friends and loyalty

so last night i met up with my virgo friend in the bar. she was going through some pictures of the previous night at another bar; i didnt attend. so why shes showing me her pics, a pic pops up of the scorp, virgo, aries bff. I WAS PISSED OFF! where the fuck is the loyalty. the shit just went down last week and theyre taking pictures with him all chumy chumy. i saw those pics and the fire withing was BOILING. my mind took this trip where i was thowing things, cursing people out.

i am so upset. how the fuck could you be taking picture with that dirt bag and you claim to be MY FRIEND!

im still emotional this morning. im pissed off at the both of them.

if they had some shit go down with one of their guys, i would be loyal to them and wouldnt be taking fucking pics; laughing it up. i guess my sense of loyalty has once again outshined the loyalty of those around me. wtf

i dont know if its jealousy. but i felt betrayed. what the hell are you taking pictures with him for. im going to address it with the both of them.

no dont worry about being blunt. theyre supposed to be MY FRIENDS and especially the aries, she supposed to be my bff. your right, im jealous.... you are my friends, wtf are you doing hanging out with him.

Haha I can't see that^^ but I know it's going to make me laugh.

DMV - I had a (very airy) Virgo bff for years back in middle/high school...she was such an airhead. She was always doing shit like this...but I really don't think she knew what she was doing. She truly didn't realize/understand the line she was crossing.

UNTIL one day, back in high school, I became friends with a girl in my weight training class (there were only like 3 girls in there.) Well I guess she was a long-time enemy of my Virgo friend, but I didn't know she was who she was, and she didn't know I was friends with the Virgo. I just never put two and two together I guess.
Well, one day my Virgo friend saw me walking with her after class and came stomping up to me after school flipping shit. She's like you're friends with Tabby?!?! I was like ummm ? The girl in my weight class? She's like yeah that's Tabby!!! (then it hit me) I was like fuck! I had always been a loyal friend..... but I liked her? Lol

I mean, I never hung out with her outside of school or anything like that...out of respect for my friend. But it's not like I was gonna stop being chummy with the girl.


Yeah the Virgo didn't really appreciate that. I think that's when she finally realized what loyalty meant

I'm not saying go become buddies with your friend's enemy or anything....it's not worth the energy.
I'm just saying, she probably doesn't realize that it's annoyed you

I think one female to another, it was inconsiderate. If you just kept it to yourself, and they weren't aware of how much of an a $ $ he was, that's one thing. But they knew. I'm not saying they shouldn't speak to him, but yucking it up taking pictures is out of line. But then again, I'm ride or die. And I tend to have problems being hurt by people when they aren't the same way in return. That's why I'm extremely selective of who I call a "friend" now. I don't want to feel hurt or betrayed anymore.

I say let them know. If they can get on the same page with you, and understand where you're coming from, cool. If not, maybe you should put them in a different place in your heart, so it won't matter so much the next time.

never fucking again.

FUCK HER!!! I totally agree with you. I would walk thru fire for my friends. My loyalty is 100% on them and I except that back and if it isn't there than they are thrown out to the dogs. I'm not sure what scorpio your talking about tho? Like the one you dated? But thats the thing with earth signs the only give a fuck about what something looks like. If you know what I am saying.

i have totally changed my opinion of my vrigo and aries bff; and it aint for the better.

Posted by feliciaf
Friends, huh, aint no such thing...dont expect to much from people u will always be disappointed.

What happened to you?

I don't know your story but... the truth is that my friends are not mine alone. They are absolutely allowed to befriend whoever they want... even if I don't like them. The definition of loyalty, to me, does not include a clique-like nature. Loyalty for me means being there for me, and being supportive, even if it's between me and one of your other friends. I would not expect you to stop supporting your other friend even of they were my arch nemesis.

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Posted by feliciaf
Friends, huh, aint no such thing...dont expect to much from people u will always be disappointed.

What happened to you?

I have been burned enough to make that comment...and own it lets just leave it at that.

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So do I. I don't even have parents. But I still believe in friendship.

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i dont know if its jealousy. but i felt betrayed. what the hell are you taking pictures with him for. im going to address it with the both of them.

i know what youre sayin. like it kind of is jealousy, but if the roles were reversed, you wouldnt be all buddy-buddy with your friends ex or whatever. sags are soldiers at heart, or maybe musketeers, like "one for all and all for one". our group is our group and thats that. maybe fire signs just dont care about having enemies, so its easier for us to have that mentality. ive had this happen to me before and i did get pissed. i noticed aquas can be the same way; with the aqua friends i have, it was always a group mentality..i guess not all signs/people share that.

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YAY!

Sorry I am high

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Posted by feliciaf
Friends, huh, aint no such thing...dont expect to much from people u will always be disappointed.

What happened to you?

I have been burned enough to make that comment...and own it lets just leave it at that.

So do I. I don't even have parents. But I still believe in friendship.

I believe in people and my parents have been gone for a long time now too. Cautiously optimistic..I believe in me...friends are good..i aint sayin dont ever talk to anyone ever again; just be careful..

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Ya true true.

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Sorry I am high

dont evetr tell anyone when u are high big mistake..especially on-line..

im high too

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LOL

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Sorry I am high

dont evetr tell anyone when u are high big mistake..especially on-line..

im high too

LOL

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i was soooo high last night 😉

Posted by bassace
i didnt wanna say it, but i kill people. i hope the feds arent checking this site for mass murderers..

omg your done for ace! ;P

I'm trying to think if this would make me mad. I probably wouldn't show I was upset. Obviously they don't care enough about you and quite possibly wanted it to get to you. Fuck that. I'd just turn the other cheek and put your focus on something else. They aren't worth your time