Help!!! Has anyone had a relationship w/Sagittariu
This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Klove on Friday, January 11, 2002 and has 22 replies.
Does anyone know about these two in a relationship? I'm seeking some opinions, because at this point I'm not even sure if I want to bother.
Relationships between a taurus and sagittarius don't work, they are too different. It is a constant uphill struggle to make the relationship work and invariably it turns out not to be worth it in the end.
I have had a relationship with a sagittarius, it was not bad in the beginning because I new nothing about him, but after 1yr everything stated to come out, he is nothing but a flirt and always has to have more then one women, after they get you they treat you like dirt and talk down on you, they always make you think you have done something wrong so that they can be right in all the wrong that they do. If you dare get into a relationship with these people be very careful. They will hurt you and not even give it a second thought.
Thanks a lot !! being a Sag myself, i really appreciate that... arghhh !!
well, it is true, we may be a bit flirty
at times.. but you see,its our hunting instinct.. we are curious and tend to run after people that are escaping us..
so, if you keep that in mind, you`ll keep a Sag forever.. !! and i can speak
only for myself here, but i really dont
enjoy hurting others feelings.. but sometimes it happens because its unavoidable..
well, it is true, we may be a bit flirty
at times.. but you see,its our hunting instinct.. we are curious and tend to run after people that are escaping us..
so, if you keep that in mind, you`ll keep a Sag forever.. !! and i can speak
only for myself here, but i really dont
enjoy hurting others feelings.. but sometimes it happens because its unavoidable..
OKAY, i AM A SAGGITARIUS GIRL AND WE ARE A LITTLE FLIRTY BUT IT'S NOT TO HURT ANYONE'S FEELINGS, IF WE ARE WITH SOMEONE WE LIKE TO BE WITH WE ARE LOYAL, FAITHFUL AND TACTLESSLY HONEST AND A LOT OF PEOPLE TAKE IT OFFENSIVELY WHEN WE REALLY DON'T DETECT THAT WHAT WE ARE SAYING IS HURTFUL, THE WAY TO UNDERSTAND A SAGG WOULD BE TO FIND OUT WHERE THEY CAME FROM HOW THEY WERE RAISED AND GET TO KNOW THEM ON A FRIENDSHIP BASIS THAT WAY YOU CAN LEARN TO APPRECIATE SOME OF THE COMMENTS AND UNDERSTAND THAT THEY JUST SOUND WORSE THAN THEY REALLY ARE GOOD PEOPLE WITH KEEN SENSE OF HUMOR, GETTING TO KNOW THEM YOU WOULD SEE THAT ALOT OF THEIR SARCASTIC COMMENTS ARE PRETTY FUNNY, BUT THEY NEVER INTENTIONALLY MEAN TO HURT ANYONES FEELING UNLESS THEY FEEL THREATENED TO DO SO.
I'm a sag girl and I don't consider myself a flirt except when I have my eye on someone. I tend to save it up for my one special person. Though I struggle with it...comes out clumsily sometimes.
I am warm and friendly and enjoy meeting people and this has caused me problems with men. They tend to think if I smile, listen and talk with them that I am romanticly interested.
I do like to have varied conversations..to explore my world through others experiences, beliefs and perceptions. I continually challenge my own beliefs and perceptions this way by listening to others. I also have an empathic heart and would do anything I could to ease or lift suffering souls. So many people are hurt in one way or another...aren't we all? But, as I said.....so often I get misunderstood.
I personally am loyal and faithful to the one I love and try very hard to be aware of my effect on others to avoid misconceptions as I don't want to hurt anyone especially my beloved.
Sometimes...I want so much that all people could be unisex...no gender would be nice once in awhile... would make conversations easier with people in general.
I am in a really good partnership with an Aries male. I love the long conversations we have on just about every and any subject. I love his intensity and passion. I really enjoy his empathy and sensitivity toward me. He makes me feel good always. I love the feeling I can be my self openly without holding back. Oh, and the laughter...I love to laugh and we do lots of that. He gives me everything I desire in a relationship and truly makes me happy.
I am one of the lucky ones...
Laurie
I am warm and friendly and enjoy meeting people and this has caused me problems with men. They tend to think if I smile, listen and talk with them that I am romanticly interested.
I do like to have varied conversations..to explore my world through others experiences, beliefs and perceptions. I continually challenge my own beliefs and perceptions this way by listening to others. I also have an empathic heart and would do anything I could to ease or lift suffering souls. So many people are hurt in one way or another...aren't we all? But, as I said.....so often I get misunderstood.
I personally am loyal and faithful to the one I love and try very hard to be aware of my effect on others to avoid misconceptions as I don't want to hurt anyone especially my beloved.
Sometimes...I want so much that all people could be unisex...no gender would be nice once in awhile... would make conversations easier with people in general.
I am in a really good partnership with an Aries male. I love the long conversations we have on just about every and any subject. I love his intensity and passion. I really enjoy his empathy and sensitivity toward me. He makes me feel good always. I love the feeling I can be my self openly without holding back. Oh, and the laughter...I love to laugh and we do lots of that. He gives me everything I desire in a relationship and truly makes me happy.
I am one of the lucky ones...
Laurie
Well said Laurie, that's pretty much how I am also.
Have you been doing alright, Laurie? I haven't gotten a response back from you.
Take care,
Mt_Moonshine
Have you been doing alright, Laurie? I haven't gotten a response back from you.
Take care,
Mt_Moonshine
Laurie, I am so happy you made this clear, a lot of people misconceive my genuine personality i can't smile and be nice to a man without them thinking I am interested in them and I hate it because it causes situations to expand into problems that are so hard to get out of because you don't want to be mean ya know, I also wish people were unisex, I love to conversate and mainly because it gives me insight on how our world and people's perspective's are , keep the knowledge and stay cool, thanks , we need a support group.
This HAS ALWAYS BEEN A WOMAN SAG problem! Although for the life of me I can't understand WHY? What's the problem MEN??? Why is that we Sag women can't be friendly without the male sex thinking we want MORE???? What the phuck is up with that? To me it seems like no one can be nice to anyone without a "payback" of some kind? What a sad world it's become. How is anyone supposed to trust anyone in this society with these kind of thoughts? Geez with this kind of attitude all around the planet one can only hope that the world as we know it will end soon???? WHAT WOULD BE THE ODDS of this happening???
I think that a lot of people have problems, hurts, emotional deficiencies...etc. and have found that a simple, genuine smile, word of encouragement or affirmation can go really far. Sometimes too far. Some persons are so starved for this that when they recieve it they want so much more.
Previously, I wrote that this causes me grief with men...it has with women too. I am always amazed that someone who I just meet will call me their best friend so quickly. Relationships...with either sex takes time for me and I will not trust a person who attaches to strongly, too quickly.
I do enjoy friendly rapport etc...but, the elements of good friendships take time and energy and I am a bit cautious who I invest my heart, soul and trust in. I am probably too cautious...but, I too have my hurts and deficiencies.
I don't have any answers...I try very hard to understand. It hurts me to meet up with a toxic (needy) person and have to go very cautiously with them...because I know that sooner or later they will be hurt by me. I have my limits and cannot save / heal the world. I experience great stress with some because they constantly want to be with me and take things too far too quick and I get misunderstood when I try to slow things down.
Unfortunately I have had to be brutally blunt with some and end the whole thing because I believe that this type of relationship will ultimately be really bad for them and me.
Still learning...still growing...desiring health, happiness and love for all!
PS...Hi Mt Moonshine! Good to hear from you. Hoping all is well for you. I have had some intense struggles with my ex. He is a Cap remember? So though we have always struggled, things are so much more difficult between us now. He has become more stubborn, selfish, manipulative and controlling.
My empathy towards him is more or less anger and pity because his behavior is hurting our children, especially our son who is almost 17. I never thought he would ever behave this way towards them. He used to be a very loving supportive father. Now, he is estranging himself with his son and I am powerless to do anything about it.
Other than that. I am doing very well. Things are good and the changes keep getting better and better. Kelly and I are still trying to work out for him to come here. I have missed him so much and he was just here in April. It is so hard to be in such a good relationship and have such limited access to each other. A few visits a year are just not enough to build on. I am struggling with this bigtime. I welcome the winds of change to sweep in and stir this up. Something has to give and bring us together in a more solid way or we must accept the limits and fold our cards. I don't know...
Trusting....
Laurie
Previously, I wrote that this causes me grief with men...it has with women too. I am always amazed that someone who I just meet will call me their best friend so quickly. Relationships...with either sex takes time for me and I will not trust a person who attaches to strongly, too quickly.
I do enjoy friendly rapport etc...but, the elements of good friendships take time and energy and I am a bit cautious who I invest my heart, soul and trust in. I am probably too cautious...but, I too have my hurts and deficiencies.
I don't have any answers...I try very hard to understand. It hurts me to meet up with a toxic (needy) person and have to go very cautiously with them...because I know that sooner or later they will be hurt by me. I have my limits and cannot save / heal the world. I experience great stress with some because they constantly want to be with me and take things too far too quick and I get misunderstood when I try to slow things down.
Unfortunately I have had to be brutally blunt with some and end the whole thing because I believe that this type of relationship will ultimately be really bad for them and me.
Still learning...still growing...desiring health, happiness and love for all!
PS...Hi Mt Moonshine! Good to hear from you. Hoping all is well for you. I have had some intense struggles with my ex. He is a Cap remember? So though we have always struggled, things are so much more difficult between us now. He has become more stubborn, selfish, manipulative and controlling.
My empathy towards him is more or less anger and pity because his behavior is hurting our children, especially our son who is almost 17. I never thought he would ever behave this way towards them. He used to be a very loving supportive father. Now, he is estranging himself with his son and I am powerless to do anything about it.
Other than that. I am doing very well. Things are good and the changes keep getting better and better. Kelly and I are still trying to work out for him to come here. I have missed him so much and he was just here in April. It is so hard to be in such a good relationship and have such limited access to each other. A few visits a year are just not enough to build on. I am struggling with this bigtime. I welcome the winds of change to sweep in and stir this up. Something has to give and bring us together in a more solid way or we must accept the limits and fold our cards. I don't know...
Trusting....
Laurie
a comment on the original topic of Taureans and Sags....
Klove, I have had a few really good relationships with Taureans. My beautiful mom is Taurus and we get along really well. I have had co-workers that were Taureans...my last job was filled with them. We make good partnerships and get much done because we share respect, hard work and good humor!
... I have never had an intimate relationship with a Taurean. I probably never will because I personally am gun shy towards earth signs.
Klove, I have had a few really good relationships with Taureans. My beautiful mom is Taurus and we get along really well. I have had co-workers that were Taureans...my last job was filled with them. We make good partnerships and get much done because we share respect, hard work and good humor!
... I have never had an intimate relationship with a Taurean. I probably never will because I personally am gun shy towards earth signs.
Yes Laurie, you are a lucky one ~ you have found your "perfect" match ~ aries are so
good with saggies
I found one, but alas he was married and though he wanted me badly
couldn't give up his kids.....but I found an even better relationship with a cappie/aquarius
one who understands a lot more than my ex taurus will ever know...
much luck to you~
saggirl57
good with saggies
I found one, but alas he was married and though he wanted me badlycouldn't give up his kids.....but I found an even better relationship with a cappie/aquarius
one who understands a lot more than my ex taurus will ever know...
much luck to you~
saggirl57
thats interesitng lol im with a sag male and were practically falling in love o.o;; and im a taurus too!! kakaka 
or maybe its cus im born on a cusp..lol taurus/gemini, who knows! ^^
or maybe its cus im born on a cusp..lol taurus/gemini, who knows! ^^I am in love with a Sag that I have developed an intense relationship with over the past year and a half. We connected mentally, spiritually, emotionally and then sexually. Although I'm a Taurus,we are pretty much joined at the hip. The thing about Sagg is you must make the mental connection and be friends with them first.
I have to think about this one, but I believe you are on to something. I think we are all the same though reagarless of zodiac sign! WE ARE ALL THE SAME!
Yes. I'd say that at the basic human level we are all the same but how we respond to and use energy is colored by our sun signs.
You have that one right.
My Sagittarius always rationalizes every situation to his advantage. If he does it,it's okay. If I did it , it was wrong,stupid, etc. If his latest sex interest does it, it is PERFECT in every way. Caring about me is/was a waste of time. Caring about his latest piece of bar trash is absolutely necessary, until he gets tired of her too.
You say you do not enjoy hurting others feelings, but I 'll bet that you certainly do not mind doing so. It does not hurt your conscience, since it seems a true Sagittarian does not have a conscience.
"I have to think about this one, but I believe you are on to something. I think we are all the same though reagarless of zodiac sign! WE ARE ALL THE SAME!" hAHaHaAHAHaHaAHAHaHaah..that was funny..:]
"I think that a lot of people have problems, hurts, emotional deficiencies...etc. and have found that a simple, genuine smile, word of encouragement or affirmation can go really far. Sometimes too far. Some persons are so starved for this that when they recieve it they want so much more.
Previously, I wrote that this causes me grief with men...it has with women too. I am always amazed that someone who I just meet will call me their best friend so quickly. Relationships...with either sex takes time for me and I will not trust a person who attaches to strongly, too quickly.
I do enjoy friendly rapport etc...but, the elements of good friendships take time and energy and I am a bit cautious who I invest my heart, soul and trust in. I am probably too cautious...but, I too have my hurts and deficiencies.
I don't have any answers...I try very hard to understand. It hurts me to meet up with a toxic (needy) person and have to go very cautiously with them...because I know that sooner or later they will be hurt by me. I have my limits and cannot save / heal the world. I experience great stress with some because they constantly want to be with me and take things too far too quick and I get misunderstood when I try to slow things down.
Unfortunately I have had to be brutally blunt with some and end the whole thing because I believe that this type of relationship will ultimately be really bad for them and me.
Still learning...still growing...desiring health, happiness and love for all!" Totally. lol
Previously, I wrote that this causes me grief with men...it has with women too. I am always amazed that someone who I just meet will call me their best friend so quickly. Relationships...with either sex takes time for me and I will not trust a person who attaches to strongly, too quickly.
I do enjoy friendly rapport etc...but, the elements of good friendships take time and energy and I am a bit cautious who I invest my heart, soul and trust in. I am probably too cautious...but, I too have my hurts and deficiencies.
I don't have any answers...I try very hard to understand. It hurts me to meet up with a toxic (needy) person and have to go very cautiously with them...because I know that sooner or later they will be hurt by me. I have my limits and cannot save / heal the world. I experience great stress with some because they constantly want to be with me and take things too far too quick and I get misunderstood when I try to slow things down.
Unfortunately I have had to be brutally blunt with some and end the whole thing because I believe that this type of relationship will ultimately be really bad for them and me.
Still learning...still growing...desiring health, happiness and love for all!" Totally. lol
stay away from the rotten cunts
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