she did NOT love me anymore because of my critical nature. I told her that my critical nature is only because of insecurity and if she had dealt with that then things would have been OK. We still keep in touch because of our son but I have been wondering if it is something about Sag. females (or Sags. in general) that they are afraid to say that they love somebody because maybe that suggests commitment which is something that they are afraid of.






