Me being a Virgo, I??ve had 9 sex partners. My wife, who??s a Sag? I don??t even want to say.
I??ve been reading that Virgo don??t have many sex partners, while Sagittarius have many.
Is this true?
Well anyways, the question is how many sex partners have you had?
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More than many but not as much as most.
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Including my boyfriend, 13.
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I have clingy cancer placements, but after my ex I kind of went crazy because he was the only guy besides 2 more while I was in high school/part of college...didn't really get a chance to date.
Now minus 2, all guys I was at least dating. I tried to do the fwb thing and I couldn't do it, I ended up wanting a relationship...never have or would do a 1 night stand etc. these were guys I wanted to be with, dated, and it didn't work...or bfs. I hate raising my number.
Agentgem24,
That's cool. And your Cancer friend female... WOW! At least she loves sex!!!
Given my very religious and conservative upbringing my numbers were low. I would just go the Deep South on them. Now I love sex, all because of my wife. The penetration, the connection, the passion, the sweat.
Ladies, don??t worry about any consequences. Sex is fun.
Why should it matter how many men you??ve has slept with? Shouldn't it be the fact that the two of you are together at the moment be enough?
What I love about my wife is she??s an open-minded person who has no skeletons in her closet. I totally appreciate her honesty and I say that the past is over and done with.
She was young and silly. Her concept was one-night stands was incredibly erotic and unabashed, but you may not know anything about the other person. But the rush... what turns them on and what drives them wild.
So go ahead and answer. How many sexual partners have you had? And, how old are you now?
Good answer DMV. I like your numbers. Sounds like your age.
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No serious relationships dmv?
I always wanted it to work with 90% of the men I slept with and felt really bad, slutty for having my number go up for "no reason." Sometimes I would even stay with guys because I had sex with them! If I had a regular sex partner, I would call up old familars so I wouldn't have to add new or worry.
For some reason, if a guy has a large number...they are a stud. If a girl has more than a certain amount, like a handful, she's a slut? What?
I had to talk my bf out of this mentality. We have the same number. He went "no you aren't bad for a girl" as have the same number! He goes "but I'm a guy...a girl can open her legs for anyone but if a guy gets with a girl it's harder, he's a stud" I bitch slapped him with my fury.
He was raised strict catholic and his mom instilled and was ok with it, very sexist social norms. He didn't know and better. She even called a female friend of his a whore because she was wearing short shorts in the summer. His parents were eachothers 1sts, she was upset he wasnt Tim TiVo and had drank and etc. she knows he has a gf but she doesn't want to hear about it because she thinks it's distracting from school...he doesn't tell her when he sees me (they are visiting) as that would raise too many questions, she had said "not Christian like" when he mentioned staying over before. He's 24!
I already do not like this woman -.-
But views like that with double standards really frustrate me. Since I've been with him and am working off the brain washing from his mother, he doesn't have them as much. Parenting can have a big impact!
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the double standard is ridiculous but it is the status quo.
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now that i think about it, there have been some near misses. 3 of my greatest loves; 2 saggis, 1 scorp
Saggies are FANTASTIC!!!
I??d never thought I would end up with a Saggie. I thought were too unstable for me. Wow, I was wrong. Saggies is what I needed.
After taking a 10 week pre-marital class and a 12 week Dave Ramsey Financial class, my wife and I found out we need each other. My wife??s the Free-spirit and I??m the Nerd. Every relationship needs stability and security, and they also need fun and excitement.
As for the sex partners? I view it as the past. I believe I??m mature enough to handle it. My wife and I are in our 40??s, we??re partied out. No regrets.
But when you??re young, go have fun, go out and party. You??ll never be 21 again.
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i feel the same muff. everyone has a past and i wouldnt hold it against them. HOWEVER, the people who arent even in the relationship have more of an issue with it that the two people in the relationship.
boggles my mind.
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They may be good in bed, but they are real jerks!!
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the cap i used to mess with was indeed a jerk and had 4 baby mamas.
Just like a Virgo to over think it, sex is fun, plain n simple! Who cares how many people, most sags lose count at some point anyway! Lol jk
Yes, yes. Saggs are sexy fun. Sagittarius has a passion that burns bright with sexual desire. Two bodies that transpose music of physical pleasure into a symphony that sets the human soul on fire.