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Mar 28, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 170 · Topics: 16
Hi I posted this in relationships but thought I may get a better insight to my ex here, I'm a virgo and I have been dishonest with my Sagittarius, I've been with her for 6 years and have 3 kids with her (2 are from a previous marriage of hers but I count as mine as I have brought them up) I had real issues throughout the relationship of opening up to her, I would keep things to myself and if she found out from another source she would go mad, but always made up quickly however last summer I broke her heart by hurting her trust in me, I didn't cheat on her but my actions affected her family. We split up but in November she asked me back to try again, it was great she was sending me lovely messages of fresh starts etc but never went as far as saying she loved me except a ditto when I said it to her, then February this year she said she needed space from me and asked me to move out, a week later she ended it saying she can't forgive me as it's too big. Since then she said she doesn't want the kids to know about us and doesn't want to introduce another man in to their lives ever, I took this as a positive, so we pretend I'm still living there and she is great in regards to letting me be there with the kids, a few weeks ago she text me saying she missed me and missed sex with me, she then apologised in the evening for leading me on, I have found out now that she is seeing someone else, if I don't see her or speak to her for more than a day she texts me to ask if I'm ok, is she still hoping for reconciliation or is she using me? I've read the way Sagittarius can shut off all feelings but my ex seems to be keeping me around, sometimes I catch her looking at me and it's the old look of love and intensity we once had, our relationship was outstanding in every aspect and I ruined it, I'm holding on to hope that I will be part of this family again, just want some advice I'm 08-09-77 she is 25-11-77 thanks
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Mar 28, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 170 · Topics: 16
Just to say every aspect of our relationship bar what I did was perfect, I have her freedom we kept each other intellectually stimulated and our sex life was outstanding even up until a month ago when she split we were having intense love making. She is seeing a Taurus now, I don't know if they would match as well as we did ??? Any views on that?
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Mar 28, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 170 · Topics: 16
I suppose what I would like to hear from other Sagittarius is have they ever returned to a relationship? Bearing in mind we have kids, 6 years of happy times behind us, the fact we both went through hell to be with each other in the first place. Would love to hear your views
you a virgo?
Nah bro, you're dead
Find a fish
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Mar 28, 2014Comments: 0 · Posts: 170 · Topics: 16
Thanks guys, deep down I think she wants me because she is giving me so many signals or am I being an analytical virgo and believing what I want to believe?
The fact she is seeing someone else has shocked me but she is beautiful so I don't expect her to be single for long, what I did was bad, I was in heavy personal debt due to a failed business, I had people chasing me for money, I was scared for myself and the family, stupidly I took money from her mothers business while I worked there to pay the debts, I was replacing the money I took when I had it however the accountant found that the money was irregular and I was found out, since this happened I have made myself bankrupt and seeked therapy for my behaviour, got myself a good job and I'm paying people back for what I did. Her mother has forgiven me and wants us together, I'm just so confused at what she wants, I think there is too many signals for me to walk away however I know I need to give her space but I try and do that and she asks me to come around for the kids while she pops out to the gym, I love helping her out because I was always aware of a Sagittarius need for freedom, I'm so upset about what's going on, I hope I can see a light for us