Help with sag guy needed !!

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by BambiEyes45 on Friday, September 8, 2017 and has 10 replies.
Ok I've been in a 'situation' with a sag guy since December . We work together and we're friends for a year. We get on incredibly well on every level he's told me numerous times he loves me and has told me he's in love with me but sometimes he gets scared , panics and gallops off. Then comes back and woos me with Romantic songs taking me out for lunch, phone calls that last for 5 hours etc ?

We get really close then I tell him I'm coming to his fie dinner and of course we sleep together !

He tells me he's never got on with a woman the way he gets on with me.

Thing is he's acting weird since we spent time to here last thurs making weird jokes about me going off with other guys . Last week when we were ' together ' the way he held was so different the way he touched me and the way he looked in my eyes was very intense.

But he's acting weird and I texted him yesterday saying I don't know what we are any more he said he was tired and switching his phone off !

he has a lot of stuff going on at work mostly he doesn't know if he'll have a job next month so I feel a little harsh sending him that text but I just think it's time we either moved this forward or stop it . I love him so deeply I've never loved anyone the way I love him but he gives me so many mixed signals !

Him : sag sun

Leo moon

Scorpio Venus

Scorpio mars

Leo rising

Me: Gemini sun

Sag moon

Cancer Venus

Cancer mars

Libra rising
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He loves you! lol What do you mean you don't know whats going on!
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Posted by aflyingarrow
Sorry.. didnt read properly..

Gem sun cancer venus ?.. my man has that too.. and im also a sag sun with scorpio mars..

Little bit of advise?

Let him have his space and dont press him with small stuffs.. the fact that he told you he loves you and your last interactions says that he cares for you..



He's given me a lot of mixed messages in the past one minute saying he doesn't want a relationship, saying he wants to keep his options open and then the next was he was madly in love with me and wanted to commit then said let's just be friends then the next was he's never got on with a woman like he gets on with me...

You can see why I get in a panic plus he's been single and I mean REALLY single for 10 years before me..

at the moment we are supposed to be really good friends... hmmm ? So you can see why I asked him I don't know what we are anymore

I've bought us both tickets to see his favorite band in November I'm just scared to tell him in case he really gallops away !

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Posted by saggurl88
He loves you! lol What do you mean you don't know whats going on!
Agreed.

Don't fawk this up.

He's being mad sweet. The sag man masculine mask coming off is a beautiful thing.

Especially since he's a mars in Scorpio cause control is the name of the game.

You're doing great girlie
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Feel the energy. This should be a telepathic relationship.

Feel, don't think
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Posted by BambiEyes45
Posted by aflyingarrow
Sorry.. didnt read properly..

Gem sun cancer venus ?.. my man has that too.. and im also a sag sun with scorpio mars..

Little bit of advise?

Let him have his space and dont press him with small stuffs.. the fact that he told you he loves you and your last interactions says that he cares for you..



He's given me a lot of mixed messages in the past one minute saying he doesn't want a relationship, saying he wants to keep his options open and then the next was he was madly in love with me and wanted to commit then said let's just be friends then the next was he's never got on with a woman like he gets on with me...

You can see why I get in a panic plus he's been single and I mean REALLY single for 10 years before me..

at the moment we are supposed to be really good friends... hmmm ? So you can see why I asked him I don't know what we are anymore

I've bought us both tickets to see his favorite band in November I'm just scared to tell him in case he really gallops away !

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Great gift.

Saggis have a fear of loss of freedom and impending responsibility.

He may never pull the trigger and do a formal relationship.

But who wants a perferct love story anyway
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Hold the phone.

You managed to get a sag to have a 5 hour phone call???

What's your mercury signs?
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Posted by aflyingarrow
Posted by saggurl88
He loves you! lol What do you mean you don't know whats going on!
I know righhhtttt.... the signs are EVERYWHERE ?
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He told her he loved her at non sexual times and then stared at her lovingly during sex.....REALLY????? ???????
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Posted by DMV
Hold the phone.

You managed to get a sag to have a 5 hour phone call???

What's your mercury signs?


yup we've had quite a few long phone callls. one minute we are making each other cry with laughter and the next talking about spirituality and the cosmos etc! He also reaches out to me if he's struggling with anything usually his demons ( we are both in recovery from active addiction )

Him: sag mercury

Me: Taurus mercury
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by aflyingarrow
Posted by saggurl88
He loves you! lol What do you mean you don't know whats going on!
I know righhhtttt.... the signs are EVERYWHERE ?
He told her he loved her at non sexual times and then stared at her lovingly during sex.....REALLY????? ???????
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I know I know I feel quite silly and the thing Is we are not kids we are both in our mid 40's but I feel like we are a pair of teenagers navigating our way through this ?

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