How do sag males handle a fight with gf

•Im a Taurus with

Moon: Cancer

Mercury:Gemini

Jupiter: Sagittarius

•He's a Sagittarius

Moon: Capricorn

Mercury: Sagittarius

Jupiter: Sagittarius

We have been off and on for 3 years but dated officially for a year and a few months and then broke up in October and he asked me to be his gf again March of this year. He 's being very nice again but he pushes me away when I want to communicate about a problem and he ignores it.

He's lost my trust a lot of times so I always have a lot to talk about but it's very built up so it scares him when I come at him with an issue cause he likes to ignore it and keep going on like nothing.

What are your Venus signs?

Mine is Aries and his is is Sagittarius!

Yea...I can definitely see where you have a hard time with his aloofness and coldness. Looks like you need to decide if you can deal with this long term. Do you see yourself marrying him? Unsure of your ages or if that is something you want. Just thought I would ask. Do you two have kids?

Posted by Blairjones512
•Im a Taurus with

Moon: Cancer

Mercury:Gemini

Jupiter: Sagittarius

•He's a Sagittarius

Moon: Capricorn

Mercury: Sagittarius

Jupiter: Sagittarius

We have been off and on for 3 years but dated officially for a year and a few months and then broke up in October and he asked me to be his gf again March of this year. He 's being very nice again but he pushes me away when I want to communicate about a problem and he ignores it.

He's lost my trust a lot of times so I always have a lot to talk about but it's very built up so it scares him when I come at him with an issue cause he likes to ignore it and keep going on like nothing.

What things has he done outside of breaking up with you that you say he has lost your trust a lot of times? It seems like you are left to deal with your feelings and emotions by yourself without any type of reassurance on his part that he wants the relationship to work.

What from our birthcharts tell you we have problems just curious cause is it the moons or Venus? And idk about marriage probably want someone who is more emotional. I'm 22

I was referring to your Venus in Aries and the attention that you need to feel secure in your relationship that he doesn't seem to not be able to provide you. Are you afraid to break up with him?

He's probably backing up because u want to always discuss a problem. Taurus woman can nag a sag man to death.

That's super draining on saggis.

Give him some real time to miss you. Dont try to control his responses or timeline.

Be super fun and bubbly. The rest of the world can be a nagging draining place.

As his girl, be the complete opposite.

DMV....is much better at this than me. What she said.

Posted by Blairjones512
What from our birthcharts tell you we have problems just curious cause is it the moons or Venus? And idk about marriage probably want someone who is more emotional. I'm 22

For starters, you have opposite moons. Cancer moons ride the tide of the moon and can be more outwardly emotional than Capricorn moons.

Cap moons are slow to react emotionally. Its more tangible for them.

Posted by MsAnn
DMV....is much better at this than me. What she said.

What you said about the venus in aries is very true.

Posted by Blairjones512
He has texted other girls and as soon as we broke up he went for another girl who wasn't as pretty as me so once he realized my looks get me attention I think he got jealous and that's why he asked to date me so fast

Well thats not friggin cool but very common in venus in sag men.

They have like multiple lovers. Nothing wrong with that as long as youre honest.

I wouldn't commit to him again. Id just use him for play time.

Yes I'm super needy after losing trust cause I now need lots of reassurance after being hurt. And yes I'm afraid to do it cause we do have amazing times. He's my best friend.

Posted by TheSagLady
I think i've told u in another thread that your sag guy is doing his slow mental checkout..

And werent you the one who also wants your cap ex back? Sags pick up this energy very well.. and we dont like being an option 😉

People really underestimate how well we pick up on this. We treat someone like an option when they show us that's how they feel about us. Well...bye...and we'll direct our energy elsewhere. We'll be nice but trust in the fact that we are slowly working that person out of our mind. Treating us like an option is a cardinal sin to us and we'll back off NO MATTER how much we love someone. We won't sacrifice our self respect for anyone.

Posted by Blairjones512
I only met that guy because sag broke up with me and started seeing other girls so it was technically his fault that happened but i recently found out he had been snap chatting a girl and he said it was just friendly but he's screwed me over so many times that I don't think he can help from flirting with people or being interested in other girls. I am not in contact with the cap anymore and haven't been for a month. Still seeing if a sag can be faithful and trustworthy after all he's done.

I really think you already know the answer to this. You need to decide if you can deal with who he is because it is clear he is going to do what he wants with who he wants. You are just trying to spare yourself further heartache and your inability to be alone. DMV, advised you to take it for what it is and not push "commitment" as that is not where he is right now at least not with you, given the repeated conversations, snapchats, Instagram, text messages...you get the point, with other women. Your are a Taurus, so you are stubbornly holding on.

Posted by Blairjones512
I only met that guy because sag broke up with me and started seeing other girls so it was technically his fault that happened but i recently found out he had been snap chatting a girl and he said it was just friendly but he's screwed me over so many times that I don't think he can help from flirting with people or being interested in other girls. I am not in contact with the cap anymore and haven't been for a month. Still seeing if a sag can be faithful and trustworthy after all he's done.

But why? You have said over and over how everything is his fault and how he's done so much. Do you just love this up and down rollercoaster of drama??

Let him go... he's already letting you go....

You're a high maintenance hoe. Shut up.

He may be your best friend, but it doesn't sound like you're his best friend.

Posted by Wynter
He may be your best friend, but it doesn't sound like you're his best friend.

That's usually how it goes for us...only to be labeled everything under the sun when in reality we're taken for granted

I'm a sag with scorpio venus-(but I'm a women) I do flirt with other people but its usually just friendly. It never goes anywhere, but I do like the flirty back and forth. Even in a relationship.

I don't cheat though. The flirting is enough for me. I am very secretive about it though.

I don't want to hurt my partners feelings but it is a fun outlet, just because. I also don't like people going through my phone, checking up on me or keeping tabs on what I'm doing either. Nagging about stuff. And if you find out about the harmless flirting by snooping, I won't care. In my head, you deserved it because you were being nosey lol- Sorry I know that's horrible.

Trust is everything- Flirting is nothing to me since it doesn't go anywhere. But people who snoop will always find what they are looking for.

I also am not jealous at all if I find out your flirting with others. As long as you don't take it farther than that. I will verbally let you know that I know about it though, just to give you a heads up. I'd rather not be in a relationship if you want to cheat though, men are free to go at any time with me. No hard feelings, I keep it moving.

Posted by Capmercury87
When I was with my sag guy for three years he did this, 9 years or so later we are "together" and he is nothing like that.

What changed?

Me.

When I was younger I was sort of demanding, always wanting validation that he really loved me. Now that I'm older, broken and damaged I really don't care if some one leaves me or doesn't want me.

I'm not saying get broken, I'm saying relax and don't ware himout, sag men are extremely empathic, mine has a Scorpio venus and mercury I can feel his empathic abilities across the room.

Yes- All about trust. I'm the same way. I do try to treat others how I want to be treated. But if you're snooping in my private stuff and read too much into it, I don't have time for the drama and that's something you need to deal with on your own time.It also breaks my trust and makes me even more secretive. I wouldn't want to be with you much longer cause it takes too much time covering your tracks with everything and being sneaky. Just let me do me and trust when I say I love you I mean it.

Posted by Blairjones512
He has texted other girls and as soon as we broke up he went for another girl who wasn't as pretty as me so once he realized my looks get me attention I think he got jealous and that's why he asked to date me so fast

Looks don't mean shit when your head is pressed into the pillow. Hows her ass?