Help a virgo!

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Notasag3 on Friday, March 6, 2015 and has 23 replies.
Before posting this I searched for Virgo man and Sag woman, yielding over 265,000 results. When I went to click the first box it said no results found so I am posting this because I am desperate! We have a date tomorrow night.
I am falling for a Sagittarius! We have only known each other about three weeks. We spoke every day and texted frequently. I may have come on a little too strong. So I backed off to give her some space. Now we hardly talk at all. I am freely expressing how I feel about her but she seems like she doesn't want to go there I feel like she has a wall up when it comes to talking about her feelings or emotions. What can I do to win this very special SAG lady?
You should know your moon signs too. It is as important or much more important than sun signs for relationship.
three weeks?
The timeline is vague.
When happened what?
What did you say? What did she say?
What would you do if she is not interested? I mean dating is dating. You may want to stop it. She may want to stop it. It's not marriage.
"Now we hardly talk at all."
Like how much words within which time frame?
Canc: Thank you my moon sign is libra and hers is Leo so I'm doing further investigation.
Dwell: we have spoken every day since February 20. Since Wednesday We have only texted general hi how are you doing type stuff we have not spoken in two days.
Seems like it started turning bad when I asked her how she felt about me. And thank you I know dating is dating. I am very attracted to this woman. I guess I have a thing for Sagittarians my ex was a Sagittarius
Dwell: your B day is same as my ex. hilarious!
yeah right. amazing coinsidence.
"how do you feel"
or
"I wish I were right by your side"
is not a temptation for a Sag. I claim. I might be wrong.
you are Virgo. Your attractiveness for us is your practicality. Your gentlemany politeness.
Ask her if she thinks it's too soon for a face to face meeting.
Don't make her too much compliments.
We are egoists and like compliments. But it is neither sugar nor Oxygen for us.
Tell her about some event you'd like to meet. And it were good to go together so you can check the compatibility. Of decision making, organizing, enjoying, after talk, etc.
Don't try to catch her.
Virgo is like Taurus a salesman. They want to tell you their thing. This is why you are so sweet in the first stage of dating.
But you don't need it.
Keep it simple.
Why? cause we are open to a new exploration anyway. You get a free ride with a Sag for the first stage of dating. That says nothing.
Show your qualities right after the 2nd and 3rd dates. If you get there, then you can live 50% for yourself and 50% for her attention. Don't try to make it your victory right at the beginning. You are not interested in that cheap victory of the first Dates. You want to get the 6 months date. and 6 years date.
So:
put your cards on the table. Show her your qualities. And check what she has to give to you. 50-50.
Make a choice.
Do you want
1. a fast victory and you have to disappear?
or
2. a somewhat slower victory and you know she stays?
If you choose 2, then please don't be a salesman. Don't try to sell your thing to her. Don't be too nice. Be who you are. Be who you'll be after one year.
I had to say it. Cause I had this experience with a Virguy. Also Internet astrology forums have lots of such stories. I've read them.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Don't try to catch her.
Virgo is like Taurus a salesman. They want to tell you their thing. ...

sell instead of tell.
I just wanted to say, if you were a challenging or not so sweet scorpio, we would date you too.
So the key is not to be extra sweet. Or caring. Or funny. Or good looking. whatever.
The key is to be you.
And she can explore herself why she wants you.
As an explorer we see (at least I am so) your good qualities.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
"how do you feel"
or
"I wish I were right by your side"
is not a temptation for a Sag. I claim. I might be wrong.


Exactly. Be concrete, be confident. You have to grab and keep her attention. Dont get all wishy washy. Shell think you aint shit.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Don't try to catch her.
Virgo is like Taurus a salesman. They want to tell you their thing. ...

sell instead of tell.
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Exactly.
Thank you all very much. I will take it to heart. And you have me pegged... So I will try to reverse it and sell not tell. I don't know why I am so attracted to sags... I guess it's everything! She is definitely giving me the cold shoulder so I'm just gonna wait it out and see what happens.
Wait tell not sell? Now I'm confused.
"why I am so attracted to sags"
we like you Virgos too.
Posted by Notasag3
Wait tell not sell? Now I'm confused.

tell was wrong spell. Substitute it with sell in that sentence.
I have moon in the 5th. Kinda like a leo moon. You have to be consistent, you have to be real, you have to be into her and never waiver. How you got her attention, is how you keep her attention. You have to give her enough attention without being creepy.
the minute you do waiver, like you just did, she finds a shiner red ball.
Whats her venus? Whats yours?
I know nothing about astrology. Just starting to discover. I will find out. Thank you for your advice and kind responses.
Thanks for all the responses.
I've blown it. She canceled on me. Looks like she's off on a new adventure ! Lol.
For the record: you sag woman are incredible creatures! Intelligent, creative, philosophical, sexy! I wish there was a vaccine to prevent me from being drawn into your fire!
I had a virgo BF and another virgo was interested in me, but I stopped replying to his texts - similar reasons.
They were all about: how do you feel? do you like me more? ... texting all the time, WANTING from me all these information - I was like: back off, I feel suffocated!
Virgos attracted me with manners, they both seemed cool and confident , and it took hem like 2-3 dates to become extra clingy, demanding and possessive.
I am straightforward (the seemed to think i was harsh, too blunt, but kept coming back for more) and faithfull but they just chased me away.
Acted like babies, not men.
I believe you scared her off with your emotional side.
My aqua ex was terrified to tell me how much he loved me for months because he knew I would RUN - I freaked out when he mentioned he finds me adorable and amazing and he will never search for another in his life..... he couldn't reach me for 2 whole days Big Grin